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welcome
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to the you are not so smart
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podcast, episode
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236
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this is the first episode
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of the you and also smart podcast to come
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out after my new book how
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minds change is out
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there it has been released it is
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a real book
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the real you might think would be
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after all this time working on it
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you you can can hold in in your hands it's
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printed on paper with
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ink and it's available
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wherever every get get to your books and i
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i really appreciate who has reached out
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and said very nice things about about
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this is also the first episode
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of this like has to come out
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after the us supreme court ruling that
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struck down roe versus wade
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making abortion illegal in many
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states so that
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makes the book more
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timely than i expected to be given
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so much of it deals with the
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political landscape the state of ever
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stomach crisis and information chaos
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we are content with everyday then
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it focuses deeply on how
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to change minds on issues like
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this originally
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i plan for this episode to just be an interview
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with chris clearfield as the interviewer
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asked me about the book that's still
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in here as at the india the
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the after that ruling i thought i'd add
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a reading of an excerpt that's relevant
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to this moment extremely relevant to smaller
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that is up this is from
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chapter two how minds
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tunes right tell you all
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about my time at leadership lab
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and los angeles the political action
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wing of the los angeles lgbt
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center who spent years
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recording their conversations at people's front
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doors discussing difficult
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contentious wedge issues according
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more than fifteen thousand of them on video
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they use those videos to ab
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test their approach keeping woodwork
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the runway what didn't until
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they zeroed in on persuasion
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technique that so new and so effective
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that scientists have been flying
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out there for a while to study
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what's going on there the
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papers they produce the really advanced
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or understanding of persuasion itself
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the lab developed a technique
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through pursuing the goal of changing
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people's intention to vote for or
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against laws that would affect the lives
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of lgbtq people with
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the hope of reducing prejudice
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the harm the doing that
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they develop something called deep canvassing
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the method by which you approach a person
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one on one have another friend
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or into non judgmental
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he inviting a person to open up about the
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real feelings about the issue help
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them discover conflicting emotions beliefs
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and ideas and attitudes which they may
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not be completely consciously aware
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then by modeling vulnerability
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sharing their own stories the
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asking questions they
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listen their way the
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changing the other person's mind many
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of other techniques write about the book it's
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about opening and and holding space
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for introspection medical condition for
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the other person the bit like
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certain therapeutic model the
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motivational interviewing there's
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a bit like the socratic method both
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would fall under the category of technique
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rebuttal my topic
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about which is more like a debate
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where people face off against each other cherry
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pick facts and talking points as if
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they're behind like turns five audience looking
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to when looking to defeat their opponent
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technique rebuttal puts you in the other person
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shoulder to shoulder exploring
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each other's reasoning and motivations
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how does excerpt from about to read? comes
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from a visit, in
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which i was was running the camera while steve the
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line the deep canvasser spoke
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with people about abortion rights and
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at this point the book, the lab
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suspected their technique could be used
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on any topic but they
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had yet to hit on the best way to apply
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it to change minds about abortion among
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people opposed to as the galaxy
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so our mission as
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we went out door door in los angeles success
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or failure just
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to record our efforts for their later
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review to learn something
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surprising happened that
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introduction here's the excerpt
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from our minds change not
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from the audio book reading this
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right now
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just this podcast
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after full day of frustration his
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back to the son and his shirt served
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steve finally made breakthrough the
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last house on our route
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martha seventy two that
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she was strongly opposed to abortion
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then
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tried politely returned however she had been
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spending her saturday before we interrupted
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he said steve couldn't come
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inside because of her protective dog a
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common deflection stephen later tell me
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the told her not to worry they didn't want
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to coincide this wanted to ask
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them questions and hear opinions
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martha softened agreed to share them the
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basque on abortion rights we're
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she saw herself on scale of
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zero the tip the
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role being a believe there should be no
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legal access to abortion in anyway
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and
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and 10 being support for complete
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full, easy access
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without hesitation martha
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said she was was a a five steve
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raised and made a mark
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while nodding when the asked martha
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why that number felt right to her martha
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told us everyone had the right to their
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own bodies but she had had a problem with
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women who quote have
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one after the the other people
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tell me me later they had learned of over
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our many conversations that reasons
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justifications and explanations
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for maintaining ones existing opinion can
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be endless spawning like heads
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of a hydra the cut one
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away more would appear tickets
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place did canvassers
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want to avoid that unwinnable
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site the do that
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they allow a person's justifications to
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remain unchallenged they nod
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and listen the idea
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is to move forward make
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the person feel hurt and respected avoid
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arguing over person's conclusions instead
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work to discover the motivations
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behind them that
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end next step is to
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evoke a person's emotional response
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to the issue he said
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he would love to get martha's opinion about
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a video then pulled out his phone
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of the clip already playing
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the woman told camera she got
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pregnant and twenty two despite using
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birth control he said she
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knew right away she wanted an abortion
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didn't want to spend the rest for life with
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a man she was dating he
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wanted a further education horse
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she had kids martha
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seemed the uneasy revoking
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negative emotions like this campuses
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as people if their opinion has changed
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they really ask them where they are on scale
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of zero to ten sampling
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their newly salient feelings people
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often movie numbers mother
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said she was definitely still a
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five he had moved
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the asked her why this
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you didn't the after what
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the video mirror think he
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said he believed woman should discuss her feelings
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about kids with her partner before
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they had sex they
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should have use protection the
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training the city was here in conversation
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that deep camus or must perform their most
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delicate work even
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a person's ratings don't move the
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camels her nose people have begun to think
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about their emotions and wonder why
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do i feel this way after
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a twinge of unresolved introspection
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people become highly motivated sort
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out their feelings they will
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didn't produce new set of justifications
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weaker perhaps than before this
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encourages a conversation instead
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of arguing the camels or listens
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helping the builder untangle their thoughts
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by asking questions and reflecting
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back their answers to make certain they're
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hearing them correctly the
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people feel heard further
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articulate their opinions the
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often begin to question
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it's like we're solving a mystery together
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stephen later tell me there's
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people explain themselves they begin produce
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fresh insights the why feel one
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way or another this
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indicates they've engaged in active
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processing instead defending
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the begin contemplating once
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person contemplating they often
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produce their own counter arguments the
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newfound ambivalence washes over
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them if enough counter
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argument stack up the balance
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may tip in favor of change
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the moved the next stage according
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to the training if he could have a memory
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from her own life that contradicted the
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reasoning she had shared she might
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notice the conflict with him having to pointed
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out the remain
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private the she wouldn't feel like steve
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was challenging her to
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be challenging yourself and
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if through his support behind the conflicting thoughts
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that favored the opinion he was there to champion
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she might shift in the direction he wanted
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the the training emphasized is a
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delicate maneuver because she might resolve
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the conflict in the other direction by
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further justifying existing position
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instead we've
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asked if martha hit ever talk
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to anyone openly about abortion she
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said he had talked about it with her
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daughters he urged them begin
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birth control then
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asked if there been any unplanned
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pregnancies and martha's family and
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he revealed their had then
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asked then she had first heard of
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abortion he said in
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twenties how
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did it come up i
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knew a girl had abortion by
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someone who didn't know what they were doing
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artist there
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was stephen been looking
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for the real lived
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experience one there was especially
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laden with emotion we've
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asked a few more questions and slowly
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drew from martha a fifty year old
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memory of friend who came to
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her house in desperate need of a
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doctor the was bleeding
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the after a botched backdoor
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surgery martha
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filled in the details then
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soberly added didn't
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have a choice the
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friend couldn't turn family they
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would have to salander that
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was fifty years ago explain
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he just didn't do that the
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friend new martha was more open minded
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the most so she reached out to her
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for help he
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listened providing space for martha to tell
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the story at length and then drew
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the conversation to a close by asking
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a series of leading questions reflecting
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back our friend didn't
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have a choice the martha
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open minded he
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asked had martha ever judged
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her friend for what she did do
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think her friend had been irresponsible and
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so on martha
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explained that she just
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didn't want to die then
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she told us with all the access
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people have birth control everyone
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should be more responsible these days the
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agreed the added that in a
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heated moment people make mistakes
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the training they called this modeling
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vulnerability the idea
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was that if you open up several
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there the told her as
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young gay man he didn't take proper
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precautions his first time you
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know he was well aware of dangers he
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asked if martha had ever been less than careful
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because something like that she
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said i'm seventy two years old
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and i'm not nun they
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lashed together then
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martha apologize because couldn't stand
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any longer the
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lab was still developing the script for having
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conversations about abortion so in the
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materials provided there were no further instructions
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is how to proceed they've
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been discussing transgender bathroom laws
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the script would have had steve returned
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to her initial concerns and ask if she
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said felt that way you
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might have experimented with something like that but
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martha was visibly tired so steve
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said before he left the he believed
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all women should be able to choose for themselves
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without judgment this
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moment is heavily emphasize and training
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the call it connecting on values we
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wrap up you must make it clear where
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you stand but in a way that shows
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you and the other person may agree
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on what is important at the core the discussion
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if you've done your job the other side
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will know that you aren't aiming for a fight the
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position can be seen as just your perspective
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perhaps one worth considering the
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west where she stood on a scale now
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the return i
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think they should have access to that's
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what they choose the
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up to seven when
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we departed to the curb so he could fill
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out paperwork steve says he
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was sure martha would vote for abortion
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rights in the future should
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be thinking about it it
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wasn't a slam dunk that he
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had discovered she was conflicted
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he would notice things she didn't before he
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moved from neutral to somewhat positive
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that counted as changed the
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time the change my
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grow stronger change
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minds yes yes yes minds how
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change they ready for
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water and shade and air conditioning
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and we were too steve
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new his truck was parked along curb hike
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away the stood
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stretched the students take that back
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with their news the completed
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for conversations with three people
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the told them completed just one there
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was good one waiting
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lying the grass under the shade of apart
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car princeton sweat
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woozy and thursday and listening to
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a mix of birds and dogs and lawnmowers
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realized the full depth what stephen
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mentioned here as we made
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smalltalk walking in the suburban streets
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of san gabriel this
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is why most politicians don't do this
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the the take lot
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minds how minds
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change change
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welcome back
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to the show if you want more info
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about deep canvassing up at links
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the show notes and in description for this
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episode in your podcast player also
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in the show notes and description linked
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my newsletter then
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where he to long everyone kept
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telling me i should be doing this i did started
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god this him big you a son that's what
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i'm calling it though i considered calling it
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i think therefore i am wrong women
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december you asian instead because
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i like that word the and it's
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also what brains do when confronted with
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novelty and uncertainty the
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usually think we now and
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think understand to decent big you ate the ambiguous
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i love that term especially
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because it comes from reading comprehension the
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act of deriving meaning through contexts
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when word phrase or entire essay could
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be interpreted in many different ways and
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i've been receiving all your feedback on all the social
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media channels especially on twitter you've been posting
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pictures with a book please keep sending
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that to me keeps in those pictures
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i love that the end i've
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been overwhelmed is just
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tremendous and overwhelming you
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never know with a book like this kinetic really
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different approach to this how is
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going to the received and
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it's being recede really well thank you the
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lot so many have you have been following
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my progress writing the book preparing for
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it to be released for years and i can
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never fully express how much your courage
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mint and support has really really meant to me thank
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you thank you and and thank
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you and to everyone who came
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to the workshop if you preorder the
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butcher get a ticket to a workshop and a
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whole lot of people came to workshop it was
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great to meet you all ice i stayed
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for next to our and
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nothing twenty minutes to do que and a
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and that was the best part of it just
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the questions but also just kind of hanging out
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we all did
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really enjoy death so yeah it's surreal
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and credible and overwhelming i thank you
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very very much the only what to
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do here is to him the show over to chris clearfield
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who i had on this show
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back during the height of covert talk about
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his book meltdown why are systems
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fail while we can do about it i
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loved that interview that he offered the
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switch roles with my own book was out
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i agreed and here we are he's
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a graduate of harvard where he studied
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physics in biochemistry that jumped
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into finance and technology and and
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problem solving and and flying airplanes
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in you know that he became fascinated
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with the complex systems
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and how they interact with other complex systems
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in ways that are difficult to predict the
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most you really know what variables
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are that are messing with stuff which is a big
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part of how minds change especially in last
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two chapters regular network science
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and how cascades of the
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leaves change attitude change spread
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across institutions and even nations chris
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the way speak spanish swedish and german that
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hails from north carolina so
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i felt a lot of kindred feelings in
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his southern raised
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see really obsessed auto died act
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ways i was very happy to switch roles for
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the rest the show and with that here's
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the interview eno or but er yeah
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i almost midnight we
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been talking for about forty five minutes with
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a terrible storm rolled in and
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like the branches and things were hitting the sides
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of the windows were i'm recording this
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and eventually we tried to
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push through it but it knocked up electricity
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and so the decided pick
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back up after a couple days and
21:51
where we picked up his where the audio
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starts okay here
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is my interview this
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clear it is the one doing the interviewing about
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my new book how mine's
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checked
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let's you and aren't
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, so
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a grainy you are saying and
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by you were saying i mean before
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the storm all the ago your for the storm
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role than and you lost power and we had
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to postpone the the
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completion this interview you are talking
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incidentally about being
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in natural disasters and that
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kind of shaping your view of trust so
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significant pick it up the hair the hair pick up
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their yes i actually strangely remember
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what i was talking about i think
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because i was
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remembering that kate
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starboard yes the researcher caped starboard
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when it comes to
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there's this whole question of book as to whether or
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not we're in post truth the
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world ryan where the chapter titles his post
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truth that's because when
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spent time with a
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former nine eleven truth or i
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was presented with this thing
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that bill almost like he had ruined
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my entire thesis as was forming
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which was why
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facts don't work on people which
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the started be a question that i couldn't resolve
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because i spent time with charlie
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reads who among
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the truth is that went on the conspiracy
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road trip the only one who
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changed his mind because
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at least from his specter when first
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met it was the facts were
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convincing to of which
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was strange because everybody else
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i spoke to all the other persuasion people
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realize yeah but don't don't like change
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people's night or tools our minds
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of facts that's not going worse
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and they were what is
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this person who did she's or mind when the facts
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were presented to them and it
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was one is nice moments where it turned out or
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we will turns as the the question
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is lot more complicated than i was framing
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a like i was even asking the right question i was assuming
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a lot of things and creating these
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categories that weren't useful to be
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it turns out and we get to it at a
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later turns out that the it's
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more about conclusions and conclusions
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can be all sorts of things thoughts feelings behaviors
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concepts of what is is not a fact
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and , all sorts of things that motivators to
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reach those conclusions and
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changing people's environments their motivations
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will change whether not they
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will feel that something is compelling are
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not of their if you're feeling of certainty
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will be affected by it is turns out
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whenever you walk up to someone or meet
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him on the internet and save hey here's a
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fact change your mind or that doesn't
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have much of an impact on their motivations the
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motivations that led them to assume that
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that was or was not you in first place
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rain and and i just wanna jump
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in your cause guess i think with you i think what
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you're saying is there says it's
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deeply profound here at and
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the reason that charlie changes his mind and in
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fact some the reasons that the other people is
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in there in your book change their
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mind is and put it
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in my words and then you can desert you're correct
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or build on it's because they
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feel connected with other people and they feel
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safe and
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the and the or social
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context change it exam
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or they think he'll listen to so yeah
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so so
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he gets away with this this
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this relates to cut all of us relates this
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the hardest thing about reading this book
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was started to wander
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into the philosophical territory
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and i would get over and over
26:04
philosophical concepts then
26:06
i would
26:07
start to feel like well no need to go look over
26:09
here and neurological concepts do it
26:11
maybe i should go into psychological costs
26:14
and it it started do become
26:16
this vast world
26:19
of oh none of this can make sense in
26:21
isolation it all has to be put into
26:23
context and unfortunately the context
26:26
started to look like i need to explain
26:29
the mystery of consciousness itself which you
26:31
can't do so this the celsius
26:33
why is it goes in many places but there's
26:35
only that connects here which is the
26:37
great researcher kate starboard talks
26:40
dog
26:41
when we it suits us
26:43
researchers are crisis management
26:45
and researches things she calls
26:47
information voids what
26:49
happens is after a natural disaster
26:52
or after some sort of
26:54
horrible of to like a a ship sinking or a
26:56
building burning or something where it's
26:59
not clear what we ought to do next
27:01
and the go to
27:03
information sources are disrupted
27:05
things that cut of meat out information
27:08
and her in a room in reliable consistent
27:10
manner like a news source at a cable
27:12
news channel twitter something like that's not
27:14
useful to you right away especially
27:17
if you've lost power or
27:19
the
27:20
the the streets are a mess
27:22
in their trees everywhere so what usually happens in environment
27:25
like that as you you switch
27:27
to they trust
27:29
base modulating
27:32
sort of parameter you you
27:34
are tied trading whether or not
27:36
to take action
27:37
based off of trust cues instead
27:39
of off of the traditional key is that
27:41
you're using before so he can imagine
27:44
say it's right after a tornado
27:47
and someone you're looking
27:49
you're asking someone heywood when is this going to happen
27:51
a where can find this thing or or what's
27:53
going to happen next and the
27:55
my tells you that will
27:58
i heard this have uttered this can be this it
28:00
can be that and if you notice to somebody
28:02
you've never met before you will probably
28:04
ask where did you hear that which
28:06
is very similar to what happens when you get into argument
28:08
with someone online i didn't believe you are
28:11
you don't believe them you'll say well what are your sources
28:13
because what you're looking for is to need i
28:16
need to determine trust right now and then
28:18
you are completely ambiguous interview
28:21
be but if you call something out that i i
28:23
can sort of gets in tucson i can
28:25
say okay well that's trustworthy whereas if
28:28
it's firefighter who tells you some
28:30
information you will module that your trust
28:32
differently than you would it was just a stranger
28:35
they did like a family member you
28:37
old based on what do you know
28:39
about their areas of expertise
28:41
if you're evil family member who is an electrician
28:44
the us when the power's gonna come back on your
28:46
your module your trust differently than if it's the
28:49
your the family member who it
28:51
works in finance let's say the certain
28:54
place so the totally useless
28:57
in that is the method environment med list
28:59
until now firemen well said well rights
29:01
a lesser till you know something about a
29:03
is the banks are arg are going to come
29:05
back to this random search this all this
29:07
something that week com that would that
29:09
is
29:10
this is added to me some as something that we
29:12
are born with he gets shaped
29:14
it's very nature nurture thing that goes
29:17
, to these concepts of her argumentation
29:20
and are deliberation how we
29:22
have these these structures that
29:24
that already primed for this disorder
29:26
situations youth are three
29:28
people on a hill facing back to back kind of thing
29:30
where you trying to develop a worldview and that world
29:33
you is
29:34
deeply affected by trust
29:36
use am we
29:39
have entered into an environment thanks to
29:41
and information revolution that is moving
29:43
very quick and is
29:45
changing so rapidly and the
29:47
revolution does keep spinning that in
29:50
moments of high anxiety
29:52
which we find ourselves within thanks to
29:54
the just the happenstance of politics
29:56
and the world against they're taking place
29:58
coupled with
30:00
new information ecosystems that are difficult
30:02
to get our our heads around the
30:04
often enter into these situations
30:07
that are very very similar to what happens
30:09
after a natural disaster where we talked to
30:11
hide to resolve our uncertainty and her
30:13
anxiety make sense of the situation
30:16
based off of trust
30:18
because the information gatekeepers
30:20
in the people who have authority
30:22
have sort of laughs in some ways are
30:24
they policemen right polluted
30:26
by they also
30:28
are part of this disruptive period
30:30
of time in history and so it makes sense
30:33
oddly them in an environment like that
30:36
people start to group up based
30:38
off of trust and distrust cues
30:40
and that rate that turned out be a very
30:43
big part of what was going
30:45
on with charlie was going to with all the conspiratorial
30:47
groups that i hung out with affordable yeah
30:50
and i
30:51
the first all think we should have agreed ahead
30:53
of time with we did knocked them for to every time
30:56
someone someone said information ecosystem
30:58
we should taken shot at assess assess as
31:00
i'm edo i mean the
31:02
word that comes to my mind is is kind of
31:04
is sort primitive and i'm
31:07
and think as you were talking about it's like oh
31:09
of course like this is why yet so
31:12
comfortable for people to
31:15
lean into their
31:18
new york times or fox news
31:20
or kind of whatever it is they lean into
31:22
because as you just said we are in as high
31:24
anxiety state and there are these kinds
31:26
of mean feel
31:29
like there's these information boys even know
31:31
paradoxically it's it's kind of information
31:33
abundant isn't totally information of hundreds
31:35
that's true but but that's also what happens the
31:38
upper natural disasters like it's
31:41
there's information coming at you from every direction that and you yeah
31:43
you're not you're like oh need to determine
31:46
how much of this i can i can disregard
31:48
and how much this should pay attention to and then
31:50
of that which pay attention to how much of it if
31:53
you're into a a a a rumor
31:55
ecosystem rumors become pretty
31:57
valuable all of sudden and you
32:00
know the the typical afternoon on twitter is
32:02
something like that and
32:04
so it feels good to say you know what i trust
32:07
this group of people want to hang out with
32:09
that group of people or so early he
32:11
said lean into a source that you could
32:13
did you have traditionally depended upon
32:15
this is the dress i mean i'm just i'm looking
32:17
my notes and and
32:19
the the researchers call
32:21
this substantial uncertainty and burglary
32:24
and uses his experience to create illusions
32:26
of what ought to be there but isn't and see this
32:28
as you know that's the thing about the to dress
32:30
that was so nice and i because
32:33
we last spoke for days ago i honestly can't
32:35
member how much we've talked about this i don't like to
32:37
penalise said that
32:40
but since the dresses this perfectly
32:42
kind of it perfectly
32:45
because it's a political because
32:47
it's kind of totally insubstantial
32:51
it's actually this perfect lens through
32:54
which to view the kind
32:56
the we the brain works because we're not layering
32:58
mike we ate it's not like the sneakers
33:01
were snark start bellies teachers are good
33:03
and and plane belly speeches are in it's like it's
33:05
blue and gold or whatever the other colors are
33:07
so it's like just this kind of the
33:09
and it created lot charge which
33:12
i think therefore gives this this underlying
33:14
insight because we don't have to filter it through
33:16
any kind of group or political lab yes
33:19
it's a that
33:20
they are the reason i mean i've never
33:22
thought the dress would leave me here but it did
33:25
in actually i have to think pesca why should
33:27
michael college forever and ever never because
33:29
they were so adamant that know you should come
33:32
out here she comes in while you and see what we're doing
33:34
i'm telling you this is what your
33:36
trying to figure out which and i'd i
33:39
wanted when i was writing the book really wanted there
33:41
to be what do your way to get
33:43
reader into talking about the
33:45
very the would have wanted go
33:47
all the way down and your arms and built up built
33:49
up from there at really show how does a mine
33:52
change not a new persuasion
33:54
would would we'd get persuasion at some point but wanted
33:56
talk about the our mine changes
33:59
consistently second by second day by day
34:01
and the night and why you would look back
34:03
on your old diary and go i don't agree with
34:05
anything this this person wrote like
34:08
i wanted to talk about that but at
34:10
the level what's going on a brain
34:12
and i could have just opened chapter
34:14
by saying and now we're talking about brains but
34:16
i there's so much the book was on the ground
34:19
i wanted there to be
34:20
something on the ground got us into it
34:23
and it couldn't have been as more incredible gifts than
34:25
the incredible neuroscientist said
34:28
in why you who were who had they been
34:30
studying the dress and by extension
34:32
really started develop a model of what
34:35
the underlying framework of disagreement
34:37
itself which they call surf pad
34:39
because they're very cheeky they love coming up with terms
34:41
like that right surf at
34:43
is a substantial
34:45
uncertainty the
34:47
presence of ram aside fork prior assumptions
34:50
leads to substantial disagreement and that's
34:52
a d or dead year's eve you if you draw
34:55
line in above the line are
34:57
all the experiences that you've had and also
34:59
the brain that you came in the world with all
35:02
the nature nurture that leads up to as a
35:04
certain moments in the presence of
35:06
something that's ambiguous are uncertain
35:08
you use all those prior things
35:10
to read some level
35:12
of certainty or to do some big you ate the ambiguous
35:15
and never becomes some sort of assumption that you
35:17
used to make sense world then
35:19
when you are facing something
35:21
that is ambiguous with a with a pier
35:24
you may resolve your uncertainty
35:26
differently than they do the
35:28
dress is great example of that because the
35:31
dress was black and blue
35:34
for some people and golden white for
35:36
others and if you experienced it that
35:38
way that is just what happened to you had no
35:40
choice in matter is just was the truth
35:42
of your perceptions and
35:46
if you were to get into an argument to someone about
35:48
that then you are seeking
35:50
to prove that you are right and they were
35:52
wrong think they were seeing something that they
35:54
shouldn't be seen you
35:56
would miss out on an opportunity for
35:58
to to try to have some sort dynamic
36:01
reed said hey a wonder why we see
36:03
this differently and then investigate it
36:05
together with the acknowledgement
36:07
that the moon what they call
36:09
is why you cognitive empathy the empathy that
36:11
you can't help but resolve the way
36:13
you're doing it i can't help of result of
36:15
the way i'm doing it
36:17
that if we're doing that differently
36:19
than maybe neither one of us is correct
36:21
which is a very or is it it's
36:23
so bizarre me think
36:25
about the way we argue online
36:27
or in very charge political environments
36:29
where that's , what we were
36:31
we do and we we approach the other person i'm
36:34
everly ross who are is passed
36:36
away since i interviewed him the great psychologist
36:38
the ross he's to do conflict resolution
36:42
the
36:42
israel palestine or overweight
36:45
people would meet and said it's never in
36:47
forty years of doing that work had
36:49
he ever
36:51
met anyone who was interested in what the other
36:53
side thought before they started
36:55
up the proceedings they always were
36:57
concerned with whether or not they would be able to
36:59
get their arguments out they wanted
37:01
by sure and that that that their side
37:03
would be seen it decided
37:06
the feeling that i need you to
37:09
see things my way because if you to see things
37:11
my way you will naturally agree with me with
37:13
his and in the dressing
37:15
situation if you argued
37:18
and pascal city is he said he didn't think
37:20
it was unreal are weird to assume
37:22
that you could form political camp around
37:24
one these particular perceptions if in weird
37:26
or things have happened in history so
37:30
you wouldn't miss out on any can use whatever metaphor
37:32
you you prefer the higher
37:34
truth of the deeper truth you would miss out on
37:36
that you'd miss out on opportunity say
37:38
oh well this actually of we invest he does
37:40
this explains why we see stuff would
37:43
weirdly at it turns out that the actual the
37:46
things happening there is called of the
37:48
a discounting the the lumen and are the aluminum
37:51
the when something is overexposed
37:54
without our knowledge without our permission the brain
37:57
will reduce the overexposure
38:00
they wouldn't try to make an assumption is too
38:02
the color of the overexposure the nature
38:04
the over exposure is that rest was
38:06
taken with a bad phone in a ah
38:09
cloudy day in a weird angle
38:12
and it was overexposed it
38:14
was not clear as to what
38:16
do ever exposure was the image that we were all looking
38:18
at on the internet wasn't clear what the over exposure was
38:21
so some people's brains
38:23
assumed the over exposure was sunlight
38:25
some people's brains assume the over exposure
38:27
was artificial light sunlight
38:29
has more stuff in blue spectrum so they
38:31
took out the blue artificial
38:34
i has more stuff in the the
38:37
yellow spectrum it and took up the
38:39
yellow incandescent lights incandescent
38:41
the result is something different that different that
38:43
the surf pad the the experiences
38:46
that person it had previously that experience
38:48
to that moment
38:49
working more in conditions were there were lots
38:51
of windows getting up earlier vs people
38:53
who get up later or or work for indoors
38:56
that had created these visual
38:58
priors they were unaware of the only
39:01
experience the result
39:03
of all that the net lead
39:05
to disagreement and disagreement the
39:07
him both those our say in the book this is before
39:10
all the other stuff that we've disagreed
39:12
about starting around two thousand
39:14
and fifteen sixteen and ,
39:17
or disagreement and fifty guests
39:19
because of i suppose said this was the argument that
39:21
broke the internet would seem so wait
39:23
didn't in restaurants doesn't exist
39:26
exist we i'm in actually broke twitter
39:28
and like that ignore through ah quickly
39:30
right the i'm i remember
39:32
the evening news in my
39:34
rural home town like they would come
39:36
they can honestly and now you're the hook ticker
39:38
at the end rights and now the
39:40
dress like what do you see any they
39:43
argued that it is it's
39:45
for the book i i win in of what's to
39:47
bonds youtube videos of local news broadcasts
39:50
and that was very common they would actually
39:52
get like until go canada and a
39:54
tiff they would do the lights are you crazy
39:57
of course it does votes romans am
39:59
know id so it's a great a
40:02
it's such great example of of served
40:04
pad and that you can there's no difference
40:06
between this having a political disagreement were
40:09
is
40:09
your life experiences your values
40:11
your motivations
40:13
the culture that you've come up with in
40:15
the arguments you've had leading up to this moment
40:18
that the camp that you find
40:20
yourself within and all the motivations ago that
40:23
lead you to
40:24
without your permission without your knowledge
40:27
arrive at these emotional
40:29
reactions to certain issues
40:32
and whenever the you that happens
40:34
you start to go on a sort of cherry picking
40:36
evidence hunt and we
40:39
see it would whatever is happening now gonna be
40:41
a thing with are currently as we're recording
40:43
this there's debate over gun control previous
40:46
to this was there all sorts of things are immigration
40:49
and immigration million other issues
40:51
other insurrection whatever is you
40:54
often yet to have this is a is
40:56
so difficult do this but dude need
40:59
cognitive empathy for the fact that people the
41:01
other side of this disagreement can't help but yeah
41:03
the way they feel about it and if you enter
41:05
to namic you want to win and they it in
41:07
you want them to lose and want to win and they do same
41:10
thing you will both miss out on an opportunity
41:12
discover that maybe you're both right in some ways
41:14
both wrong in some ways and that's something that push
41:16
for all throughout the the but
41:19
well and i wouldn't and talked little about this
41:21
offline but i want to bring this into the
41:23
context of the work i do which is not
41:25
in i mean it's in small people
41:27
at a full context but it's all around
41:30
i work with leaders and leadership seems who are changing
41:33
other organizations work and
41:36
the the phrase
41:39
that i often use his i call it
41:41
practical empathy which i mean it's kind of
41:43
very similar to what we're talking about which
41:45
is just like you
41:47
know where i am often his
41:49
situation where a leader is frustrated
41:52
because the people that the
41:54
work with the people that they're trying to get to
41:56
change are resisting their
41:58
chains in what
42:00
are the things i talk about as just like hey
42:03
mike resistance is really useful
42:05
like a lot of the changes that you have had
42:07
to weather in your career happened
42:09
kind of dumb and so like
42:12
when we are resisting seems
42:14
you know what we think is man
42:16
person is trying oppose the some me they just don't
42:18
get it they don't get my work they don't
42:21
understand like you know complexity
42:23
of my job or the donor cena pressure i'm under
42:25
or sister asked me to do something
42:27
i don't like it and so you know we
42:29
don't experience what we do is resistance
42:31
but when someone's doing it the us flight the
42:34
and their reducing their obsession is simply
42:36
well they're just like
42:38
us on the inside right so so
42:40
if you just take step back the
42:43
you can then start a start to get
42:45
curious about and my know what
42:47
what is going on here what is
42:50
you know what are their
42:52
underlying believes what the see that i'm
42:54
i'm not seeing and i
42:56
think actually you to we
42:58
do the way that i work is very similar
43:01
to the
43:03
no discussion you have around
43:06
st epistemology which epistemology just like circle
43:08
a again the that don't lose
43:10
your thought but the thing that pops my head is like
43:12
see a six is like this
43:14
makes me wish i'd had talked to before i
43:16
finished mascot because they are
43:19
every time see it that someone
43:21
who was doing work in a in way they're
43:23
trying to resolve disagreements they're trying
43:25
to facilitate argumentation
43:28
and deliberation it
43:30
ends up being some of same truth
43:33
emergence in the end does not
43:35
what this last five and that's just that's
43:37
because brains work a certain way
43:39
and yes hidden therefore the
43:41
what if you ab test things
43:43
you will come out with similar process
43:45
as please continue
43:47
well you know you you you introduce
43:50
me to the phrase the book nave realism ruins
43:52
it is this belief that
43:56
you know we have a privilege we the well what
43:58
we see is actually is actually was going
44:00
on and i think way
44:03
the the two things about
44:05
that one is what
44:07
my training personally
44:10
as i've built up my skills
44:12
and my billie to do this work supporting
44:15
organizations as they changed supporting leaders
44:17
if they change the first step
44:20
is to stop
44:22
trying to collapse different perspectives
44:24
in a kind is suffering to for
44:26
symmetry rain i'm trying to light find
44:29
the capital t truth and search
44:31
your recognize the different people have different perspectives
44:35
the that's the first thing bit that kind
44:37
of comes to mind as i think about how
44:40
this worked get sick it's it's how these
44:42
ideas get their texture in in
44:46
you know the work that i encounter
44:49
lots of people doing every day like people
44:51
and organizations are trying do this all the time
44:53
and for me that ends up being little bit
44:55
less abstract than you know these
44:57
big political discussions here's
45:00
something is very close we're tied up with it when
45:02
they try to replicate
45:04
address they
45:07
did with my boat doing it with socks and
45:09
crocs and anybody listening to my purchases
45:12
her the sox are added two episodes of eggs
45:14
and to am i have , way
45:16
to hear that what they were what the based the short
45:18
sword as short as first that as they replicate address
45:20
by taking socks and crocs
45:23
crocs they took a pair of pink
45:25
crocs and white sox in the illuminate
45:27
them in very very green
45:30
overexposed light
45:32
which means that the crux
45:34
not reflect back in a green light and
45:36
the sox reflect tobacco bunch of greenlight
45:38
so when you look at a photograph
45:41
of this some people will
45:43
see that image and they will see
45:45
gray crocs green socks
45:47
and some people will see pink crocs and
45:50
white sox and the reason they
45:52
see it differently is because the older
45:54
you are the more experience
45:56
you've had with sox they're always
45:59
why in since they
46:01
got the elimination just right
46:03
level so that it's overexposed
46:05
in some people will try to subtract
46:08
the green and when you do that the brains
46:10
like oh i'm subtracting green which means the actual
46:12
color here's pink and it adds another olin and
46:14
you have no idea you're doing this the
46:16
thing that is related what you're saying
46:18
is one
46:21
group people
46:22
the cause the actual crocs are pink
46:24
and sox were actually our way the
46:27
one group of people they're seeing the truth
46:29
of the image another group people
46:31
there seeing the truth of what
46:34
the actual object was before
46:36
was photographed though the
46:38
have to truth here and are not actually
46:41
can competition really their
46:43
right both true
46:45
so what you would any would never
46:47
get get any benefit
46:49
from understanding that are knowing that are learning
46:51
why you see it differently if you tried to
46:54
fight in way that only one of those two
46:56
truths gets to yes and i see it
46:58
you know so serve pad is
47:00
is there's a deep evolutionary
47:02
component to surf that rate and and
47:05
that's all about what's
47:07
adaptive what's adaptive in different context
47:09
and that's a big
47:12
lens through how i think about my
47:14
change work you know i'm i'm
47:16
i'm usually working with people who were
47:19
senior leaders in success
47:21
like him in big successful organizations
47:24
and advocacy is
47:26
adapted rate they got to their position
47:28
because they built a career
47:30
where they were able to come up with solutions
47:32
to problems you know often technical
47:35
problems i work with lot of people who are
47:37
engineers lawyers you
47:39
know software people like people that have that
47:41
kind of technical core like expertise
47:44
quarter their work and for
47:47
their whole career they've been rewarded for coming
47:49
up with solutions and then advocating for those
47:51
and then getting those put in place but
47:53
at some point when
47:56
you switch to a problem of certain
47:59
scope or feel particularly one
48:01
that involves other people having
48:03
to change now
48:05
all of sudden that skill of advocacy
48:07
is maladaptive released over expressed
48:10
you need this balance of and
48:12
i'm not first person to says argue
48:14
this a management context but you need
48:16
this balance of advocacy and inquiry
48:19
and you need to be able to you know
48:21
at the metaphor i often uses like it's
48:23
like you're throwing stone into a pond
48:26
and the the you've gotta
48:28
have a little bit of stone to throw in palm but if
48:30
easter too big of a stone and upon boom there's
48:32
no pond last piece are too small
48:34
a stone into the pond you know doesn't have any impact
48:37
so what you wanna do you wanna throw a stone
48:39
into the pond and then get curious
48:41
about people's reactions want to get curious
48:43
about what lands for them and what they interested
48:45
in and and and not to me
48:47
is where where the the kind of
48:49
bridge to i'm the
48:52
street epistemology comes from where you
48:54
know there's not really like there's
48:56
no advocacy they're kind of but by
48:58
design but the
49:01
the curiosity is around what
49:03
are people's experiences and what are their reaction
49:05
so the me in the organizational
49:08
context maybe you know here's what i'm
49:10
seeing is the problem what are you seeing her
49:12
and then you're off and running in this kind of collaborative
49:14
way and and yes taken away with street
49:16
epistemology diggers so much as degree hussein's
49:19
was the the the
49:21
thing and i didn't understand this going
49:24
and his project is something that came as
49:27
a do it the whole
49:29
book was i started out
49:31
really assuming one thing about how brains work in
49:33
than and and learning over time okay it's little
49:35
bit different than that and then eventually
49:38
find him finding all these different from
49:40
activist groups and and groups who are actively
49:43
attempting to create sweden
49:45
techniques that will that work well and many of them like
49:47
don't even like to beat that terminology persuasion
49:50
can he gets to be dirty word at some point because
49:53
made him facilitating the
49:56
the the concept of helping
50:00
the will investigate therapist malde
50:02
which is super small just put it right there in
50:04
the name and the reader
50:06
me is like i'm
50:07
the report today that i've met
50:09
and he was on twitter that a
50:12
new study shows that i've megaton i'm
50:14
deathly does not the
50:16
help kobe am the wafers
50:18
com it was like well good luck telling
50:20
that to anybody the don't they are going to show
50:22
this to people who believe that me this not
50:24
going to matter of these facts are going to change their mind and
50:28
the it
50:30
seems mysterious weird and frustrating but the
50:33
if you
50:34
the the reason the those facts might not
50:37
leyland some people is is
50:39
in the they do land with you should be mysterious
50:41
silly one hundred sk the reason those facts
50:43
aren't landings because clearly there's something
50:45
else had played has nothing to do with whether not
50:47
they the the
50:49
evidence alone the facts by themselves are
50:52
these sort of inert the
50:54
heater ah just
50:57
information objects that is what
50:59
it's what you bring to the information object is
51:01
in psychology they call this elaboration which
51:03
has seen huge you it that
51:06
this summer they took a lot about in an armed elaborate
51:08
unlikely that model clearly a because
51:10
if try to sell somebody as they were explain to me
51:12
try sell them so you tell them it's
51:14
few the soap smells like flowers
51:17
ah that's just that's fact
51:19
in and of itself but for some people
51:22
are going to think to think love the smell like flowers
51:24
please give me some of that and others will say i
51:26
do not want to smell like flowers are you not want
51:28
us to that that's the elaboration that takes place
51:30
after the fact is is is put
51:33
forth sipping is happening with ever met
51:35
and like as a reason is a motivation
51:38
the why this person might i refuse
51:41
to accept that evidence versus another person
51:43
who's like yeah course i was been telling people it's forever
51:45
ever met the the stuff doesn't work that that's
51:47
horse goop , the
51:50
but ask yourself why you so quick
51:52
to to certainty
51:55
why does that seem to land
51:57
for you land why wait for another person with another
51:59
person resist at the when are they might actually get
52:01
upset and super
52:04
small years away to approach
52:06
people were the object in
52:08
the the the goal is to help the other person
52:11
explore the reasoning process that leads
52:13
to certainty or the lack thereof
52:16
and it it's it spent
52:18
summers i i i actually did whether the
52:20
with the most like beautifully
52:23
stereotypical the thing that
52:25
actually journalists never actually do but i did
52:27
get to do this i hid in a bush with microphone
52:30
and it that far the
52:33
, best actually did like
52:35
i got one his a air pods
52:37
a d the other and so i could
52:39
listen could and hid in a in
52:41
bush just so when interrupt the conversations
52:44
and i'm the great anthony make the bosco
52:47
a who is the probably
52:49
the biggest advocate for biggest epistemology
52:52
a just approach strangers
52:54
on a college campus and invited them to
52:56
explore their beliefs and i've i
52:58
had seen do this before but i'd never seen
53:00
it so raw and an unfiltered is as
53:02
it was then it it incredible
53:04
so street epistemology
53:06
is in the book i talk about deep canvassing
53:09
street epistemology a smart
53:11
politics motivational interviewing
53:13
cognitive behavioral therapy there many many models
53:15
that use a similar thing lots of
53:17
them in therapeutic frames because
53:20
you're therapy all therapy therapy as because
53:22
place where you go to investigate what
53:24
the motivations behind your thoughts feelings behaviors
53:26
but can also do this in a situation
53:29
we're trying to determine if something is a
53:32
good or bad belief or it's true or false
53:34
ah there's a billion middle
53:36
constructs that go together into willing
53:38
into consider changing your mind and
53:40
try to reduce in the book down to something that
53:43
weekend the talk about easily which is
53:45
or police attitudes and values these
53:47
being
53:48
estimations of whether or not something is
53:50
or is not true information encoded
53:52
the brain i'm an attitude
53:54
is an evaluation of something is good
53:57
or bad positive negative and value as
53:59
where you would be
54:00
in something in the sort of a hierarchy
54:02
of we should put your
54:03
your efforts are your a resources and
54:07
moving something around and any those domains
54:09
councils changing someone's mind if you make something
54:11
more less certain are you make something up
54:14
more bad
54:15
that's good if you'd lose
54:18
value up and down the sending a my and oftentimes
54:20
it says these things are all connected one
54:22
will affect the other two and two and all play together
54:25
so
54:27
the in this one the things that often gets
54:29
in people's way like if you are
54:31
trying to change someone's mind is important
54:33
to articulate to yourself
54:36
which of those three things that more in
54:38
domain of if i was trying to
54:41
do like if if if you say i
54:43
i don't like this plan that my business my that my
54:45
company has put forth it
54:47
can feel like that's a belief and
54:49
you want to affect that person's belief
54:51
that is true but really what they're
54:53
expressing his and attitude they they have
54:56
aspect they have a negative estimation
54:58
or something and the to
55:00
change someone's attitude is not as soon as same
55:02
is changing their believe on something but
55:04
all these techniques will work but you just have
55:06
to tweak them little bit depending on what it is are trying
55:08
to affect
55:09
modi they've spent years been doing this
55:11
they've done lots of ab testing
55:14
ah hundreds and hundreds conversations
55:16
the record them are , pick
55:18
them apart afterwards during it they'll
55:20
get on discord and play at live
55:22
and you'll get to sort of running feed if
55:24
you're not if you're just
55:27
watching on but if the person who's
55:29
doing the actual interaction with and be able
55:31
to interact with that fi later i sort
55:33
of imagined it why was there like deck in
55:35
some like they have a during toga and they have
55:37
acolytes walking around with them but they're virtually
55:39
very cyber punk and course the
55:43
the way it works is and this something that
55:45
had to be are aerated on forever
55:47
but the the
55:48
sweepers malde works in steps
55:51
the first step is to establish report
55:54
which is something we talking earlier does that trust
55:56
environment that you want to have the same thing
55:58
if you have dinner party with
56:00
or who he doesn't people even we all have
56:02
friends who we know we disagree with
56:04
all sorts of things better okay because we
56:06
trust them i want to hang out loans that they could go
56:08
on our zombie survival squire school
56:10
i and just it's nice to argue
56:13
with them sometimes they change your mind sometimes change
56:15
there's there's utility and
56:17
the disagreement the establish
56:19
certain level of reporter the person to
56:21
gain access to that utility of disagreements
56:24
and we are geared to pick up on
56:26
cues
56:27
that will illustrate that to
56:29
as intuitively like weeks if
56:31
you
56:32
say anything to a person that can interpreted
56:35
are you demonstrate them to them is something
56:37
that can be interpreted as you should be ashamed
56:39
for youth sink feel i believe that's
56:42
if it's over with right because he did i you're
56:44
risking ostracism you're risking
56:46
shame in a way that will maybe
56:49
be i'm a mark against
56:51
that you're not interested in that sort interactions
56:54
you want establish report any countered safety
56:56
which is which is what you and i i
56:58
think one the threads in the bus fit to
57:00
you and i also talked about it like
57:03
fifty eight you need safety
57:05
to create the conditions for saints
57:07
ah no i in this way
57:09
we we are
57:11
social primates were own ultra social
57:13
primates who most
57:15
of our success came from working as group
57:17
toward group goals the
57:19
end
57:20
you can work toward goals together
57:22
in a way where you don't necessarily agree
57:24
on everything and and we have different tastes and
57:26
different experiences and different attitudes
57:28
and you can that
57:30
can become can feature a great grand
57:33
feature instead of instead horrible
57:35
bug that it seems that we often are worried
57:37
about being right now that says i he other
57:39
with the truth is dead and when and
57:41
we're never going to agree on a thing anymore yeah first
57:43
step is establish rapport assure the
57:45
other person you're not out the same them anyway
57:48
in sweden small do you clearly transparently
57:51
ask for their consent he
57:53
says of front this is what we're going to do can
57:55
i can we how would you feel about exploring
57:58
you are certainty in in
58:00
exploring how you feel about certain issue
58:02
and seen whether not you might want change your mind about
58:04
it in there and it's it's incredible
58:06
most people usually will say yes that men since
58:09
there the framework is built
58:11
mostly on fact based claims that the next
58:13
thing you do as you ask for a very specific
58:15
claim religion topic the
58:18
new confirmed that claim he repeated
58:20
back and in , in in
58:22
your own words first to ask to see you've
58:24
done good job summarizing that that
58:27
that you really are listening and
58:29
then when they're satisfied you
58:31
didn't clarify their definitions for that you're
58:33
not using your trousers
58:35
using their tumours you very important because
58:37
you could you
58:39
oftentimes aren't even having the conversation
58:41
you think you're having if other person has completely
58:44
different
58:45
construct a verse running a certain concepts
58:48
think in book say i like politics for
58:50
some people as is very is
58:52
know civics dot text book version
58:54
politics where other people have people have a
58:57
smoke filled room where people are planning
58:59
to i divvy up the world over golf later
59:01
so you might wanna make sure you get your
59:04
turned clarify did you ask for
59:06
numerical measure of confidence that's true and
59:08
all the frameworks sometimes
59:10
that's just for research purposes but other
59:13
times it's just as have so the other person can
59:15
gauge your reaction strangely that's what was
59:17
told by i callen brockman this
59:19
tip typically is what happens that the researchers
59:22
say deep canvassing give
59:24
us keepers and how they feel about gun
59:27
control for example when you say like guy
59:29
who were you at like wonder tin maybe
59:31
something even worse than that i'm like
59:33
how do feel about the war in ukraine in
59:35
the person any like tennis
59:37
i think russia's do it is right
59:39
in one is i think ukraine is ray and
59:41
they give you like a seven if
59:44
you they're
59:45
watching to see how you react that because
59:47
this is another opportunity for you to shame them
59:49
in and and point finger and and ostracised
59:51
them so ask for their
59:53
a numerical measure their confidence in their claim
59:56
you sir several purposes the main
59:58
thing though is that going to give them
1:00:01
a lattice by which they can a
1:00:03
medic cognates think about their on thinking
1:00:05
and you're going to be person who
1:00:07
guide them through that medical condition is about the
1:00:09
take place see you if
1:00:11
you get a numeric i'm as you asked for reasons they
1:00:13
have to hold that level of confidence then
1:00:16
they will come up with reasons were very good at coming with reasons
1:00:19
in psychology reasoning is just coming up with
1:00:21
reasons for you think field believe that
1:00:23
you would consider justifiable
1:00:25
to your trusted peers then
1:00:28
once they've given you reason it may not be
1:00:30
the actual reason we discussed this hour
1:00:32
before the storm which is
1:00:35
your grandmother i think birds were telling story about someone
1:00:37
who then , who quit
1:00:39
because they said jazz liquid was the
1:00:41
cause that it like the parking parking
1:00:43
situation was awful yeah as and
1:00:45
they're like no one else has ever complain about
1:00:47
parking and then they like get very concerned
1:00:49
about is the parking badge i work the parking
1:00:52
and i'm retelling of like that person
1:00:54
quit for reasons they may not even themselves
1:00:56
be able to able but most
1:00:58
salient thing was the parking is
1:01:00
like when people complained
1:01:02
about transformers movies and
1:01:04
saying of there's just too much cg i
1:01:06
within like you either but then they watch these injuries
1:01:09
movies and there's just as much cg i
1:01:11
sometimes is not even as good as transformer sweetie
1:01:13
good as clearly the cd i wasn't the problem
1:01:15
with transfers movie or something it's
1:01:17
difficult to articulate and not quite salient
1:01:20
which is be store i think i think we just got
1:01:22
a real lens and david mccready that
1:01:25
, metaphor metaphor
1:01:28
service so that's like that's very typical
1:01:30
a like if someone who is an anti vaccine
1:01:32
rather prieto vitter africa
1:01:34
with make tell you the reason that they are against
1:01:36
vaccines is in the the give you these
1:01:38
bullet points to the all sorts of things
1:01:41
but the the
1:01:42
real reason that they are against maybe
1:01:44
something they aren't even aware of it this is
1:01:46
called the introspection losing in psychology
1:01:49
the antecedents of our emotional states
1:01:51
the antecedents of our attitudes are often
1:01:54
southern the we can't it
1:01:55
respect upon we can do not available to us at
1:01:57
a in that's one the reasons there
1:02:00
the other thing is the to ,
1:02:02
to discover that reason you actually are against vaccines
1:02:04
is that you are haven't
1:02:07
, distrust of authority plus you
1:02:09
don't like the idea of losing your agency especially
1:02:11
when is related the care your child and
1:02:13
also you don't understand the science
1:02:16
behind nothing and you have distrust of doctors
1:02:18
in going to put all that all of that is where
1:02:20
you put into needle this gonna physically harm your
1:02:22
child that's why you're actually
1:02:24
gets the that's very unlikely something
1:02:26
gonna produce has a reason would you really want say
1:02:28
as one , them thousands of
1:02:30
bullet points to people but forth as the reasons potter
1:02:32
that's what the cdc had such problem
1:02:34
with these fact based approaches of showing
1:02:36
people all the reasons why vaccines are safe
1:02:39
in the research when they would do that people
1:02:41
would come out of it less likely
1:02:43
to get vaccinated because they
1:02:45
all they had done the entire time it was privately
1:02:48
counter argue against your points and then
1:02:50
they came out of that with more arguments against
1:02:52
as and they had going in which is why they that's
1:02:54
why the elements of backfire of it so
1:02:56
guinness is super small do you you you
1:02:58
ask the reasons that your where the fact
1:03:00
that might not actually be the true reason and
1:03:04
hopefully in the course of all this you're going get
1:03:06
all the way back in processing change to with that
1:03:08
reason is so you ask him what
1:03:10
method they're using to
1:03:13
judge the quality of that particular reason
1:03:15
and in for rest conversation you're going to focus
1:03:18
on that
1:03:19
method that are using like how
1:03:21
did you determine that's determine that's that's
1:03:23
a good reason to feel the way you feel because what's really
1:03:25
happening is they are on
1:03:28
their own on their side the conversation
1:03:30
with us you could try to copy and paste your own
1:03:32
reasoning into it they're starting
1:03:34
to maybe for the first time discover what
1:03:37
is motivating there
1:03:40
grieving process in
1:03:42
used to the conversation play out from there you
1:03:44
listen to summarize you
1:03:46
repeat you engage
1:03:48
in as a say in psychology non judgmental
1:03:51
to passionate listening and
1:03:55
but into videodisc rabbit and wish them well and
1:03:57
and just that has all these techniques
1:03:59
you something some
1:04:01
is unbelievable that is that in and
1:04:03
of itself often moves people around because
1:04:06
what's happening is they are introspective
1:04:08
in a way that they need
1:04:10
guidance to partake in
1:04:12
and once they've done that it's almost impossible
1:04:15
not to think about something that you think feel believe
1:04:17
in that deep of away without realizing
1:04:19
whom should rethink this maybe some of this has
1:04:21
received wisdom or maybe haven't considered
1:04:23
all the viewpoints on us that i've never
1:04:26
any point do i feel like you
1:04:28
are making me these things
1:04:30
is happening internally i am processing
1:04:33
yeah i'm producing these this elaboration
1:04:35
that wasn't there for me before i'm just
1:04:37
struck
1:04:39
this moment cause i'm i'm thinking about
1:04:41
my work and i'm thinking about what you're saying
1:04:43
and i'm thinking about the world we live in now
1:04:45
and you , what
1:04:47
i wonder i have santa see
1:04:49
that this kind is he
1:04:52
conversational ground
1:04:54
for elaboration the used to be
1:04:56
a lot more common than it is now
1:04:58
the and i don't have any evidence
1:05:00
for that to support that fantasy but
1:05:03
i'm just saying about my own life in you know
1:05:06
the amount of time i spend moving from one thing
1:05:08
to another i mean the way i mean i don't
1:05:10
really consume lot of news because
1:05:13
it affects my mental health but the
1:05:15
way do consume news when i do from
1:05:17
time to time you
1:05:19
know i might the fantasy i'm fantasy
1:05:21
i'm is that the not
1:05:24
it jaime used to live life
1:05:27
of leisure but the used to live life that was
1:05:29
more social than our than
1:05:31
the life that we lives now
1:05:33
and so i wonder if some of what
1:05:35
is the last
1:05:38
today is the
1:05:41
yes is this really this
1:05:44
really human human level interaction
1:05:46
that we just don't , as
1:05:48
much of now and so we don't have these
1:05:50
opportunities for elaboration
1:05:53
and reflection because we're always
1:05:56
reacting and responding and we are
1:05:58
in this information abundance the
1:06:00
landscape i don't know i'm making this up now
1:06:02
woody woody i have i have a lot
1:06:04
of also that i'll try not to have to
1:06:06
suck for twenty minutes straight again but this but
1:06:08
this i'm at on the this i'd because i i spend
1:06:10
a lotta a since or something but this but i've also
1:06:12
spent much time the
1:06:14
asking people who'd know lot
1:06:16
more about does that mean yeah life goal to
1:06:18
understand it the trying
1:06:21
to deferred their expertise one
1:06:23
person particular tom stafford is it
1:06:27
or he's been risk stream we have one or
1:06:29
when it came to him to sort of the
1:06:32
coalescing all my fault convincing all this iracing
1:06:35
analysts he something
1:06:38
that i want the things i to pay penance
1:06:40
for in this new book that
1:06:43
for years and years this as source
1:06:45
to work a time saver work if you go mercy and down
1:06:47
sperber the
1:06:48
interactions model and the truth wins model these
1:06:50
are two things that are sore the peanut butter and
1:06:52
chocolate of my own comeuppance i
1:06:54
used his tail people that
1:06:57
we were flaws and irrational and
1:07:00
when i was asked out the window in
1:07:02
septic moments of the home from book was
1:07:04
ions may ask me if he didn't have change
1:07:07
their fathers mind about a conspiracy theory
1:07:09
that he believed in as told the you couldn't do it
1:07:11
because i was still that captain of many of us still
1:07:13
are still are i never liked
1:07:15
it i didn't and i started to
1:07:18
the eagerly except opportunities
1:07:20
to question my on believe that regard
1:07:23
and an end the came in these two
1:07:25
places when it comes to whether
1:07:27
were flawed and irrational the
1:07:30
mercy is berber interactions muddled demonstrates
1:07:33
dead it's quite rational to
1:07:35
resist change your mind certain ways
1:07:38
and data there's nothing flawed
1:07:40
taking place when a person producers biased
1:07:43
and lazy arguments because it
1:07:45
saves kind of labor the ideas
1:07:47
that as you're willing to we would we
1:07:50
are built to enter into
1:07:53
we evolved reach consensus whether
1:07:55
it's facts or moral
1:07:57
ideas right wrong what is
1:07:59
just like what we'll be we're going to go watch the
1:08:01
ideas that we will talk it out will do the sort
1:08:03
of of twelve angry
1:08:05
men thing and the
1:08:08
group's the did a better job of doing that by
1:08:11
producing and evaluate their arguments in
1:08:13
reaching from your goals they out survivor
1:08:15
was the didn't so selective pressures led
1:08:17
to this innate psychology we
1:08:20
carry with us to attempt to persuade
1:08:22
others are tim produce arguments in those situations
1:08:25
but the cognitive systems that produce
1:08:27
arguments are different from the ones that evaluate
1:08:30
arguments the idea being everyone
1:08:32
produces everyone easy
1:08:35
lazy biased arguments because
1:08:37
you want them to be as much from your perspective
1:08:40
as you can make them cause that utilizes
1:08:42
your unique perspective it elijah
1:08:44
your nuke experience and he'd
1:08:46
have been to kind of person has been are
1:08:48
in a bunch of bear attacks i want you
1:08:50
to be against going in certain places because
1:08:52
you say oh hayek that can be bears their assists
1:08:55
in someone elses like lay i've i've
1:08:57
, there many times as never had barrett i want
1:08:59
want to have the combination of your to biases
1:09:01
at play and then it
1:09:04
you produce the lazy are you at first because the
1:09:06
ideas that everyone will produce all their arguments
1:09:08
together the and it didn't the in
1:09:11
will save all of our cognitive labor for
1:09:13
the for the twelve angry men thing
1:09:15
that takes place in the group as we sort of
1:09:17
and out and evaluate it is great research
1:09:19
where people are tricked into thinking that their own
1:09:22
arguments other people's arguments and
1:09:24
will make you'll notice when they think they're other people's
1:09:26
arguments they find all the flaws in their reasoning
1:09:29
which , couldn't find before and i'll yet it
1:09:31
out the only thing that changes is whether not you tell them
1:09:33
as their argument somebody elses and if
1:09:35
it's your argument you defendant getting and somebody
1:09:37
elses argument your final the flaws in it really
1:09:39
demonstrates the two systems when
1:09:42
it the other side my come up and says that
1:09:45
when or most the stuff i've i talked
1:09:47
about a new are not so smart and you know as
1:09:49
dumb and on podcast for years
1:09:53
and many other people who written about these
1:09:55
things are many other bucks a pop psychology
1:09:57
about irrationality and they
1:10:00
we we're all pulling for pool of studies
1:10:03
that we're done on individuals in
1:10:05
divided between vivid done on lots of individuals
1:10:08
but the actual research is done enough with people
1:10:10
in isolation and
1:10:13
in isolation you're using
1:10:15
that one cognitive process and lady
1:10:19
unbiased reasoning but
1:10:21
as tom staffers it is demonstrated
1:10:23
to me many times like
1:10:25
you can take the same studies and then
1:10:27
let people sort them out sort out the
1:10:29
questions as group can you get
1:10:31
much better a a success
1:10:33
rate and , started testing
1:10:35
this out in lectures and i didn't
1:10:38
i mentioned a little bit in book but like really
1:10:40
wanted to talk about it a lot but it just felt little
1:10:43
too like hey by the way i do electors
1:10:45
hire me kind of stuff i didn't want but then
1:10:47
there's a but i've i've seen listeners
1:10:50
listeners david does election election
1:10:52
have you or your organization
1:10:54
or your team or your leadership team
1:10:56
would feel like you would benefit from a deeper
1:10:58
dive into this stuff he will do a lack of
1:11:01
you will customize it so it
1:11:03
really helps you uncover your
1:11:05
deeper gif go on david gif go mean
1:11:07
and around the the a totally
1:11:09
okay i'm there's
1:11:11
something that i have done and lectures several
1:11:14
times and it's ah it
1:11:16
always works in it's amazing this all based
1:11:18
off of the tom staffers does any interacts
1:11:20
the small stuff is a , something
1:11:22
from the cogs a reflection task this
1:11:24
is something that was made popular by then
1:11:27
economy into give as a slow he took one the
1:11:29
questions that have a does that the bat and ball problem
1:11:31
the people are familiar with i am i take
1:11:33
a different thing from it because several in there
1:11:35
and what a will do
1:11:37
as i usually i have people play a cognitive
1:11:40
a play i haven't play i'm
1:11:42
confirmation bias game first which
1:11:44
everyone the room commits confirmation bias simultaneously
1:11:47
and we'll get to feel that and then
1:11:49
i didn't straight was try different kind of
1:11:51
game which is which throw up
1:11:54
the the widget problem i
1:11:56
ask him on the in a group to covenant answer the
1:11:58
keep to themselves and then
1:12:00
i ask is there anyone in the room
1:12:02
whose feals they strongly have
1:12:05
the the correct answer you really feel
1:12:07
strongly you do have correct answer
1:12:09
is sometimes i have people break out into smaller a small
1:12:11
groups into that way but but sometimes i do dissolves
1:12:14
one big group and
1:12:16
when one person says they have the right answer
1:12:18
i asked them to microphone
1:12:20
over the mercedes giving the answer
1:12:22
and and then out asked
1:12:25
his of his agree and there be a lot of murmurings lotta
1:12:27
people like what does make any sense then
1:12:29
think please explain your reasoning they'll say it in
1:12:31
some way they'll use doing their own words and
1:12:33
, get this collective ah in the
1:12:35
when the rouge yeah and then i
1:12:37
will save from the research when
1:12:40
you get this test two people in isolation
1:12:42
the majority of people will get
1:12:44
wrong answer but some them will get the right answer any
1:12:46
if you frame it that way like
1:12:49
in a podcasts are in a blog
1:12:51
posts are in book you can say
1:12:53
most people get this wrong look how
1:12:55
weird we are
1:12:56
the co flawed an irrational we are the
1:12:59
cope awful our reasoning is the
1:13:01
that's
1:13:02
those people were given the opportunity to speak
1:13:05
allow their reasoning and presented to the grew
1:13:07
by you when you do that the whole group
1:13:09
goes oh i see the answer thank you very much
1:13:11
can you go from a majority in cook
1:13:13
everybody's the majority groups wrong to now
1:13:16
everybody's right and
1:13:18
that's called truth when scenario that tom
1:13:20
staffers it is doing research on right
1:13:22
now i'm taking things like the ways
1:13:24
in selection task another sort
1:13:27
of heavy hitters from psychology
1:13:30
that demonstrate how flawed we are and
1:13:32
he's putting them into since you're online
1:13:35
the barman this barman this long answer to what originally
1:13:37
asked which is it feels like
1:13:39
in some primal version this we
1:13:41
were better off like we were able to do this
1:13:43
twelve angry men thing all time in
1:13:47
the , idea being a buddha where if if
1:13:49
we just go back to face to face conversations
1:13:51
with be more plugged into this is so
1:13:53
it's not that we have our
1:13:55
we're having more conversations back
1:13:57
then we're having more conversations now than we've
1:13:59
ever had the for we're we're writing with
1:14:02
we're disagreeing with refunding people does it hurt
1:14:04
us and everything more than ever we have more access
1:14:06
to than ever to other people's viewpoints
1:14:09
than it is everly history of our species
1:14:12
this is a were doing them and contexts where
1:14:15
we are favoring argument production
1:14:17
more than we are hearing the argument evaluation
1:14:20
and it seems like that seemed
1:14:22
didn't seem true because you like know i does
1:14:24
i'm evaluating lots of arguments on twitter
1:14:26
yes but you doing so in isolation it
1:14:28
feels like doing it together we're
1:14:31
doing it of those same way those studies were
1:14:33
done lots of people doing stuff
1:14:35
by themselves producing
1:14:37
these arguments and throwing all the on big pile
1:14:40
does a most these platforms favor
1:14:42
in the increase engagement
1:14:44
at the individual level
1:14:46
the tom staffers like what if we tried
1:14:48
to make online environments where people could
1:14:51
have produced as truth wins narrow and he's doing great
1:14:53
results from us he's doing it appears
1:14:55
he's trying out and text
1:14:57
for me is trying it in like sort more
1:14:59
on twitter is ways and
1:15:01
tic talkie kind of ways and turns
1:15:03
out you can
1:15:05
the just the knobs on the way we interact
1:15:07
with each other on the internet and in
1:15:09
online environments and electronic environments
1:15:11
and an information new information environments
1:15:14
and you can get
1:15:16
the best out of what we evolved to do
1:15:18
as sister we're living through a period of time
1:15:20
where we can i haven't sorted out
1:15:22
yeah i think that's a real that's it
1:15:24
that's damage me optimistic and
1:15:27
know the other thing i mean i think so
1:15:29
you know you'd you interviewed me on the podcast
1:15:31
a while ago about meltdown which is all
1:15:33
about the way world getting more complex
1:15:35
and i think particular the way of organizations
1:15:38
getting more complex to so as
1:15:41
we're talking about this what my mind goes
1:15:43
to his okay
1:15:45
but why do organization still struggle with
1:15:47
this you know organizations as groups of people
1:15:50
and i think it's because it's
1:15:52
kind of another it's almost like
1:15:54
another layer of the problem behind
1:15:56
it because the organizational
1:15:58
context that many people in his
1:16:01
it's not you know okay you have five machines
1:16:03
that make five widgets in you know
1:16:05
five minutes it
1:16:08
is a problem that what which is problem
1:16:10
at any anyone is capable
1:16:12
of looking at and solving and
1:16:15
any challenges i see organizational
1:16:18
leaders face these days are ones
1:16:20
that i mean i have a weird selection
1:16:22
bias of problems see but many them
1:16:24
are ones that you really actually
1:16:26
need oh creation
1:16:29
solve because different people
1:16:31
and of have different pieces of puzzle
1:16:34
different people experienced the problem in different
1:16:36
ways and so that's
1:16:38
where i get really interested in
1:16:40
the kind of to me it's like this
1:16:43
this this era where
1:16:45
the are kind of the
1:16:48
the the sort of command and control like
1:16:51
know hippo affect the highest paid person's opinion
1:16:54
which is how many organizations run their decision
1:16:56
making like that actually
1:16:58
feels really miserably because there
1:17:01
are many many people that are closer
1:17:04
to the problem and so the actual even
1:17:06
if and of the challenge
1:17:09
of uncovering with what is the
1:17:12
the dynamics of what's going on the organization
1:17:15
even that conversation has to be
1:17:17
collaborative and co creative because
1:17:20
otherwise you end up with these sort of like
1:17:22
weirdly strong signals that are just
1:17:24
depended on the specific experience
1:17:26
of the people in the room plus
1:17:29
their career as
1:17:31
getting rewarded for advocating for
1:17:33
for their solutions and so don't
1:17:36
know it's i don't know where to go from that but
1:17:38
i mean i might never demille go to like
1:17:41
people will the follow
1:17:44
the path
1:17:46
least resistance in the direction of their motivations
1:17:48
and what are you being what
1:17:50
you what are your motivation
1:17:52
to solve the problem than that in mystic organization
1:17:54
will make big difference sometimes
1:17:57
to to demonstrate you
1:18:01
should be the person who has but but you have
1:18:03
hidden had sometimes it's to break earn
1:18:05
social capital the
1:18:08
to have manager reputations
1:18:10
way another
1:18:13
i'm i think that there's the of
1:18:15
us so many different ways to come added that
1:18:17
how do you incentivize that solving
1:18:19
the problem is is the highest motivation
1:18:21
like that's your goal like
1:18:24
to see it's so we we have
1:18:26
is so easy to slip away
1:18:28
from that into to have these social
1:18:30
goals take over and
1:18:32
once you are in that frame like we're
1:18:35
much more were were way more
1:18:37
when agree
1:18:38
are set up to pursue belonging goals
1:18:40
over accuracy goals at all times you
1:18:43
have to incentivize the others side things
1:18:45
or you have to do it site good i'm sorry
1:18:47
i'm as guilty about it he got an idea oh no
1:18:49
i so i think incentives are such an interesting
1:18:52
an interesting and i i
1:18:56
i think and centers work really well
1:18:58
when you know what the problem is and
1:19:00
you want people to turn the crank and and i'm thinking
1:19:03
about most see how organizations apply financial
1:19:05
incentives are t v eyes are all
1:19:07
of their the alphabet soup
1:19:09
of what what organizations do to
1:19:12
try to quote unquote incentivise people but
1:19:15
for whatever reason and this is where my weird
1:19:17
selection bias comes into play too
1:19:19
like as you start attacking that that i started thinking
1:19:22
almost every reader that i
1:19:24
work with i'm working with because
1:19:26
they see a better way for
1:19:28
the organization to work like that's it
1:19:30
like they see oh
1:19:33
you know were asking these here's
1:19:36
an example from an oil and gas companies were asking
1:19:39
these mean people to to follow these long
1:19:41
complex procedures that
1:19:43
thought that kind stupid like
1:19:45
we should let them use their expertise rates
1:19:47
and we shouldn't burden them with bureaucracy
1:19:50
we should sort of let them
1:19:53
let them use their expertise and so
1:19:56
that funny is like there is
1:19:58
this motivation that a lot the people i
1:20:00
work with have which is just like we're
1:20:02
doing things in a way that may be made
1:20:04
sense certain context but we've taken it way
1:20:06
too far and there's
1:20:08
just better way of doing it so they
1:20:11
arse they are kind of you
1:20:13
know not seeking the truth capital t
1:20:15
but they are like they are in a c have a
1:20:17
vantage point where they see save
1:20:19
sit as soon doubt and they can see the system
1:20:22
little bit more clearly maybe than
1:20:24
even that they use to one my
1:20:26
clients said you know i'm else i
1:20:28
spend lot time the
1:20:30
kind of trying to dismantle framework
1:20:32
that i used to enforce arm
1:20:34
and i thought was really really interesting and
1:20:36
and good way to put it does
1:20:38
fantastic alabama i've obviously you're digging
1:20:41
like how i want hear more at us to just please
1:20:44
, an essay so can up that that's really
1:20:46
cool i like i'd like this
1:20:48
idea that this is it seems
1:20:50
me that there the organization
1:20:52
like you're but like you're talking about some people
1:20:54
have privilege of zooming out so we have
1:20:56
privilege of pushing way from table and
1:20:59
not everybody has that and reminds
1:21:01
me of like
1:21:04
when lot of people were really there were certain people
1:21:06
it's he companies were eager to get back to work
1:21:08
out recovered and there were others
1:21:10
you're like a young i'm young i'm doing
1:21:12
zooms and in working without
1:21:14
my shoes on like have visited
1:21:16
this the lake and idea like why would
1:21:18
you want to come back
1:21:20
cause that's where get to you collaborate
1:21:22
and us with good ideas flow and like three got to
1:21:24
be an extrovert yeah let's not
1:21:26
for everybody like like they have like
1:21:29
it not all of his get to do that and
1:21:31
there i feel like of i'm
1:21:34
wondering how you democratize the ability
1:21:36
to zoom out and an organization out another
1:21:38
cut the answer that about like that something that would nice
1:21:40
to explore i don't think
1:21:42
about the as we noted
1:21:44
belonging goals will trump accuracy goals
1:21:46
there's some things have already
1:21:48
happened in in in our the
1:21:51
in the arc of our species where we have
1:21:53
sort of accidentally found
1:21:55
way to get those two thing yeah
1:21:57
i'd ice like the scientific to
1:21:59
me the
1:22:01
the you gain social capital and
1:22:03
and status within a community by
1:22:07
presenting things as a hypothesis unlike the evidence
1:22:10
go where it may and and are
1:22:12
tearing apart each other's theories and vetting everything
1:22:15
like you move
1:22:17
up your reputation you
1:22:19
gain reputation by being a person
1:22:21
who tears apart your ideas and
1:22:23
who is willing to be wrong
1:22:26
so they they found way for their of belonging
1:22:28
goals and accuracy goals to work together with
1:22:31
an organization like say the flat earthers the
1:22:35
they're belonging goals will
1:22:38
prevent them from tearing apart their fantasies
1:22:40
right so if the same same
1:22:42
motivation same structures
1:22:45
the same things that were developed
1:22:47
by v a natural selection but in one firemen
1:22:50
you go to the moon supposedly
1:22:52
and an assist assist costs in
1:22:54
another and another , made
1:22:56
you happy if you to depend on on
1:22:59
on a d on yesterday use a different dating
1:23:02
app than most people because the the
1:23:04
right right success yeah
1:23:07
i'm wondering if his way to apply that to have to an
1:23:09
institution you know to and slid in salute institution
1:23:12
really how can we make it so does your
1:23:14
of the things you cannot help about being
1:23:16
a person work well together and
1:23:18
get us closer to the thing that with him benefits
1:23:21
all of us with earnest organization i
1:23:23
feel like there's a way to the
1:23:25
to mess with those let levers
1:23:27
and somewhere
1:23:28
okay so i'm going put two things you
1:23:31
which i'm and i want
1:23:33
to end and you get to choose actually
1:23:35
neither i'm from your buck but they're they're
1:23:37
both related and know lead us in different
1:23:39
past am one is
1:23:41
something called the paradoxical fury of seems
1:23:43
and i wonder if you've heard of that
1:23:46
then the other thing that we could talk about
1:23:49
his the resistance
1:23:51
and kind how resistance works
1:23:54
which which of those things are you more are
1:23:56
you more interest labella i know more about resistance
1:23:58
but i'm actually always
1:24:00
eager to hear about things never heard of so hit hit
1:24:02
with this paradox
1:24:03
okay so the paradoxical theory of change
1:24:05
i'm so and that says i
1:24:07
i'm going do what we just talking about i'm going to throw stone
1:24:10
into the pond then and then we'll see what you make of
1:24:12
it i'm so
1:24:14
it it's an essay written by this
1:24:16
guy arnold guy arnold
1:24:19
beiser actually don't know how to pronounce his last
1:24:21
name i'm and he is a he's
1:24:23
a a gestalt therapists
1:24:25
your shoulders this the kind of school of
1:24:27
have no i'm not a therapist but the school
1:24:29
of coaching organizational development that i'm
1:24:31
embedded in i'm and
1:24:34
work in and the
1:24:36
idea is that any
1:24:38
time people want to make a change even they show
1:24:40
up in want make a change in themselves that
1:24:43
comes with some amount of resistance and
1:24:46
eat this eat definition right because
1:24:48
if we wanted to make change and we didn't resistance
1:24:51
than we would just make the same so there's some
1:24:53
kind of their some sort of henchmen
1:24:55
there were always sitting in with
1:24:57
cheese and the
1:24:59
paradoxical serious change says
1:25:02
is that i'm and i think this goes back
1:25:04
to our conversation about safety what
1:25:06
it says is it basically we really
1:25:08
need appreciate the value of
1:25:10
what is now before we
1:25:12
can move away from it we really need to deeply
1:25:14
appreciate the value what is that once
1:25:19
we do appreciate it we can understand
1:25:21
what we get from what is now and then we are
1:25:23
more aware of it and
1:25:25
were more open to making making and
1:25:27
and that's little abstracts i'd like to try
1:25:29
to share an example for wavelengths of his best
1:25:31
that so there have
1:25:33
been periods in my life where
1:25:36
i have and i'm not like i
1:25:38
feel little sheepish sharing this
1:25:41
because it's not like while others sure and then
1:25:43
you can you can decide their been peers my life
1:25:45
where i've eaten a lot of toast with a lot of butter
1:25:47
on , like night i will i like
1:25:50
after a long day i'll come home i'll eat
1:25:52
like four pieces toast six pieces
1:25:54
of toast and lot butter as i'm eating
1:25:56
the toast i'm not like on pretty good
1:25:58
happy about this arrangement know like like
1:26:00
i'm i'm interested in being a healthy person
1:26:03
right like i'm worried about my way to
1:26:05
have whole story about ways that i've i've
1:26:07
been live my life so
1:26:10
i don't really wanna do this and yet
1:26:12
here i am eating eating toast
1:26:15
and so what about
1:26:17
the same time i was in a lot of called peak
1:26:19
toast periods am i
1:26:21
was also learning about the paradoxical theory
1:26:24
teens and sounds like all right let's
1:26:26
like let's make this real
1:26:28
so why what
1:26:31
is happening here like what is the value
1:26:33
i get from eating toast so
1:26:35
obviously the toast is
1:26:37
delicious and the the six pass
1:26:39
of butter put on it are incredible so
1:26:41
there's like just like sensory experience
1:26:44
that i really enjoy there's
1:26:46
something deeper here right because like
1:26:48
if it were just to censor express me baby one
1:26:50
piece atos but i'm eating six pieces of toast
1:26:52
so what's what's happening here and after
1:26:55
, introspection and
1:26:58
i don't i don't think i was professional
1:27:00
on this but i might have or remember
1:27:03
when oh goodness like best
1:27:05
eating toast in this way it really
1:27:07
gives me sense of the
1:27:10
control it gives me a sense
1:27:12
that oh i can break rules because i
1:27:14
kind no i'm not i'm not supposed to eat toast
1:27:16
like this and it
1:27:18
gives me the sense that like you
1:27:20
know amidst all of this uncertainty
1:27:22
this uncertainty world and in my business and in my
1:27:24
life like this is something
1:27:27
that i get to just hold onto and this
1:27:29
is something i get to carve out for myself
1:27:31
and and just do and
1:27:34
as i kind of uncovered those
1:27:36
of reasons as i i
1:27:39
you know dug little bit deeper it
1:27:41
was it's just was very freeing
1:27:43
for me and it's like okay well query
1:27:48
hey weather i
1:27:50
actually need break the rules cause you
1:27:52
know i i
1:27:55
actually break the rules every day right like i'm on
1:27:57
a weird nontraditional career path like
1:27:59
the the you know sit by myself
1:28:02
for long time and think about my clients problems
1:28:04
or i have like deep conversations
1:28:06
where you know i'm coaching them
1:28:08
and like were crying or like
1:28:10
i'm doing you know flying
1:28:13
around world doing like weird sort
1:28:15
of work with organizations that organizations can't really describe
1:28:17
my clients my clients really describe but like
1:28:20
get something and very
1:28:22
meaningful out of that so actually
1:28:24
i spend all day breaking the rules and so
1:28:27
i just offer this because i
1:28:29
think it's really interesting and think it's interesting
1:28:31
that the beauty of hearing all sorts
1:28:33
things pop off my head that connect good he will
1:28:35
have great suits suits others bring it to
1:28:37
a close because that's what i want get soon so that
1:28:39
did it is it's like very occasionally i
1:28:41
will eat toast now in this
1:28:43
way almost never six pieces i'm
1:28:46
and and much more rare it's like oh
1:28:48
like i has kind is i
1:28:50
have on in uncovering the deeper reasons i
1:28:52
no longer need to reach
1:28:55
for the kind of the
1:28:57
superficial mechanism a kitten
1:28:59
now just reflect on the underlying reasons
1:29:01
and indeed you know this
1:29:03
to me is this lived experience
1:29:06
of this of this paradoxical theory of change
1:29:09
this
1:29:09
is so that's that that's the stone a thank
1:29:11
you i love it ah just use
1:29:13
write book called peak tourist office
1:29:17
or of the title of his bike as has be picked
1:29:19
her is this is hear is the
1:29:21
thing you are naturally
1:29:24
wandering into
1:29:26
the same place to did the deed canvassers
1:29:28
wandered into and the same
1:29:30
place to super small and hundred and two and
1:29:33
they both of those groups were absolutely
1:29:35
fascinated to discover that motivational
1:29:37
interviewing has already later ground groundwork
1:29:39
for all that stuff ah and cbt
1:29:41
ali of our offshoots of motivation interviewing
1:29:45
that's because you at
1:29:48
least many ways to preserve the the you're
1:29:52
talking about what works
1:29:54
in those persuasion techniques is
1:29:57
that i don't start at the
1:29:59
conclusions
1:30:00
or i don't wanna go have a battle of conclusions
1:30:02
the whole search pad after the line thing
1:30:05
we can try to get a cross that line and find
1:30:07
out
1:30:07
what your motivations what he drives what
1:30:09
are the things that are generating
1:30:12
the emotional reaction you're having right now
1:30:14
why did you quit work
1:30:16
i don't think it's the the parking garage is
1:30:19
a it's the there's
1:30:21
an old study that i love
1:30:23
is not the book they yeah they had
1:30:25
a job the
1:30:26
professor who had really sick
1:30:28
belgian accent and had professor
1:30:31
in some classes i give
1:30:33
people hop
1:30:34
tests and i was really a real hard
1:30:36
as and in other classes is
1:30:38
very laid back one of those easy
1:30:41
going professors like a learned not
1:30:43
learned and is here to talk and
1:30:46
they
1:30:46
will have these class evaluations where they'd say
1:30:48
or do you what you think of the professor
1:30:50
and course one time they do as specifically
1:30:52
what do you think of the accents and that
1:30:54
say the second best thing about a messy was the easy
1:30:57
going professor and the last i say
1:30:59
it is is the exit the drives
1:31:01
me insane this is the thing that happens
1:31:03
like winner but when person is
1:31:06
falling in love with someone every every little aspect
1:31:08
every other little nuances are reasons why
1:31:11
i when they are despise
1:31:13
that person when they're like in the verge of a break up
1:31:15
those are all the reasons why they're gonna break up
1:31:17
with apres it's highly in
1:31:19
therapy this is all part of the process
1:31:22
of of getting back to it's
1:31:24
so easy to come with justification
1:31:26
or explanation or rationalization for
1:31:28
what you think the on believe that
1:31:30
may not actually be the truth
1:31:34
motivation for it then of the true
1:31:36
reason so in
1:31:39
this instance if that's what happens in motivation
1:31:41
living as happens and sweepers maltese we haven't
1:31:43
and canvassing you patiently sit
1:31:45
with someone in way that allows them to
1:31:48
introspect can get past that
1:31:50
line in the peak toast
1:31:52
moment that's what you're doing right you're you're
1:31:54
like okay guess what is
1:31:56
going on here i am getting
1:31:58
these things are these drives
1:32:01
and motivations are being satisfied agency
1:32:03
affective seconds predictability
1:32:07
the identity also
1:32:09
some extremely primal things are
1:32:11
some very deep
1:32:13
, psychology stuff like no
1:32:16
calories ah yeah salt
1:32:18
sugar fat fat it probably would really
1:32:20
it is foundation there and
1:32:22
and build up from all these other things
1:32:25
that we've added on top that as we've
1:32:27
evolved as a species identity and seconds
1:32:29
and agency analyst or athena
1:32:32
those to satisfying all these things for you in
1:32:34
that moment once you have that
1:32:37
understanding you
1:32:39
can have from those things with
1:32:42
alternatives and you gave
1:32:44
yourself the power to do that that's
1:32:46
also what happens these moments where people change their minds
1:32:48
right often
1:32:50
times once person is given the gift
1:32:52
of understanding where where their why
1:32:54
they are eager to
1:32:57
cherry pick evidence for things that satisfies
1:32:59
there identity
1:33:01
or satisfy your need for predictability
1:33:04
are their need to lower their anxiety they
1:33:06
didn't given the freedom to find
1:33:10
other ways of doing that and when
1:33:13
comes to values especially that's one
1:33:15
that's how trolley beach and
1:33:17
make themselves roper and so the other people
1:33:20
i i spoke to and but the way they
1:33:22
the able to escape those are
1:33:25
pseudo cultish environments of as conspiratorial
1:33:27
environments was it turned out they had
1:33:30
values that were
1:33:32
important to them they were
1:33:34
unaware that there were other some
1:33:37
cultures other communities they
1:33:40
can affirm their values even
1:33:42
more so and they had to be given
1:33:44
at someone had offer a hand from
1:33:46
those places not push them away not
1:33:48
ridicule them at all for their of her hand say it's
1:33:51
cool be here a from your values become person
1:33:53
you truly are so all this
1:33:55
all this in sense that these are
1:33:57
the same fundamental psychological
1:33:59
mega them to play at loved it the
1:34:01
he can get their via toast think that's beautiful
1:34:04
a hint hint then
1:34:07
there's isn't gonna was in here too because yeah
1:34:09
the reason resist changes because
1:34:12
fundamentally if you update
1:34:14
your model reality when you shouldn't
1:34:17
you might become wrong which is dangerous
1:34:19
especially that could lead you to been getting eaten
1:34:21
are starving that
1:34:23
not updating when you should is also
1:34:25
dangerous you might stay wrong in a way
1:34:27
that could get you eaten north cause you
1:34:29
to start so the
1:34:31
brain works a tight rope into a change
1:34:33
your mind i carefully given
1:34:37
the variety of motivations and goals and
1:34:39
play and sometimes those motivation
1:34:41
goals are i just want to be held
1:34:43
i just wants the be touched i just
1:34:45
want to
1:34:47
feel in control i just want to
1:34:49
lower my anxiety there's
1:34:51
so many things that can play into where
1:34:53
you will decide to take a step on that tyro
1:34:56
and i find it
1:34:58
you to pull that the toast is really good
1:35:00
way to get into that conversation without having
1:35:02
to start with some
1:35:05
with or receipt coleen and serotonin
1:35:07
this serotonin this really great way to discuss it what
1:35:10
else is you know or acts as i i
1:35:12
as soon as i skipped over this at the beginning
1:35:14
because it was uncomfortable but i'll just go back
1:35:17
to it and make it really explicit it's
1:35:19
an uncomfortable thing for me to share this mean it's
1:35:21
such with which is also interesting right
1:35:24
it's the feel very vulnerable to share that said
1:35:26
mean we have so much in our culture about you
1:35:28
know eating and seem and all of this stuff
1:35:30
and it's
1:35:33
not like it's it's it's
1:35:35
a simple example to very sasol example
1:35:37
but it's not trivial example like clearly
1:35:40
something that got my attention and that
1:35:42
argue hide the they
1:35:44
occupied me and it
1:35:47
also guy thing comes down to you know you talked about
1:35:49
sidewalk a sort change and resistance but
1:35:51
also the tight walk of willpower number
1:35:54
the tight rope of willpower was think it's something
1:35:56
that's also so deeply
1:35:58
connected to change
1:36:00
you know we try use willpower to change
1:36:03
man can be muscle our way through for while
1:36:06
until , can't and i think that's
1:36:08
a that's a part that's been a part of my story
1:36:10
to pay up with with you and enough a
1:36:13
full transparency the i'm transparency the even
1:36:15
think about it but i'm we waited as
1:36:17
we built report and
1:36:21
i use you as if you couldn't hear a story
1:36:23
would be and i offered to non judgmental listen
1:36:25
to it all those the having satisfies
1:36:28
then i can now i can also
1:36:30
add another little commiseration i was over cooper
1:36:32
the last one hundred pounds like i'm
1:36:35
with you on this like every single thing
1:36:37
i eat brings with
1:36:39
it
1:36:40
a million triggers a any
1:36:42
thoughts of shame thoughts of
1:36:45
identity thoughts of reputation
1:36:47
management thoughts the
1:36:50
denying myself is also feels like
1:36:53
losing control our agency
1:36:55
and agency having to
1:36:57
eat the same type of the predictability didn't
1:37:00
know what do i value more do is a my health
1:37:02
my appearance what is a all
1:37:04
of it comes in there and it's not
1:37:06
trivial read the group
1:37:09
this is something we probably share with many people
1:37:11
in yeah so i can commiserate fully
1:37:13
with illness and it and in in
1:37:15
just telling the story and receiving story
1:37:17
and then you and i offering
1:37:19
perspectives on story it's demonstrating
1:37:22
the very thing that i'm proselytizing
1:37:25
i feel and i probably yes
1:37:28
yeah and it's you know it's so it's
1:37:30
so connected to my works coaching
1:37:33
and am working with you know
1:37:35
where know where leaders to help them see their strengths
1:37:37
and also help them see what happens
1:37:39
when those strengths are over expressed and
1:37:41
then organizations do that have
1:37:43
the same dynamic great organizations
1:37:45
have a real strengths
1:37:48
whether it's collegiality
1:37:50
or direct ness or even run
1:37:52
through centralized essentially me who run
1:37:54
through kind of millions of different
1:37:56
parameters of what organizations
1:37:59
value and the
1:38:01
paradox is that if you wanna
1:38:03
seen something if you want it seems the way you
1:38:05
are the where you work you've gotta focus
1:38:07
on creating safety around
1:38:09
what's valuable now because that's what people
1:38:11
don't want leave people don't wanna give up
1:38:14
thing that did they find valuable
1:38:16
and i think that's i think what your work
1:38:19
shows us in this book is just how deeply
1:38:21
rooted that is and
1:38:24
and also how am so
1:38:26
universal that is and and literally universal
1:38:28
and arse human primate way because
1:38:31
it's you know you
1:38:34
know are millions of years of of of evolution
1:38:36
and experience that have brought us to this point you've
1:38:39
written beautiful book and
1:38:42
i mean it's
1:38:44
just a privilege to talk with you about it because
1:38:46
your energy in your enthusiasm and
1:38:49
the way you bring these stories to life mean it's
1:38:51
not like it's not
1:38:53
like we're not read and dry scientific papers here
1:38:55
i mean you're talking about the researchers you're talking
1:38:57
about this the as the changes
1:38:59
these practitioners are making and people's lives
1:39:02
and you know so much to
1:39:04
say about your book it's impossible to summarize
1:39:06
but i do think that there is
1:39:09
there is a through line which is
1:39:12
human connection matters and empathy matters
1:39:15
and you know how to mine change
1:39:17
well in some sense the the change when
1:39:19
we stop trying to change them and start accepting
1:39:22
people for who they are and that's
1:39:24
what you're talking about here yeah i
1:39:26
think thank you so much for that didn't
1:39:29
know that would give come across as it at some
1:39:31
point i had
1:39:32
i reached a point running it was like i want
1:39:34
this the book i wanna i wanna write and it may
1:39:36
not be what people interviewed this is it
1:39:39
it always comes back what you're saying i
1:39:42
hi you know that it's really hard to be person
1:39:44
and we're all stumbling and fumbling
1:39:47
and trying to figure this out the and
1:39:50
by a truly telling the
1:39:52
story of another person
1:39:54
i really trying to get in there and and show
1:39:56
you what's going on with him there's always
1:39:58
an opportunity if you do understand you the place
1:40:00
and things better and then
1:40:03
to spend time of people who are they
1:40:06
are trying do that in until their stories
1:40:08
it became very important read that their stories come
1:40:10
came through and it became
1:40:13
this infinite recursion
1:40:15
so did take place where the
1:40:17
embassy was overwhelming when i ever have an when
1:40:19
did the audio book i like we had to take breaks
1:40:21
because i'm just so hard to
1:40:24
there's speak on behalf of people were to or
1:40:27
there's
1:40:28
some people to book your shoes or their their
1:40:30
instances of illustrating heinous
1:40:32
the viewpoints even and
1:40:35
yeah i do i don't
1:40:37
know if even knew it into doing audiobook but it
1:40:39
it took it
1:40:41
meant lot more the to be than i maybe even
1:40:43
of was exposed admitting to myself so i
1:40:45
really appreciate that you know
1:40:47
i'm glad you wrote book that you wanted to write because
1:40:49
it's beautiful and and you really
1:40:51
show through and also in this is where
1:40:53
we started the interview for days ago although
1:40:55
we haven't done it for days straight interview although
1:40:58
maybe could try that subject user
1:41:00
we started for days ago like this is a book that has
1:41:03
a deep it is deeply human
1:41:05
and deeply connected of and i think in
1:41:07
in writing it's you know
1:41:09
the form that you write it in follows
1:41:12
what you're talking about and and you write
1:41:14
with empathy and you write with this
1:41:16
broad respect for other people's perspectives
1:41:19
and then
1:41:21
i think do beautiful job and i think every
1:41:24
person listening to this will
1:41:27
get something from it and
1:41:29
everyone not listening to this will also
1:41:31
get something from it too
1:41:33
one thank you so much i have no idea what say
1:41:35
that except thank you immensely
1:41:37
you're welcome and the this is real privilege
1:41:39
to have this conversation with you so thank you for
1:41:41
that opportunity even can tell people
1:41:43
little bit more about where they can
1:41:46
find out about me or follow logic forests
1:41:48
whatever
1:41:49
brad so critically
1:41:52
shield is my name i'm
1:41:54
actress fairfield on twitter i'm on linked
1:41:56
in under
1:41:58
my real name crispy your field
1:42:00
um and then one of the things i put
1:42:02
together for for um
1:42:04
this audience um is
1:42:07
just a little handout on change
1:42:09
in organizations and and how change
1:42:11
as cycle and it really helps to attend
1:42:13
to it and think of it journey um
1:42:16
and also a little bit about resistance very
1:42:18
short its to pages and its just kind of meant
1:42:20
to stimulate your thinking so you
1:42:22
can go to chris clearfield dot coms last change
1:42:25
if you want download that well what great
1:42:27
unexpected bonus then very happy
1:42:29
to point people your way and thank
1:42:32
, for being part of this for being
1:42:34
part the launch this book think honestly
1:42:36
the honestly people read this the better off we
1:42:38
are as a society um
1:42:41
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1:42:43
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