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Hi, this is Rachel
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McElroy.
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Hello,
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this is Griffin McElroy. And this is wonderful.
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This is a real show hosted by two
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real married people about things we
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like that's good that we're into. It's
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a podcast. We're
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real married. We're
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real married, not the kind of married that
0:33
you do as little kids where you say,
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this is my husband. Oh, I was more
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using real in the sense of like extra,
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like we're real super married. Right? So
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this is not a
0:43
thing that they tell most people, but when you're
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super duper in love, after
0:48
the wedding, there is
0:50
a second sort of priest
0:53
or parishioner. In our case,
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it was a parishioner
0:57
who came up and was like, hey, you guys
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seem super duper in love. Would you like to get for
1:01
real married? And we were like, what did
1:03
we just do? Because it's like an extra level.
1:06
And he's like, it's extra level. Yeah, super
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religious. And me and Rachel are
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like, whoa. But it's like
1:13
extra. It's like the most married you
1:15
can get.
1:16
Yeah. And you know, we're about those achievements.
1:19
So we wanted the extra
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for sure. We wanted the extra. You
1:23
get a second ring. You
1:26
get two cakes. There's
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two DJs that play at
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the party after. There's
1:34
another certificate you sign, but this
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one is like. It's a death certificate.
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And you sign each other's. But
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it's like romantic. Okay. In a way.
1:45
I don't remember that part. So we're super duper
1:47
for real married. It sounds like
1:49
the Lady Dolph protest a little too
1:51
much. Like maybe we're not married at all. And
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it's all a sham. That
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would be the longest most nonsensical
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sort of.
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that anyone's ever around their audience. Can
2:02
I say, we make a big deal out of
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the fact that we are two married people that have a podcast
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together. I don't think people would really care if
2:08
we weren't married. I don't think they would be like,
2:11
well, I thought I was listening to lovers.
2:12
Forget it. Right,
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no, I mean, we do, yeah, that's interesting.
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I mean, there is a certain dynamic between us
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that people seem to enjoy, but would
2:21
it be even better if we weren't married
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and then there was all of a sudden a Jim and Pam
2:26
energy? Oh yeah, people could ship it. Yeah,
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Japan. That's what
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they called him. Uh-huh, Japan. So
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this is wonderful. And do you have any small
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wonders to talk about please for me
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now? Do
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you have them? I
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got yesterday,
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I do a lot of impulse purchasing
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around the weekend because I feel
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like I need a lot of tools
2:53
to get through it with the children. Typically,
2:55
yeah, Marshalls. When you go to Marshalls, it's like, I
2:58
don't know what the fuck you're gonna come back with
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because it's always a surprise. That's their new ad
3:02
campaign. Yeah, Marshalls, come on
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in with plans to buy some gym shorts,
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leave with
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a basketball set.
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Yeah, no, well, anyway, I got one of
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those little Play-Doh sets. This was through
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a grocery delivery platform
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that I use typically for groceries, but
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also goes to other stores that have toys.
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And so I got one of those little Play-Doh
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boxes where the hair, the
3:28
Play-Doh becomes the hair and it goes through
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the top. This is something that I think I always
3:33
wanted personally because
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I basically like pushed our children
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out of the way to use it first. And
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it was exactly as rewarding as I wanted
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it to be.
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Yeah, it feels good to extrude
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anything. Uh-huh, true. Especially
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though, especially
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Play-Doh. I'm gonna say Rachel
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has a recipe in her repertoire
3:57
that you do not bust out very often.
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but when you do, it is grounds
4:02
for a national holiday. I believe it is
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your shrimp and grits
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recipe. Rachel, it's out
4:08
of this world good. The shrimp
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and grits that you make. Can you describe what
4:13
is happening there? Because I don't know.
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Yeah, I mean, I found a recipe
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that claims that it is southern
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style, which I don't know that there's
4:23
another style of shrimp and grits, but
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it involves, when you
4:28
make the grits, it involves butter and milk
4:30
instead of just water. Okay. So
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it's like super rich, and then you add like a big
4:35
cup of cheddar cheese at the end. Love that. And
4:38
then you make the shrimp and what
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they call a Cajun seasoning, I just use Old
4:42
Bay. Oh. And then
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you sprinkle some green onions,
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and you make the shrimp too in bacon fat.
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I mean, it's just, it's- It's not
4:50
good for you. No, and there is
4:53
a reason I don't make it all the time. It
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is very rich.
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I put a little bit of hot sauce on there.
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It is fucking great. It's
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so good. And so
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I celebrate. I see you and I celebrate you.
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Thank you. In this moment.
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And most moments. You
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go first this week. I do. What do you want
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to say? What do you want to talk about? You
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got the laptop on the floor I see.
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Here we come, here it goes. Backing
5:19
it open, just jacking in. Wow,
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no password on that, huh? I
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had the little touch with my finger. I
5:27
do have a password, but you know. A
5:29
password's your finger. It's
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not secure. Someone could steal your
5:34
fingerprint with a wine glass, a
5:37
Danny Ocean type, get out of your files.
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Just saying. Yeah, all
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of that could be true. Do you want to hear my thing? I
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was stalling there. No, I know,
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I know. But I had my computer
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open, I was ready. I wanted to let you know you could
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stop stalling. Please. Because
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what I have is a trip for us to the poetry corner.
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Oh, it's been so long. Let me dust out these cobwebs.
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with this big standup bass. Bum,
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bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum,
6:04
bum, bum, bum, bum,
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bum, bum, bum. I gotta restring this thing. It sounds
6:08
terrible. Oh,
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is that it? That was it, yeah. Wow. It's
6:14
really messed up right now. I gotta take it into
6:16
the shop. The
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poet I wanted to share
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with y'all this week is Franny Choi. Ooh,
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I don't know that one. Yeah, I didn't either
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until just recently. Oh, that's fun. I
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do this thing sometimes where I will find a poet
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I know I like, and then I will just kind of follow
6:33
the train from that poet. Like, you
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know, a lot of sites will be like, if you like this
6:38
poet, you should check out this one. And
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that's how I found Franny Choi. Okay.
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So I wanna communicate who
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she is in the way that she
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seems to define herself. I
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read several interviews, and they always introduced
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her as a queer Korean-American
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poet, playwright, teacher, and organizer.
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So many hats. So many
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hats. Yeah, she
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has three poetry collections.
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The most recent one is The World
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Keeps Ending and The World Goes On,
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which came out in 2022. And
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she actually, speaking of somebody
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cutting off my finger to hack into my laptop. I did
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not say that. I
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did not say that. What did you say? Like on
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a wine glass, you know?
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Have you seen any of the ocean? Danny
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Ocean doesn't cut someone's finger off
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to
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hack in. Sorry. Anyway,
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she writes a lot about tech. Her
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first book of poetry was called Soft
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Science. It came out in 2019. And
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there was an interview with her in the Paris
7:44
Review, and the
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interviewer asked her how soft science began.
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And she said, the book came
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out of writing a series of poems that were inspired
7:54
by and in the voice of a character from the film
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Ex Machina, Kyoko. Oh, cool.
7:59
When I watched that film, I had a particular combination
8:01
of emotional responses that provoked a desire
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to write, a mix of love, confusion, and
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outrage. I started writing
8:08
to try to understand what I was feeling about
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her, and then quickly realized that the poems were
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speaking to other poems about my own experience
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as an Asian American woman, as a
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queer Asian American woman, about
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moving through the world in a body that had been
8:21
made an object of desire, fantasy,
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and power, living as a soft,
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fleshy, objectified human of
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the
8:28
world. I think about that
8:30
movie a lot. It really got stuck
8:32
in my craw in a way that some movies
8:35
do.
8:35
A lot of challenging ideas
8:38
in that film. If you haven't seen it, it's about
8:41
this sort of amoral
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tech bro asshole played
8:46
by, I think, was it, was that Oscar Isaacs?
8:49
Was, was it that one?
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Oscar Isaac was it? Yeah, wow. And
8:56
he has this like retreat in
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the wilderness that a
9:00
new employee at his tech company
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comes to, and he reveals that he has developed AI,
9:06
like an AI person. And
9:08
Kyoko is a much more
9:11
earlier, sort of very, very subservient
9:15
AI
9:15
controlled entity in
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the film, who ends up having kind
9:20
of a tragic arc, as pretty much everyone
9:22
in the film does. Yes, yes, yes. Very messed
9:24
up ending, I would say. Very, very, very,
9:27
very scary stuff. So
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I wanted to read a poem that she had published
9:32
in the New York Times
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that is called Unrequited Love
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Song for the Panopticon.
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All right. Once
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I breathed without your blue metronome
9:43
rising beside me at night.
9:45
Once I turned the pages of magazines
9:48
and only God saw. When we met,
9:50
we chatted first in placid facts.
9:53
How many siblings do you have? What was
9:55
the name of your first pet?
9:57
After I cover your eyes, walk off
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into.
9:59
where you couldn't follow. Back
10:02
then, I had just one brain. I
10:04
was lonely, that is, when you emerged,
10:06
sturdy as a cage. You remembered
10:09
every anniversary.
10:10
You licked my data and didn't wince at
10:13
the smell. What is your mother's maiden
10:15
name? Do you want to save your billing address?
10:18
Truth is, I wanted to be known, cracked
10:20
open by gentle hands. You
10:22
completed my sentences, sent me gifts,
10:25
gifs, wine wrecks, calibrated
10:27
to my thumbprint, reminders to meditate,
10:30
reminders to menstruate, my own
10:32
memories.
10:33
Are you still watching? Who have you
10:35
called and for how long did you speak? You
10:38
listened when I asked for advice, when
10:40
I hummed in the shower, you were always listening.
10:43
Now I'm porous as a spreadsheet, tethered
10:46
to your tentacular benevolence. List
10:49
of prescription medications. Darling,
10:51
I have no secrets from you, though I've
10:53
never seen your face. Difference
10:56
in heart rate during and after playback,
10:58
during and after sex. Tell
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me, does your inquisition carry a smell?
11:03
Genetic predisposition toward impulse
11:06
spending. What are you afraid of? Where
11:08
do you go when you're a dream-based investment
11:11
potential
11:12
in sleep mode? Can you feel
11:14
it when I touch you here? Will you think of
11:16
me when I'm gone? That
11:19
fucking ruled. That
11:22
was the best poem ever. Tentacular
11:25
benevolence is the strongest
11:29
two words I've ever heard
11:31
said together. That
11:33
fucking rule was a good
11:36
ass poem.
11:36
I thought you would like that.
11:38
Fuck yeah, I did. I thought you would
11:40
like that. Yeah, you know what's interesting? So
11:43
I- Boris
11:44
as a spreadsheet. That shit,
11:46
rule, what a good fucking poem. I
11:48
was watching YouTube clips of her
11:51
performing her poetry,
11:57
which I usually do just to kind of get a sense.
11:59
one of how the writer
12:02
pronounces their name, but also
12:04
just kind of what the tone is
12:06
of the poem. And then I did
12:09
a little more research on her. She was a finalist
12:11
in the National Poetry Slam, the
12:15
individual world poetry slam and
12:17
the woman of the world poetry slam. And
12:20
she is the co-director
12:23
of the Providence Poetry Slam.
12:25
Just a slammer sort of 24 seven, it sounds like.
12:29
Yeah, and that explains like if you
12:31
watch footage of her reading
12:33
her poems, if you read some of her work too,
12:36
it has that kind of cadence like
12:38
the word play and the
12:41
kind of preference towards
12:43
sound. Like
12:46
you can tell right away. If you're somebody who
12:48
has seen a lot of
12:50
performance poetry, which I have at this point.
12:54
But anyway, yeah, she brings
12:56
a lot of energy to
12:58
her work
13:00
and she talks a lot about
13:02
technology, obviously because of her first book,
13:05
Soft Science. But she talks
13:07
about how she understands that
13:09
it is kind of this thing that people are
13:11
afraid of or that they
13:13
view kind of as a guilty pleasure, but she
13:16
sees like there should be room for
13:18
kind of more emotion and more complicated
13:21
feelings. Of course, yeah. About it and kind
13:23
of how we retain
13:25
ourselves in that. And
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I feel like that poem really speaks to
13:30
it.
13:30
I genuinely,
13:32
I loved everything about that poem, but I
13:35
think I love that most of all this idea.
13:38
There's this like weird stigma around
13:41
technology in the arts.
13:44
And I
13:47
think we have it through like a very specific lens of
13:50
having kids and
13:53
having this enormous sort of stigma around
13:56
how you use that as
13:58
a parent. when that
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kind of ignores the fact that it's
14:03
like everything we
14:05
do now involves
14:08
this sort of panopticon and
14:10
to just sort of write that
14:12
off or say that it is not worth
14:15
thinking about artistically
14:17
or creatively in that way, I think
14:20
is like pretty stupid. Well,
14:23
and there's just such an opportunity for
14:26
like a worldliness, you know? I feel like
14:28
there's a chance to kind of move past
14:29
a
14:33
lot of ignorance when you can access
14:35
information and from all
14:37
parts of the world. I
14:40
just think about our
14:42
big son who is incredibly
14:44
curious and
14:47
is always kind of chasing
14:49
his interests through his use
14:51
of technology. And
14:54
that's exciting, that's cool as a parent.
14:56
Yeah, it's like I'm not
14:58
saying
14:59
that technology and
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I guess in the case of this poem, sort of like
15:05
the way that we are observed
15:07
by the technology that is designed to help
15:10
us and also sort of absorb and
15:12
assimilate our personal data for
15:14
the use of the corporations
15:16
that made it. Like I
15:18
feel like there is a knee jerk
15:21
demand
15:22
to be
15:24
to like shun that shit in the like
15:27
bankiest way, imaginable 100% of
15:30
the time. Without acknowledging the fact that
15:32
it's like
15:33
you are just also describing a thing that every
15:36
person uses, well, most
15:39
people use like every day throughout their lives
15:41
and it's just like an aspect of life
15:43
now that is worth
15:45
considering and reflecting upon without
15:48
just instantly being like, it's bad.
15:52
Yeah, that's great. What a good poem, thank
15:54
you for, what was her name again? Franny
15:57
Choi. Franny Choi, excellent, great
15:59
work, Franny.
15:59
Keep it up. 10 out of 10, Paul. 10 out
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of 10. Can I steal your wig? Yes.
16:05
Cool. Hey, Griffin. Hi, babe.
16:08
Can I talk to you about parking? Yes. Oh,
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God. It's terrible, right? So bad.
16:14
where are we going to put our car? We
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were like, oh, yeah, we're going to Austin. We're going to Austin. We're
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We're going to Austin. We're going to Austin. that
16:25
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16:27
e-bike. Oh, right. Yeah. Yeah.
16:32
And I, I mean, set it and forget it,
16:34
you know? Well,
16:38
don't forget it. You'll, you'll want to get the bike
16:39
back. That is true. And you know why I want to get the bike
16:41
back? Because this is a great bike. Is a great bike.
16:44
It's a great bike. It drives really good. It's
16:46
multi-purpouse. Yeah. It's electric.
16:49
The whole thing's electric. It's kind of a ride-that-works-perfect thing. It's
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a good thing. It's a great bike. It's a
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16:56
you can throw it in the back of your car if you want.
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17:01
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17:03
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17:06
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17:11
there are lots of hills. Oh yeah. And
17:13
I don't want to sweat going up that hill. No.
17:16
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I feel like it has kind of changed my whole
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20:20
the most
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20:24
trains, baby. Now
20:27
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20:30
I did see
20:32
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20:34
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20:36
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20:39
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20:42
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20:44
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20:44
Yeah, I imagine the way you're talking
20:46
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20:49
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20:51
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20:53
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20:54
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20:57
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21:00
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21:02
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21:04
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21:07
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21:16
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21:25
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21:26
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21:29
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21:31
specifically talking about Amtrak? I
21:34
mean, yes, I guess I am talking about long distance. I
21:36
love a subway train. Yeah, because I was gonna say
21:38
there are a lot of... Sure. I think a
21:41
light rail, any other form of sort of
21:44
public transit that one would use on a daily
21:47
basis, that's obviously amazing too.
21:50
And I love availing myself
21:52
of that here in DC when
21:54
we have a chance to use it. I
21:57
think I am mostly focusing more on trains
21:59
as well.
21:59
long distance sort of
22:03
transportation. Yeah, I will say it's interesting
22:06
because there was a period of time when I live in
22:08
Chicago and I would take the train to St. Louis and
22:10
I kind of hated that train ride
22:13
because it's- I'm so short.
22:15
It's not though. Chicago
22:17
to St. Louis- Okay, six hours? Yeah,
22:20
about that. But the problem is that
22:23
there were
22:23
always delays and I think it was something
22:25
unique about that route because
22:28
a lot of times what would happen is another train
22:30
would need to go by and you would have to
22:32
like sit on the side and wait. And
22:35
that was at the time when cell phone technology
22:37
was not great either. So I was
22:39
like scrambling to like tell my parents
22:42
like, hey, I am actually
22:44
going to be an hour to maybe two
22:46
hours. Please don't leave
22:48
the house yet. So it's funny
22:49
because I looked up just as a data
22:51
point, like the comparison between air travel
22:54
and train travel with regards to- Delays.
22:57
Delays, right? And the
23:00
numbers are somewhat comparable actually. Like
23:02
if for air travel across the airlines,
23:05
some are better than others, like Frontier, it's
23:08
like 31% of flights are delayed
23:10
in some way. I forget what the
23:12
best one was, but it was only like 20%. Basically
23:15
between 20 and 30% of flights
23:18
are delayed regardless of what airline that you
23:20
are going on. The numbers are roughly
23:22
the same for train travel because
23:24
a vast majority
23:27
of those delays are due to
23:30
freight trains that block
23:33
routes, right? That's an inevitable.
23:36
Freight trains always run on time. Freight trains are
23:38
always going to get there because I guess they take priority.
23:41
But delays are much, much shorter
23:43
in duration on average. I
23:46
saw some fact about like for an Amtrak
23:48
train that goes like 550 miles on a route, on
23:54
average is arriving at its final
23:56
destination just like a half hour past. Yeah,
23:59
see.
23:59
compared to a plane, like once
24:02
a delay starts to happen on
24:04
a flight, odds are it's going to
24:07
keep rolling and keep rolling
24:08
and keep rolling. No, that's true. And just the,
24:10
I mean, the experience of airports just
24:12
seems to have gotten worse and worse
24:15
as we have gotten older in a
24:18
train station and the process of getting
24:20
on a train, oh, it's so pleasant. Right,
24:22
so the amount of time you have to factor
24:24
in when you fly between getting to the airport,
24:27
parking, getting on the shuttle
24:30
at the parking lot to the terminal,
24:33
getting your boarding passes, dropping off your
24:35
bags, going through security, waiting
24:37
at the gate, boarding, waiting to taxi, then
24:39
flying and then landing, and then waiting to park at the
24:41
gate, waiting to deplane, waiting for your bags.
24:43
Like there's so much time not
24:46
spent flying when
24:48
you're flying. And
24:51
it's stressful, that
24:54
entire process of just getting on the plane,
24:56
especially with kids, it's so fucking
24:59
stressful. And with
25:01
a train, you show up to the
25:03
station five minutes before the train
25:05
arrives at the station and you just
25:08
walk on, you just walk right on
25:10
it and you put your bags in the rack and then
25:12
you go on the train.
25:13
It's so wild to me that you get
25:15
on a train, you sit down and only after
25:17
the train starts moving does somebody come by. Come
25:19
and get
25:19
your ticket, it's crazy. You
25:23
know, like I get that there's probably
25:25
not a lot of people trying to scam the train
25:27
system, but it is surprising
25:29
to me, like
25:31
just to be like, I'm already here. And
25:34
now you wanna know if I'm supposed to be here. Like
25:37
obviously
25:38
trains are slower than planes
25:41
for longer distances, right? Like we
25:44
live on the East Coast as a result,
25:46
when I'm about to fly to Seattle
25:49
for PAX and that flight is
25:51
like five and a half hours, that's a long flight.
25:53
The train would I think be about like 36 hours,
25:57
like that's not tenable for me where I'm
25:59
at.
25:59
in my life. Now I will
26:02
say my great dream is that in
26:04
my lifetime, we will have a high speed
26:06
rail system that crisscrosses
26:08
this beautiful country of ours like they have in Japan
26:11
or China or most parts of Europe. Not
26:14
happening
26:15
quite yet, which is unfortunate. But
26:18
yeah, I gotta fly to the West Coast. That's just how it is.
26:20
But for Washington
26:23
to New York,
26:24
I think it's actually faster once you
26:26
factor in all of the bullshit
26:29
at the two airports that you have to
26:31
go to to just take a train. It's
26:34
faster and in most cases,
26:35
much cheaper. Yeah, definitely faster than
26:37
driving also. Yes. Also
26:40
train stations are, especially
26:43
in bigger cities,
26:44
gorgeous. Union Station here in DC
26:47
is one of the most unfathomably
26:50
beautiful insides of a building
26:52
I have ever been in. It is cathedral-esque
26:56
and I love it so much. I'm hopping all
26:58
around my notes right now. I'm just quantum
27:01
leaping all the way through these notes because I'm just so fucking
27:03
excited about trains. They're
27:05
huge. You get so much more
27:07
space. Sometimes you can get a table where you just sit
27:10
across from the people you wanna just chat with and just
27:12
play a board game or whatever the fuck.
27:14
Yeah, the fact that you can get out of
27:16
your seat and move around is
27:18
a huge pro now that we have children. Our
27:21
young son is at an age that is
27:23
the worst for travel because he is
27:26
very active and rambunctious and
27:28
cannot sit still for a minute.
27:30
Yeah. On an airplane, that sucks because
27:33
there is nothing for us. We will literally just run
27:36
up and down the aisle and
27:38
then just stay in the back of the plane
27:41
with the flight attendants.
27:42
And you just have to pray that you get a flight attendant
27:45
that is very forgiving. Yes, on a
27:47
train. Because yeah, obviously planes
27:49
are not intended to have children
27:51
running back and forth on them all the time. On train,
27:54
run around as much as you want. Hop between
27:56
cars if you want. Go to the dining car, buy
27:58
yourself some snacks.
27:59
I didn't even think about this. I was reading
28:02
an article on why train travel kicks ass.
28:04
Bring your own snacks, bring your own
28:06
food and drinks from home because they're not going to make you throw it
28:09
the fuck away as soon as
28:11
you get to the train station
28:12
like they do at an airport. The number of
28:14
times that we had to fly
28:16
with one of our kids and
28:19
every single TSA agent looked
28:21
at the bottles of milk that we would bring through
28:24
as if they were some sort of like
28:27
improvised explosive device is 100%
28:29
of the time. It's every single time when
28:31
it's like, no, that's milk. The baby needs that for nutrition
28:34
and living, like babies
28:36
do it.
28:37
They don't care on a train. Just bring whatever
28:39
the fuck you want. The bathroom's
28:42
so spacious. You don't have to squeeze your knees together
28:45
just to fit in the thing and then somehow get your
28:47
hand down there when it's wiping time. I don't want
28:49
to get blue, but like it's a reality of
28:51
fact of life and
28:53
you don't have to do that on train. I
28:55
don't remember train bathrooms being that much
28:57
bigger. Oh my God, they're so big. On the Amtrak
28:59
that we took back from Richmond to
29:01
DC, those were like the size of this office.
29:05
They were gargantuan. Let's
29:08
talk scenery. It beats planes in every
29:10
way. Okay,
29:12
I will say this, in a plane you get a good
29:15
vista of a nice big city or
29:17
clouds, just an ocean of paradise
29:20
of clouds from above. I love
29:22
that. But you've kind of seen one, you've
29:24
seen them all. Trains, you're down
29:26
in it, man. You're zooming through all the beautiful
29:29
biomes of this great planet of ours. And
29:31
I like that very much. Some trains have observation
29:33
cars that are just big windows. You can just sit and just
29:36
kick it and watch the trees go
29:38
by, the foliage.
29:39
You've been on a train that had like a
29:41
sleeper situation, right? You can get a sleeper
29:43
car if you really splurge. Not
29:46
all trains have them. Not all trains have them. And
29:48
frankly, you don't need them for a lot of things,
29:50
but we, I forget, we were on tour,
29:53
traveling on a train. We didn't really even need
29:55
the sleeper car because it was only like a four hour trip,
29:58
which is not, you
29:59
know. You can go four hours without sleeping. I
30:02
hope. But I did avail
30:04
myself of it. And it was amazing
30:06
just being rocked and lulled to sleep by
30:09
the movement of the powerful engine.
30:12
I was in hog
30:14
heaven, plugging in all my
30:16
devices to the copious power
30:19
outlets, jacking into the web
30:21
on the free Wi-Fi that most like long
30:24
distance commuter trains have now.
30:26
I mean, what else do I need to say?
30:30
They're
30:30
amazing. They beat plane travel in
30:33
every conceivable way. Much more affordable also.
30:35
Much more affordable. I don't get like terrible
30:38
like sinus problem. I get
30:40
bad like baro trauma from being on
30:42
an airplane from pressurizing the cabins. Like
30:45
I would say coin flip like 50% of the time, especially
30:48
if I don't pound the flow nays like a couple of days
30:50
before, which remind me I need to
30:53
start hitting that now for the Seattle flight. I
30:55
get sick on an airplane. On a
30:57
train they don't pressurize the cabins because you're on
30:59
the ground where
31:00
God intended you to be. Now we are recording
31:03
this in 2023. The future
31:05
of train travel, I mean, maybe it
31:07
gets. Even better. Here's
31:10
the thing because train. I will say people also
31:13
used to love planes. That's what I will say. People used
31:15
to love planes. So planes have fucking fallen off.
31:17
Every
31:17
single sort of airline has
31:20
like had a, I would say a steep decline
31:22
in quality over
31:25
the last five or six years, especially
31:27
during COVID. Train demand
31:31
has gone up. Amtrak has had to add
31:33
new trains to their lines. So
31:36
there's not, tragically we just had
31:38
this big infrastructure package in
31:40
late 2021. I think that
31:42
it did not include, I believe one
31:45
red cent for high speed
31:47
rails.
31:47
But imagine if we did have that,
31:50
it would be a totally different conversation about
31:53
how people got around in this country in
31:55
such a major way.
31:59
I joke
32:01
a lot about my enthusiasm for
32:03
trains, but it is genuine and
32:05
it is very powerful. And I
32:07
would be so, that would be a life
32:09
changing thing for so many
32:11
people if we could get that.
32:13
You think Joe Biden would be all about it.
32:15
You think that would be a operation? Scraneman
32:18
loves his trains. Like took
32:20
the train into DC every
32:22
day or whatever. I feel like, you know. I'll
32:24
talk to him.
32:26
Yeah, see what you can do.
32:27
Romantic too, trains are. And
32:30
Joe Biden maybe. Trains are so romantic.
32:32
If before sunrise took place on an airplane.
32:35
True. Totally different story. Because also
32:38
I think Jessie convinces Celine
32:40
to get off the train before
32:42
she reaches her final destination which is not how
32:45
airplanes work. They
32:47
would jump out of it. They would have to skydive out
32:49
of the, oh okay, or more importantly,
32:52
the beginning of the film, she trades, she
32:54
changes seats because there's a couple
32:56
arguing next to her and sits next to Jessie. That's
33:00
how the romance sparks. They don't let you do that shit on airplanes. So
33:03
there, take that in your pipe and shove
33:05
it airplanes. You're
33:08
the worst. I like that we've set up this
33:11
environment where you have to be pro one and
33:13
anti the other. And we are very firmly
33:16
pro train
33:17
anti planes. There's parts of plane travel
33:19
that I also do not mind. It
33:21
is genuinely very beautiful to see a city
33:23
from above as you're coming down into
33:26
it.
33:27
A short flight is
33:29
incredible. I will say when
33:31
you are flying, when
33:33
we used to have to fly from Austin
33:36
to Dallas or when I used to fly from
33:38
St. Louis to Chicago, those flights
33:40
that are like an hour at
33:43
the train. They're fine, but you're also spending an hour and
33:45
a half going through all the airport bullshit.
33:47
Just take a train, man. Just take
33:50
a train. You
33:52
get to watch movies. I watched John Wick 4 on
33:54
an airplane recently. That was nice. Sometimes
33:57
there's food.
33:59
And you know, I love
34:01
having gadgets on the plane and
34:03
just sitting down and playing a game or something.
34:06
But most of the time there's no chargers. Uh oh,
34:08
my switch is dead. Now I'm
34:09
just bored. Not a problem
34:11
on trains. Trains kick ass in every
34:13
way. Thank you so much, trains. Brigid.
34:17
Oh wait. You got an
34:19
intro. Hey, you wanna know what our friends
34:21
at home are talking about? Yes, please. Brigid
34:24
has a small wonder here. Brigid says, my
34:26
small wonder is reaching the end of a tube of ChapStick.
34:29
It's rare that I can keep track of one long enough
34:31
to use it all up. It feels so satisfying when
34:33
I do. I'll be honest, I do not know this
34:35
feeling.
34:35
Yeah, I don't know that I've ever. Ever, ever,
34:38
ever. I've never lived, I mean
34:40
maybe, okay, if I like grew up
34:42
in Minnesota or Chicago
34:45
or whatever and
34:48
lived in a sort of chappy environment,
34:49
then maybe
34:52
I could see myself staying. Well, I will say
34:54
I'm always convinced that there is a better
34:56
lip product out there. And
34:59
so a lot of times I will switch halfway through only
35:01
because I have decided that this
35:04
is not the one I want. I've gotta
35:06
chase this $9 thing because
35:08
that's gonna be the best.
35:09
James says
35:12
cultural festivals are wonderful. Specifically,
35:14
the chance to eat lots of super delicious foods that
35:16
are otherwise hard to find
35:18
in my town. Yes,
35:20
yes. Growing up in Huntington,
35:22
there
35:23
was. You guys have food festivals
35:25
every weekend. We have food festivals every weekend that were
35:28
not inherently cultural
35:30
in nature. No, unless
35:32
the culture was in fact Huntington, West Virginia.
35:34
Well, I mean, yeah, hot dogs and rib
35:36
fest and chili fest and like we had lots
35:39
of fest. But there was a Greek festival that
35:43
was like a
35:44
big deal and it was across
35:46
the street from my elementary school. And
35:49
we went to that shit a lot. And that is
35:51
where I had heroes for the first time. I
35:56
had lots of tasty food at the Greek festival.
35:58
Yeah, I'm always looking for stuff like that.
35:59
in DC. Like I will always
36:02
eagerly check out a like an events calendar
36:05
to see if we can bring the boys to something
36:07
like that. Hey thanks to Bowen
36:08
and Augustus for these for a theme song Money Won't Pay.
36:10
You'll find a link to that in the episode description. And
36:13
thank you to Maximum Fun for having us on the network. I
36:15
mentioned it a couple times during my preaching
36:19
about trains but we're going to be in Seattle this
36:21
weekend doing My
36:23
Brother, My Brother and Me and the Adventure Zone
36:25
during PAX West. We're also, if
36:27
you're going to be at PAX, doing a couple panels. If you
36:29
go to Macroi.Family you can get tickets for those shows.
36:32
I think they might be sold out. I don't know. And
36:35
find out details on when our panels are and
36:37
stuff. Come see us and it'll
36:40
be a great time. We got some more shows coming up
36:42
too that you could learn about at Macroi.Family
36:44
as well. Got more merch over at MacroiMerch.com.
36:46
Can I mention your YouTube streams? Yes
36:49
please. I will
36:51
kind of save them up and treat
36:54
them as a little lunchtime entertainment
36:56
but Griffin and his brothers
36:59
will play some
37:01
Mario games together. Yes. And
37:03
it is so fun and funny
37:06
and I always enjoy it. If you've
37:07
not watched it we play Super Mario
37:09
World. By the time you're hearing this we
37:11
hopefully finished the game yesterday
37:14
in a series we called
37:16
Super Macroi Brothers and
37:18
we split up controls so that I do the jumping,
37:21
Justin does the moving, Travis does everything
37:23
else and it's cockamamie and so
37:25
fun. It's insane that it works. Sometimes
37:27
I watch it and you guys will not
37:29
be communicating you will just be like
37:32
blood harmonizing. Same brain. Yeah.
37:34
Yeah. Yeah. It's a lot of fun
37:36
and we have a lot of other stuff on there too. A lot of video
37:38
game stuff. A lot of good stuff at the
37:41
Macroi.Family YouTube channel. Go check that
37:43
out.
37:43
That's it. Thanks for listening. We sure
37:45
do appreciate you. We'll be back next week with another
37:48
great episode. Have a great
37:50
time. Have a great time out there. Have a great weekend everybody.
37:53
Have a great weekend. Any big plans? Oh
37:56
that sounds fun. I'm talking to the audience
37:58
now. No I know.
37:59
I'll probably answer back. What's that? Oh,
38:03
that sounds exciting.
38:06
Oh, and also I'm
38:08
sorry that your weekend plans
38:11
are not what you want them to be because
38:14
there's probably listeners that have that too. Oh,
38:16
okay, yeah, you do the sad ones and I'll do the fucking
38:19
party animals.
38:50
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