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creator of Everybody Loves Raymond
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Let's get into it. Let's enjoy. I'm so
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glad you're here. I already said let's get
1:47
into it, but say it again. let's get
1:49
into it. Feel. Is catching me
1:51
not being a student of comedy and
1:53
where we are. very funny. Talk about
1:55
how people don't like the sound of
1:57
eating so you'd be quicker Body. You
2:05
would be amazing The name
2:07
of this podcast too humid
2:09
itself counts as. Somebody
2:12
said so to see as a good epitaph
2:14
but look at all the nice things in
2:16
there he I would like this and that.
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I'm fine. Thank you behalf. I'm okay. I'll
2:21
Today's your day where you don't need yeah,
2:23
so you haven't a green juice. I'm having
2:25
a yeah, but nobody likes to talk about.
2:27
there's there's certain things. Food is so personal.
2:30
He only mean and yet universe yes.
2:32
But when you get into like restrictions
2:35
or you know what I'm saying like
2:37
some even as simple as I'm not
2:39
eating today people are take that personally.
2:43
I. I I I can see people nuts.
2:45
Let's put it this way. Seinfeld: did you
2:47
do comedians in Cars? Know
2:50
when at some other comedians.
2:53
I think it's because of that full
2:56
page ad campaign that's a Cvs did.
2:59
Remember. I don't. Nine thousand
3:02
cancelled. What? They're not
3:04
cancelled Ended okay and who are
3:06
careful with handle that? It was
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a self care so. Cycling.
3:12
A suicide, a murder of we weren't
3:14
cancelled. Know. They pulled the
3:16
trigger. Us to. For.
3:18
You Guys self cancelled. We did,
3:21
Yes, but when Seinfeld self cancelled
3:23
Young Ray. Was. In the
3:25
New York Times I believe. full page
3:27
ad and it said hey, looking for
3:30
something A Seinfeld Vans essentially. Are
3:32
you looking for something to do? Why
3:35
that come over to Cbs? I do
3:37
not remember that. But.
3:39
I have to say hearing is now. It's.
3:42
Only a compliment. I.
3:44
Agree that was just have fun theory
3:46
by the way. I have
3:48
no insight into intel. I'm basing
3:50
this on zero. And. It
3:52
is a compliment. but maybe maybe
3:54
you know that add the
3:56
unconscious quality of that at
3:58
his were friends rivals.
4:01
So maybe Seinfeld's like, not having the other guy
4:03
with the hair that did the thing in the
4:05
kitchen while I was doing my thing in the
4:08
kitchen. And Ray's like, it was a different thing.
4:10
And he's like, it was the same thing. When
4:12
were Joe's, you were Italian. Joe's
4:15
was better food. Don't do that. Try to
4:17
do that. Ray actually
4:19
wanted the show originally to be
4:21
more like Seinfeld, meaning he
4:24
actually asked me if there had to be a
4:26
story every week. Couldn't he just sit in the
4:28
diner and talk about stuff? I said, first
4:30
of all, there is that show. And second,
4:32
I'm the complete wrong guy to write that show.
4:35
That's so funny. Yeah. I
4:38
need a story. I grew up on story
4:40
shows. What if it's about
4:43
Zilch? Like, if he does,
4:45
saves it. It's a show about Nada.
4:48
No, Ray, they did that. So maybe
4:50
there's a friendly, uh, front petition. What was
4:52
I going to say? I would have loved
4:54
to see what you ate on that show.
4:56
Which one? No.
4:59
There was a reason I brought it up, but it wasn't that. So
5:01
I went to, I was very
5:03
good friends with George
5:05
Shapiro. Did you know George? You're
5:07
a George Shapiro type. Oh. Compliment.
5:10
He was the sweetest Superman show for
5:12
people who don't know he was Jerry's
5:15
manager. And an
5:17
executive producer on the TV series. He was
5:19
also, before that, and I think this is
5:21
how Jerry learned of him, he was Andy
5:24
Kaufman's manager. Oh yeah. Played
5:26
by Daniel DeVito. Exactly. He
5:28
had a man on the moon. Exactly. Yeah. And
5:30
I think George has a little part in the, in the movie as
5:32
well. A little cameo. Yeah. Uh,
5:35
George said to me
5:37
one day that Jerry sometimes has his
5:39
friends come and watch him in Vegas
5:43
and go to dinner. And then the
5:45
next day they get you a
5:47
hotel room. And the next day he rents out a
5:49
movie theater in
5:51
Las Vegas and we see a movie. I'm like,
5:53
this sounds like heaven. Yeah. Of
5:55
course I want to go. Yeah. So
5:57
we go. And Jerry likes, uh.
6:01
This. Restaurant: The Palm. I
6:03
think it's and Caesar's Palace any type
6:05
of. My first thought was oh let
6:07
me pick the restaurant owner Jerry. Like
6:09
the park. And he has a room in
6:11
the back. And four years us
6:13
how to be around Raymond Times.
6:16
Fifteen. Years ago I think. Okay, it was
6:18
after rain. Say are? A. Or
6:20
yes, this was twenty. I know,
6:22
allow a are so so. We.
6:26
Go! I think George while says there
6:28
are thicker. another comedian the guy open
6:30
for him as their marry a joiner
6:32
I I believe Mario. Maybe
6:35
one other guy and and Georgia and me. And
6:38
the menus com and I say yeah anybody
6:40
want split. Sutton. The start and your
6:42
goes with me. And I
6:44
go when of share that like an appetizer he
6:46
goes would you mean share. And
6:50
I'm like, wait a minute. You've.
6:52
Never disease, never shared. done
6:54
this. And he doesn't
6:56
And he goes for what what would it
6:59
be? And I'm like, well, I.
7:02
Was the first time I've ever told anyone this. There's.
7:05
A. There's a shrimp cocktail
7:07
or the menu. We could each have a shrimp.
7:09
This look want to do for five six did
7:12
look this six troops com been the big. Oh.
7:14
I would have a shrimp. Okay. Oh
7:17
and we get his hair and
7:19
it comes and he actually goes.
7:21
I like this like I'd like
7:24
this idea of sharing things. I'm
7:26
like what world of my in.
7:30
Yes, I wish you could see your face.
7:32
Yes! Yes or that
7:34
was my face. I couldn't believe it.
7:36
This is like the Seth Rogan story
7:38
where Tom Cruise didn't know there was
7:40
pornography on the internet. That's a real
7:42
sorry of replace them on quizzes like
7:44
what? well maybe old that that I
7:46
have to tell you. I showed Tom
7:48
Cruise the Port of. Ah,
7:54
Oh well as different appetites I
7:56
go to. The
7:59
Book. The to remember is
8:01
sharing sharing both come out
8:04
example situations about says with
8:06
so Jerry had never that
8:08
seems so weird comedians after
8:10
shows going as our was.
8:12
In the. Comedy. Cellar Yeah
8:15
everybody gets the way the wings un
8:17
awareness on of the key does that.
8:20
You know this is kind of a synchronicity
8:22
guess. I went to dinner last night. yeah
8:24
yeah we're very seed sell meaning I hope
8:26
easy the compliment as very food communal. Every
8:28
Sunday we have our friends over but last
8:31
night we didn't want to have friends over
8:33
ah or Val didn't want to. I doesn't
8:35
matter and then we went to a pizza
8:37
place. Side of the big
8:39
table? Yeah and we had a long conversation
8:41
about sharing. just haven't you ever had a
8:44
pizza would be both. A
8:47
birthday party when you're eight? Take. Who's.
8:49
Getting around. Seaside
8:52
in Nineteen Eighty Four, This cake is
8:54
just for me. This cake is just
8:56
for me. You have shared sir. You
8:59
didn't know you are doing it exactly.
9:02
What? About there's gotta be some. I've had
9:04
a status over there pass over then. There's.
9:07
A Pass over they you. There's gotta be
9:09
something that that is shared as part of
9:11
pass over. Here.
9:13
It is. Fantastic!
9:17
He loves at the
9:19
flimsy plastic, the tiny
9:21
math. For. Those only listen to
9:23
the audio Phil is going into the. Just.
9:26
The least eco friendly set up on
9:28
that kind of of rivalry with napkins
9:30
around the world would he me And
9:32
bonus are is I had a pizza
9:34
that was my best pizza I were
9:36
has been a pizza and valley. Where.
9:39
You pick it up and the cheese poor's
9:41
off it in reverse. Like you can't believe
9:43
how much teases on this thing. It's way
9:46
late and messy. Whereas it's like illusionist nude,
9:48
like a silken row know, there's still plenty
9:50
of the when it says it's like I
9:52
surplus subsidies. They will never be a shortage
9:54
of cheese on this pizza. But.
9:58
after reading it You need a
10:00
napkin. What they give you in
10:03
this place is, remember
10:05
the black and white notebooks
10:07
for school? It's as
10:09
if someone tore out the tiniest piece
10:11
of that paper and that's your napkin.
10:15
And I'm like, I have to tell you, I'm
10:17
an American and we're used to super
10:19
absorbency. This is
10:21
not... We want quicker thicker. This is
10:23
something that smears the stuff
10:25
around your face and does nothing. Bill
10:27
Cosby scandal noted, he used to have
10:30
a bit about trying to get through
10:32
the day in middle school just blowing
10:34
your nose on paper towels. It's
10:37
a very funny observation, bad person.
10:39
But I remember that feeling and I'm feeling
10:42
that right now. There's also countries
10:44
where the toilet paper is that situation. You
10:47
get like a composition notebook toilet paper. Well,
10:49
that's just cruel. It is just cruel. That's
10:52
like a torture. You
10:54
have to have a nice... I mean, come on.
10:57
You know what the best is? Have you ever had a Toto
11:00
toilet experience? Every
11:02
morning. Japanese. They
11:04
know how to poop. They know...
11:07
Is it cultural appropriation that I'm getting my
11:09
ass blasted with warm water every morning? They
11:11
know how to poop. Full respect, Japan. They
11:14
know. Full respect. They do
11:16
things better. They do everything better. Yes, they
11:19
do. I love it. You ever walk in
11:21
and it's clean and perfect and you're like, it's very Japanese.
11:23
Why did the Germans get all the efficiency stereotypes? It's
11:26
really the Japanese that are nailing it. Well, they were
11:28
allies. I
11:31
knew there was a World War II riff here. You
11:34
know, maybe there's some compassion there. It wasn't
11:36
the Japanese side. But you know what? I
11:38
forgive them Pearl Harbor because that Toto toilet...
11:47
It's like having a nurse. It
11:50
is like having a nurse with one of those things
11:52
you blow air into your fireplace. But
11:56
it's warm water. And
11:58
it's not too much to penetrate. It's not
12:00
a violation. And yet there are people who are
12:02
grossed out by the idea of it. Who
12:05
are these people? And I've tried to explain... Well, who
12:07
are these people? I don't think I'm telling a tale
12:09
out of school. Seinfeld. Ray
12:11
Romano. I told him, and
12:13
this is in the writer's room, this
12:16
is one of the
12:18
top three discussions
12:20
in terms of consuming
12:24
time when you're supposed to be working.
12:26
This was the topic. Something
12:28
to do with your ass. Ass
12:31
play. Is... I
12:33
would say number one or two of
12:37
topics we're going to be doing
12:39
and discussing instead of
12:41
working. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Food
12:43
might be... Yeah. But it's all related, isn't
12:46
it? Anyway. I mean, yes, it's
12:48
the other side of the same door. So
12:50
I'm explaining the wonderful... Your mouth
12:52
is your outside anus. Thank you.
12:57
Your mouth is your inverted outdoor
13:00
anus. Thank you. Now
13:02
I have to think about this. As
13:08
I'm explaining the virtues and
13:10
wonders of the total toilet experience. For people
13:12
who don't know what this is, it
13:15
is a magic wand that appears when you
13:17
push a button and then
13:19
squirts somehow knows what's going on. And
13:22
cleans. Perfectly. Yes,
13:24
you can adjust a little bit. And then
13:26
it dries you too. Never use the
13:28
dry. You use the dry? Well,
13:31
it takes a little more time. It's like a hand dryer.
13:34
Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's a hand dryer. But for
13:36
your... But for your downstairs
13:38
lips. By the way, so I'm extolling
13:41
the virtues of this thing. And
13:43
it's so great that like when my
13:45
wife's parents got older, we bought
13:48
a total toilet for them. Oh.
13:50
And her mom thought, Monica's mom thought
13:53
this was fantastic and she invited all the
13:55
church ladies over for
13:57
tea and to try the toilet. And
13:59
they each... Return and the oldest church lady
14:01
came out of the bathroom at one point
14:03
she'd been in there for a while and
14:06
she this what she said. I. Swear
14:08
To God. Are you
14:10
okay though Everyone s she said I
14:12
think I have to go to confession.
14:15
Oh. My. God. That. Todo.
14:18
How great is that? The secret side of
14:20
todo because it does the front tooth, your
14:22
everything and it's popular has a secret sexual
14:24
implicated in a crate. I felt as a
14:26
great bit about that actually work he goes
14:29
found phone sex at an airport off your
14:31
face. A Xerox copy? A player.
14:33
I thought I. Was
14:35
like if it's a hat, there's something
14:38
sexual going on. Oh that's brilliant fears
14:40
but re refused to even entertain the
14:42
idea of the save and bought him.
14:44
The. Toilet. And. He wouldn't use, he
14:46
just didn't like the idea of anything going
14:48
to miss. I'm I'm like wait a minute.
14:52
If there was something on the walls, And.
14:54
You wanted to get it off the wall would
14:56
you to do to just wipe it. Yeah.
14:59
Wouldn't that make it worse? Hicks: In
15:01
a way where would you mirrored scored?
15:03
Would a hose? Oh My. God. so
15:05
I just downloaded and me. I'm
15:08
a little. it feels very old school
15:11
Italians Me: shots fired Guys love you.
15:13
Love the culture my brother doesn't wanna
15:15
do either. he thought italian. I
15:20
didn't hurt anyone who wants it. I'll bite. Okay,
15:22
that a side is so wonderful I've got
15:24
my dad wouldn't be into it either. I.
15:27
Feel like I want to have this is gonna sound
15:29
very blue. I. Wanna as then
15:31
diagram of of men who don't want water
15:33
blown up their ass and men who won't
15:35
do oral on their wives. I
15:37
want to see where the yeah yeah, he's looking
15:39
for the exit. He's wondering what
15:42
am I doing here is my third time
15:44
on the show or men who are afraid
15:46
they might have like it's too much very.
15:49
That's. It. That's the whole then. Maybe.
15:51
That was there said. You know to me when
15:53
I say there's a whole swath of sort of
15:56
homophobic yes and a get caught by old school
15:58
and right as include the the three. Area
16:00
that we've just. Mentioned. This
16:02
is the best podcast in the world. But
16:08
not a lot a podcast are going to
16:10
tell. I'm going to go to Romano doesn't
16:12
want to sit on a toshi to says
16:14
Ray Romano go downwards mushy Oh my God.
16:20
Let me just say this is
16:22
Rae I'm sorry. Ah do not
16:24
think this was gonna go this
16:26
summer. A A A. I
16:29
yeah, that's me. A that's a magic mike. There's this,
16:31
hasn't we have it on our podcast? Do with those.
16:33
As far. As do
16:36
more stress less This is called magic My do
16:38
you read Go ahead well it I don't even
16:40
know learned. I do love it and my own
16:42
by agents. Fisher is the founder of their company.
16:44
Oh they worked really hard on it and I'm
16:46
proud of him. There. Goes
16:48
Can I ask you a real A
16:51
Real fill a real feel? Questions to
16:53
succeed? You wanna join? See something here
16:55
Good and I'm smart enough. Have you
16:57
seen the new chair? Gp? Know.
17:00
Have you played with it was this. To.
17:02
Pay for this Sri. I'm
17:05
I'm interviewing Still Rosenthal, the host of
17:07
Somebody Seed. So what's the question that
17:09
would be interesting and fun to ask
17:11
him? does he like water? A possessed?
17:13
That's that. It's amazing how fast they
17:15
say my listening to of. Ignore
17:18
that last part. Sign.
17:26
These. Things a great in theory, interesting and fun
17:28
question for still Rosenthal could be. Of
17:31
all the places you've visited, On Somebody
17:33
Feed Film Which one surprised you
17:35
the most in terms of its
17:38
food and culture and why This
17:40
story and insights all. I
17:43
need something more salacious, something crazy
17:45
that would go viral that most
17:47
people haven't asked for. Resin boss
17:50
something's funny and wilde an unexpected
17:52
that I could ask him. How
18:00
do you. Feel. If
18:02
you had to survive on one bazaar or
18:04
unexpected this you've tried for the rest of
18:07
your life, which one would it be and
18:09
how would you make gourmet. This
18:11
can lead to some hilarious and
18:13
unexpected answers, especially given the range
18:15
of unusual foods he's encountered. I
18:18
promise you, it will not be
18:20
hilarious. Ah visitors, this cities are
18:22
going to be honest, I wasn't
18:24
a bit of a letdown. Yes,
18:27
Because these things Sucked. As
18:31
a a miracle internet voice talk To
18:33
Us stinks on I'm proudest Completely unimpressive
18:36
sense when you when you read an
18:38
article my bread articles now that around
18:40
literally generated by this yeah. They.
18:42
Since they say eggs. And
18:44
they didn't. Meant by the way, they didn't make. It up
18:46
there aggregating from yeah they're ag world of
18:48
people and not paying any of the people
18:51
right? right? right? Dislike: I do when I
18:53
read articles and than and yes Elsa said
18:55
meaning of all whole world is is we
18:57
don't need a computer for that I am.
18:59
I know it's gonna be better. Yeah I
19:01
know it's gonna be great and notebook Both
19:03
of those are fair questions. Yeah but I
19:06
can't say they are exceptional. Yeah anyone in
19:08
the audience can ask for quest they're not
19:10
exceptional but when I did that you and
19:12
a with you I realize that you are
19:14
one of those guys. Because. You're
19:16
You're so. You're on your
19:19
sleeve, not as your heart, everything your
19:21
stomach, your your brain is all out
19:23
that I'm my book Now your body
19:25
to see their us are todo Yeah
19:27
a you. That. You
19:29
are say plagued. With.
19:31
Your a guy that if you do an interview
19:33
which is why I'm not asking where your favorite
19:36
food is or what food you would survive us,
19:38
We're gonna get those questions. What we center when
19:40
answering an egg there is no as there are
19:42
no one answered. by the way yeah I have
19:44
the big one thing I could pick one thing
19:46
per show. Yeah. Per. Per city
19:48
per location this is gonna sound silly
19:51
yeah but I was joking with vow.
19:53
About. i don't know what we were riffing
19:55
on but how i was going interviewed as a and
19:57
the question i said and she that was us and
19:59
it was so what are your lighthouse
20:02
values? Like what are your core values?
20:04
And she laughed, but I wasn't joking.
20:07
Because when you, when I hang out
20:09
with you, you seem like
20:11
a guy with five or six good lighthouse values.
20:13
I don't know what that express, never heard that
20:15
expression lighthouse. We're just making it up. It just
20:18
means like we can see them, they're clear, it
20:20
doesn't matter how stormy it gets. Your beacon values.
20:22
Because when you answer that question, just to help
20:24
you out, it's not a on the spot question.
20:27
When you're like, one
20:29
of them seems to be, leading,
20:32
free to move. You're free. Someone
20:35
asked you the same question. Who's
20:37
to say I can't zig or zag or
20:40
say it. Or say, and I preface the
20:42
answer by saying, here's the first thing that
20:44
popped into my head. But
20:46
sort of a naked, naked meaning
20:49
alive, vulnerable, wild. You
20:53
seem to be a guy who's, if
20:55
reality is a fire hose, you
20:57
seem to be kind of like playfully drinking from
21:00
it. Not necessarily making a
21:02
labyrinth to guide the water and
21:04
like a Japanese hotel or a
21:06
toilet. But like you seem to
21:08
be in flow. Is that a
21:10
value of yours? Is like staying
21:12
vulnerable and present and,
21:15
you know what I mean by vulnerable? I do. Yeah.
21:17
Tell me, I've always been vulnerable. Look at me.
21:20
Yeah. But as far
21:23
as core value goes, number one, total
21:25
toilet. Of course. Not for me.
21:28
Get it out of there. Keep it out
21:30
of my canole, holy, holy. What are you doing back
21:32
there? What are you doing? What
21:35
if I like it? That
21:37
would be his angle. I don't
21:39
want to do it, because what if I don't like it? What if
21:41
I do like it? But what if I do like it? That's
21:44
a very rare bit. Let's
21:49
see, core values, present, family,
21:52
friends, food, travel, laughs. Family,
21:55
friends, food, travel, laughs. And
21:58
I Came up with that fast just now, That's what
22:00
I think my show is about. I'm
22:02
taking everything I love about making a
22:05
show and it's in the service of
22:07
these things I love in likes. yeah.
22:10
And then, everything. That.
22:13
Goes with that meaning how
22:15
to attract more of that
22:17
food? Family, friends, travel, travel.
22:19
laughs. Yeah, is how you
22:21
act. In that world to make
22:24
it the most enjoyable. And
22:26
that is love.
22:28
kindness, inclusivity, Connection,
22:30
Generosity, Generosity. yeah those are I
22:32
guess what? The real values are
22:35
the others that I just mentioned
22:37
before the thing site. the results
22:39
that are things I love. Yeah
22:41
ah. But the.
22:43
Show really isn't about food.
22:46
Yeah. Added that out, I'm just
22:48
using such a nice food and my stupid
22:51
sense of humor to get you the real
22:53
message via which is I think if he
22:55
travels I just think the world would be
22:58
better if we all could experience a little
23:00
bit of other people's expense for have even
23:02
experiences tic. Completely agree with you. I
23:05
tell you he says here and when vows
23:07
feeling a little tighter, little scared or young,
23:09
weird moves. she's pregnant, mit whatever was that
23:12
was making either her or both of us
23:14
feel vulnerable and I'm just going for a
23:16
walk. In. Your own neighborhood? yes
23:18
would make you feel. I'm going
23:20
to say it forty five percent better. Like up
23:22
that a lot better. You're you're
23:24
preaching the choir. I do this every
23:26
single day. Tell me if I walk
23:29
from my house either with the dog
23:31
or by myself to the coffee shop
23:33
with says about one point three miles
23:35
away. Well, Larchmont. And.
23:38
I. Congregate with people that
23:40
I have befriended in all
23:43
my years of doing Sesame
23:45
Street? Yes, Mister Hooper? Yes
23:47
Yes! Because you figured out.
23:50
That's the secret of Less rights. Yes,
23:53
When. You get inside any just have
23:55
this portal called the internet and attic your
23:57
head in that the Us and it's just
23:59
for. Biting Usa. And
24:03
then you look around the dark walls of your
24:05
of your apartment. Maybe there are even literally dogs.
24:07
but now you've put a a veil over your
24:09
eyes. Yes, everything's wrong. Yes, we'll see the world
24:11
as it is. We see how we are, right?
24:14
I classics. yeah. So now you're You're scared. Walking.
24:17
To a coffee shop? Yes. And
24:20
just hanging out. And
24:22
maybe. And. I bet you
24:24
will. Old homes a he's gonna bet. You.
24:27
Might get us. He smiles. And make
24:29
a connection you might even just get i had
24:31
not yet. You might even get something as simple
24:33
as someone. Pulling. Their dog
24:35
in towards them to gonna give
24:37
you the right away little things
24:39
These little considerations and he realized.
24:42
Oh. It's not me. It's us. There's there's
24:44
and us going on here. And. It's
24:46
not as you know, as
24:48
we liberals. When
24:50
Trump won it was such a dark day
24:52
of you know people were were worried and
24:54
I remember I was worried and I got
24:56
up and I went to that coffee shop
24:59
that we just walked by and just. That.
25:02
Was A. There was a key moment in my life.
25:04
I was like and here we are. Having
25:06
coffee. What? I'm saying the world Goes
25:08
on. The world was going on. but.
25:11
No. One's happy Yeah that was fine. Young
25:13
are trying to valley live in early of
25:15
Lille. it was there was a communal feeling
25:17
but I think to your point to your
25:20
one point three mile. That.
25:22
That feeling of interconnectedness. So you're traveling,
25:24
you're going to countries at militates a
25:26
Muslim country. A country I like at
25:28
the height of certain paranoid times in
25:30
our lives. Yes, we would relax. That's
25:32
right. That's how I felt. By the
25:34
way, a couple days after Trump when
25:36
I went to. I think it was.
25:38
I'm. Indiana. So our
25:41
and I was like they're everywhere like but
25:43
that trip help me too. I was like
25:45
it's all okay. It's not to say that
25:47
muslims or or or trump or his or
25:49
anything but I'm just saying like it slows
25:51
things down and it opens things up and
25:53
and it can calm me down. that
25:55
was a lot it's beautiful and i love doing it
25:57
in every puede that i go yeah there's no better
26:00
than walking in the new place and discovering
26:02
stuff and stopping for a cup of coffee
26:04
and maybe talking to someone randomly.
26:08
And you realize, you know, such a
26:10
cliche, but everyone's the same. We
26:12
all want to be happy and healthy. We all want
26:14
our kids to be happy and healthy. We want them
26:16
to grow up and get whatever they want. And
26:19
we want... Most of the world is nice.
26:22
I tell everyone, I'm not showing
26:24
you in the show the
26:26
way I want the world to be.
26:28
We're just filming what's there. Yeah. That the
26:30
world is there. We watch the news
26:32
and the news is mostly terrible. Yeah. But
26:34
that doesn't mean the world is mostly
26:37
terrible. I couldn't. We always agree.
26:39
Yeah. But I think there's a real parallel
26:41
to be said about your mind. In
26:44
the morning, when I take the time, I do
26:46
a gratitude practice in the morning and I find
26:48
five, six moments. This morning I did... It
26:50
was guided, but I found like five
26:53
synchronicities. Like all these things
26:56
that like were incredible, like meeting my wife or this
26:58
or that or whatever it might be, or walking into
27:00
an office at just the right moment, or meeting a
27:02
person. One of them that came up was I was
27:04
like, I won't go through it.
27:06
The point was I was going for a
27:08
walk in my
27:12
mind to the coffee
27:14
shop in my mind. I was remembering my
27:16
daughter's first steps. I was remembering the time
27:18
I saw a whale in Laguna Beach. I
27:20
was remembering all these
27:22
things. So in the same way that
27:24
going traveling, going inside and going into
27:26
the good neighborhoods of your mind reminds
27:28
you that it's not just anxiety. It's
27:30
not just terror. It's not just hopelessness.
27:33
Those things are there and those things
27:35
are in the world as well. Yeah.
27:37
But there's also the
27:39
best whatever you ate in wherever you ate. I read
27:41
a great thing. I don't know who said this. You
27:43
probably know. If you're
27:45
worried about something that's coming, let's
27:48
say you're...let's say you might have
27:50
to have an operation. You're worried
27:52
about it. You
27:55
must then also think about the
27:58
absolute positive
28:00
outcome of this thing. Mmm. Fair.
28:04
It's fair practice. Exactly right. You
28:06
have to give them equal airtime. Exactly right. Yeah.
28:09
Isn't that great? That's good. That's
28:11
very good. Because we tend
28:13
to only focus on the negative. Well you know
28:15
Velcro Teflon, my homeboy Richard Roy taught me this,
28:17
but it's a psychological principle. If I
28:19
say fill you, and I mean this, you're a beautiful man, I
28:21
love you, sometimes I think about you and it just makes me
28:23
happy. That's true. For you to
28:26
really hold on to that, that's Teflon.
28:28
You have to hold on to it consciously for
28:30
30 seconds they say. You have to think like,
28:32
wow, this is weird, but you'd be like
28:34
Pete, someone I like thinks about me to
28:37
make me happy. But you just meditate on it 30
28:39
seconds. I'm not going to say the negative thing, but
28:41
if I said a negative thing. Oh let's hear it
28:43
Pete. Fill you Pete.
28:45
But I was going to make up one. I
28:47
don't even want to make up one because
28:49
the negatives Velcro. That's why
28:51
Larry David goes to Yankee Stadium. It's his
28:54
birthday. They all stand up however many thousands
28:56
of people at Yankee Stadium that is sing
28:58
happy birthday. Later he's in the
29:00
parking lot, someone yells, you suck, can't
29:02
shake you suck. That's what he remembers. Let's go
29:04
of happy birthday. You could get all great reviews
29:06
on something. One guy said something, you'd figure, well
29:08
that's the truth. The negative.
29:11
It's like cutting. It's like emotional cutting.
29:14
Do you want to know one of the techniques that I think you might
29:16
enjoy? It actually happened again at
29:19
this house. I
29:21
smoked a cigar. Who was I being? Who
29:23
was I being? But I smoked a cigar on
29:26
my porch, this porch. I
29:28
put it out and then I went for a
29:30
walk. I walked to get something. As
29:32
I was walking, you guys have heard this before, forgive
29:34
me. I was like what if I didn't put the
29:36
cigar out all the way? And
29:38
your house is on fire. And the house is on fire. What
29:41
I will do, but now I'm a couple blocks away. It's going
29:43
to take me a while to get home anyway. I don't want
29:45
to run. It's like being at the airport. I
29:47
don't really run at airports. But I'm
29:49
like what if the house is on fire?
29:52
One of the techniques I use to minimize
29:54
my anxiety is I go, Pete, if the
29:56
house isn't on fire, I'm going
29:58
to cut your leg off. Flip it,
30:00
make it so you want the thing.
30:03
That. You don't one and then you'll see
30:05
how unlikely it as revise say if you
30:07
go off the top and an ember from
30:10
as the guy didn't slick up find them
30:12
gasoline on your roof and burn your has
30:14
the grunts I'm going to cut your leg
30:16
off or something else that you don't want.
30:19
you will realize how silly how stupid you
30:21
would be. So nervous you like gonna lose
30:23
my legs just because there's no way the
30:25
houses bring that's where you see it is
30:28
that slipped out of respective help young go
30:30
like a when being done right now I'm
30:32
or I'm torturing. Myself for entertainment.
30:34
Will people worry about traveling?
30:37
They. Think they will like it? Yeah. They
30:39
don't stop to think maybe you'll love
30:42
it, right? Then change your life.
30:44
They're not giving anti glare to exactly
30:46
right? Yeah, we've talked last time we
30:49
hung out about the phenomenon of like.
30:52
Your. Brain gets used to things so
30:54
when you travel. Going. To
30:57
get coffee is a Hobbits journey.
30:59
Because. You don't know where casias you has a
31:01
beer? know what coffee as you don't know if
31:03
it's it'll be different from your coffee at home.
31:05
You don't know if you're like it's you don't
31:07
know, you don't know anything. Yeah. But.
31:09
The best fill the Nfl goes. What?
31:12
If we don't like how. How exciting!
31:15
Of course I know I don't like Turkish coffee. I'm just
31:17
picking a cop. You don't have to like everything. I
31:20
did. A journey is it's own
31:22
reward. Literally To the journey is
31:24
it's own reward tasting stuff? Yeah,
31:26
it's fun. Yeah. That. Because
31:28
you might say something that changes your
31:30
life. right? Right. Oh My.
31:33
God. That's. Turkish coffee is
31:35
now my favorite coffee. Yeah, I guess
31:37
what when. You come home. This place is
31:39
an have it. Yeah, I never knew to
31:41
ask for it. Yeah, now it's my favorite thing.
31:45
That's that's what's out there. People listen
31:47
to me. A.
31:49
Kilo that set records
31:51
last. Ah, classic, you.
31:54
Were. The. Moderator for
31:56
the L A. Show that we
31:58
did last week. You. So
32:00
great, I will so grateful to have you because
32:03
it was so much fun just to be with
32:05
you, I wish we could do it so every
32:07
week me. I. Wish you were
32:09
my neighbor. I wrote that the right after.
32:11
I wish you lived next door because I
32:14
would love nothing more than to hang out
32:16
with you. I know I really priests so
32:18
what are you doing up there and oh
32:20
hi what do you? Well I'll tell you
32:23
go my were overseas meltzer going seed so
32:25
as it's a beautiful beautiful place mills just
32:27
lovely. I love going up there I know
32:29
and it's not for everybody because you're you're
32:32
you're You're like an animal. that name's not
32:34
needs. Why want and I want
32:36
for you? I want the city, the city I
32:38
need to said the little noodles. I love going
32:40
to visit. Oh hi yea but I don't I
32:42
don't think I was just saying about this with
32:45
somebody who visited us up there I was like
32:47
I need to be there has when I was
32:49
here I didn't. I need works and work in
32:51
L A Yeah so it's guaranteed that I'll come
32:53
and tell a joke and here I'm here all
32:56
day. You know I mean saw
32:58
get plenty of L A. Got it when
33:00
I was here. I don't need a nature
33:02
Oreo. I will prioritize have enough so I
33:05
need to have that be my my standard
33:07
and I get it's listen I was a
33:09
New Yorker half my life. New York New
33:11
York's mob Woody Allen. you know if know
33:13
it's me Yeah why would I go to
33:16
L A was the only cultural advanced as
33:18
jazz make sense of right turn on a
33:20
red light passes yeah and any hope of
33:22
have a fleet of messed yeah that was
33:25
the Source Family restaurant. Oh my
33:27
god I remember that just out of and
33:29
fun to go to. I'm sure you'll get
33:31
food poisoning though. I think I went to
33:33
when I first played it was still open
33:35
and okay. Moved here and eighty nine. So
33:37
in Annie Hall I'm and getting and I
33:39
am assuming any. I'm assuming Katie see Max,
33:41
forget, forget what I'm saying, we just move
33:43
on. Know in any all Woody Allen goes
33:45
to like a quintessential hippie restaurant and that
33:47
was the Source Family Restaurant He already had
33:49
played amassed his yes but it was a
33:52
popular restaurant but it was. It was a
33:54
cult right? And there's a great called documentary
33:56
called the Source Family. Ah, any, watch it
33:58
and it's very very interesting. Off. I
34:00
don't want to spoil it, but there's a lot of it's
34:02
a good one. I'm a cult documentary snob I
34:05
love it, but you but you you still
34:07
you're that city boy is in you in
34:09
your heart It is but
34:12
now that I've lived here Longer
34:14
than I lived in New York. Yeah, I
34:18
It never occurred to me to move back to
34:20
me. I visited all the time. Yeah.
34:22
Yeah. I love New York It's
34:24
probably the greatest city on the planet. Yeah,
34:26
but I don't need it daily Yeah,
34:29
that's how you feel about it. Like I'm
34:31
with you. Yeah, you I need to yeah,
34:33
I need to Live
34:35
where I wouldn't be if I
34:38
didn't that I want to live where
34:40
I need to live But wouldn't be if it
34:42
wasn't where I lived. I gotta go. I Don't
34:46
understand this living in a beautiful place isn't enough
34:48
a prior of a priority for me that when
34:50
we lived here We wouldn't go to Ohio all
34:52
the time. You know, I mean we wouldn't go
34:54
to a beautiful we wouldn't go by the river
34:56
And just look at deer like it just wasn't
34:58
enough of a priority to lower my blood pressure
35:00
and relax and all that stuff So I have
35:02
to live there because I'll never stop doing sets
35:04
or coming in for the podcast and all that
35:06
sort of we get It we understand this point
35:09
But you've made your vacation your vocation
35:11
as I have. Yeah, that's more twins
35:13
than that. I love that Yeah, that's
35:15
salty dog. Yeah, here's a here's one.
35:17
I don't think you've been here's one
35:19
chat. GPT wouldn't get I felt
35:22
such job Security when she whiffed that
35:24
one. Yes that miracle. I
35:26
want to know and then I just asked the dumbest question.
35:28
I Want
35:31
to know Phil your journey and
35:34
this is more complicated than it's gonna sound but
35:36
your company your journey to knowing What
35:39
you want because you know what
35:41
you want laughs food family travel friends. See
35:43
if AI came up with that Yeah, wow.
35:45
Wow, that's a good one. That's a good
35:47
question I think one of the most tricky
35:49
things in life more preface AI would be
35:51
more brief. I Think
35:54
it's under appreciated people
35:56
who have figured out uncovered
35:58
unearthed What really
36:01
makes them tick? Yes, and I'm 45.
36:03
I'm still sometimes can be young me.
36:05
I preach I can still feel lost
36:07
in going like What
36:09
drives me what excites me? But you really seem to
36:11
have dialed it in so much so you made a
36:13
TV show about it Tell me about the journey were
36:15
there any missteps whatever that brings to my always missteps
36:17
and always I Think
36:22
I think unless you're truly exceptional and know
36:24
what you want from the minute you're born
36:28
Although I did think I wanted to be
36:30
part of show business I did know I wanted
36:32
to be funny that I am from a young
36:35
young Immediately because my dad was fun
36:38
Nobody was I told you who told you it
36:40
was but he did amateur night That's how my
36:42
my mother met my my mother was
36:44
on a date with a fella Yes,
36:46
and went to a comedy club in New
36:49
Jersey or or not even a club Maybe
36:51
it was like a restaurant that had amateur
36:53
night Yeah Musicians would get up and
36:55
then this young man
36:57
who worked in the Garman Center with his
36:59
father as a tailor Got
37:01
up and told old jokes and
37:03
my mother thought he was hilarious. Mmm. I
37:06
always say if he's not funny that night I'm not
37:08
here Wow talk about serendipity right?
37:10
He was a kind of and twice. I'm crinist.
37:13
That's right. Yeah, that's great That is no, that's
37:15
a good one. If your mother
37:17
also she doesn't laugh at his jokes. I'm
37:19
not here Not to
37:21
be too personal about your mom, but she was in
37:24
a mood she was open don't you all are a
37:26
whore He was on my mother's Handing
37:30
it but the rules of comedy I had to say
37:32
it as well. I forgive me.
37:35
No, your mom was Receptive
37:37
I had the same feeling Val when I
37:39
met her I was receptive. She
37:41
was herself, you know I could have been
37:43
in a bad mood. No Phil. Absolutely. She
37:45
was in a good mood. Oh, absolutely She
37:48
was in an open mood. She wanted to hear some
37:50
jokes. Yes. My when I met Monica I
37:52
found her at the most desperate point of her life.
37:54
That's the only way it would have worked Do
38:00
you like I did? call it a
38:03
night or whatever they like abdomen reason,
38:05
Geico and. What
38:07
Was he doing? She. Were
38:09
to telecharge. What's. That, oh, that's
38:12
like a telemarketing, you know, you call
38:14
the for Broadway theatre tickets go and
38:16
what she really idea never run. Know
38:19
she just was outta trouble seeing anybody
38:21
at that moment. Yeah, yeah, yeah. and
38:23
and. We. Gotta be lucky Site yeah,
38:25
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show If you were asked me how I
42:10
got on this path, that's the back
42:12
end. Yeah, how you knew what
42:14
you wanted? Jesus, how did we get we went
42:16
on a huge tangent that we edited out? But
42:18
how did you get on this path? How did
42:20
you uncover what it is that you love to
42:22
do? I wanted to be funny right away because
42:24
you're dead and I and I watched a ton
42:26
of TV Did you grow up watching a ton
42:28
of TV? I did what I can way too
42:30
much I was like parents used to say go
42:32
outside. Yeah, they later on when I was a
42:34
teenager and I would watch TV Instead
42:37
of being a teenager. Yeah, by
42:40
the way, they would say me too. Yes I
42:42
wasn't I was watching Zack Morris go on dates.
42:44
I wasn't going on. Yes They
42:47
said what are you gonna do get a job watching television? And
42:50
I have to tell you this jumping ahead a little bit when
42:53
I've got a job writing television
42:55
I sent them the biggest TV
42:57
that they made at the time with
42:59
a note on it that said, haha. Oh my
43:03
god a 27 inch TV with Right,
43:09
did they get it? Oh, yeah What
43:11
a beautiful thing. Honestly, man, I feel the same way.
43:14
I feel like I Think
43:16
and I'd love to hear you speak on
43:18
this there's just a certain music certain people
43:20
can hear the music of comedy and it
43:22
can be very Seductive
43:24
meaning I wanted to learn how are they
43:26
doing this? It feels like this me right
43:28
and my parents used to say and this
43:30
is real. They really were worried
43:33
about me Because I was
43:35
like like like a social Misfit
43:39
yeah skinny short
43:43
not popular bullied
43:45
hmm TV was safe TV
43:48
was fun and She
43:50
really my mother especially what is wrong with
43:52
why why are you so obsessed with television?
43:55
Hmm? I said I'm learning Okay.
43:58
Now When I said it, then. I.
44:02
Sounded. A lot like bullshit to me.
44:04
Even when I'm just saying anything, we get
44:07
her off my back on some she took
44:09
it is bullshit. And I couldn't even
44:11
I remember even at that time thinking so
44:13
yes, this does sound a lot like bullshit.
44:16
But. Looking back, it was a hundred percent
44:19
true. It's true. You didn't even know
44:21
we're learning to. Yeah, we couldn't help
44:23
it. it's getting. And why was I
44:25
adept? At running a sip
44:27
top because it's in my bones.
44:29
Yeah, I did The Malcolm Gladwell
44:31
ten thousand Hours own? Yeah, yeah,
44:34
yeah. I studied it. I
44:36
took what my my friend Alan Kirshenbaum
44:38
who encouraged me to write. Gave.
44:42
Me: the sitcom structure. In.
44:44
A minute. And then
44:47
I internalized that, understood it, and I
44:49
never took a class. and I was
44:51
good at the moon. Was.
44:54
It. What is that? One minute can
44:56
you do? Course of course. Three important
44:58
things in a sitcom. Number one: The
45:00
premise. What is the Prince? What does
45:02
this about? How many
45:04
shows and movies do we watch where
45:06
they forgot to ask that question right?
45:08
I say have we seen Hollywood The
45:11
work stops at the poster. To
45:14
become will fall into things. What's it about?
45:16
Not an awful lot of authors of post
45:18
on here that I chew on going to
45:21
come. Yeah, I got, you know, yeah. Tom
45:23
Cruise in a thing. yeah that would sit
45:25
on them. out of the I to their.
45:28
Mother. One Tennis number two.
45:31
You. Want to guess what? This might be
45:34
the number two most important thing in
45:36
a structure of a sitcom? A classic
45:38
half hour? Sick. What's the premise? Pl.
45:41
Ah, what is the character want? That's
45:44
that's a great thing, but it's not.
45:46
It doesn't go to structured okay, right?
45:48
What goes wrong? That's.
45:50
Good. Or on.
45:53
What? Does the obstacle. to
45:55
me he i had bought i would have guessed all these
45:57
things as well yeah yeah tell me what is as he
45:59
said The Act Break, which
46:02
was very odd to me. I couldn't understand
46:05
it, but what the Act Break is, meaning
46:08
the commercial in the middle of the show, right?
46:11
Act Break, like first act, second act. All
46:15
the action of
46:17
the first act rises to this point, and
46:20
all the action of the second act
46:22
is going to come from that point.
46:24
So the classic Act Break line is,
46:26
we're getting married. Everything
46:28
led up to that, and everything now in
46:31
the second half of that show is going to come from
46:33
that. And the third
46:35
most important thing in the structure of the
46:37
classic sitcom is the conclusion.
46:41
Was it worth driving all this way
46:44
for this, for the way it
46:46
ends? So basically what he's
46:48
told me is, and in order,
46:51
is beginning, middle, and end, which
46:53
are the tenets of any storytelling.
46:56
Beginning, middle, and end. This
46:59
structure, which so
47:01
many people never think of because
47:04
they don't think it's important, is
47:06
the foundation of the building. It
47:10
subconsciously strengthens every
47:13
single story. No
47:16
matter if it's a movie, a
47:18
one act play, a sitcom,
47:21
anything. Getting
47:25
back to Seinfeld for a second, which of
47:27
course is iconic and brilliant, my favorite episode
47:29
of that show was the contest.
47:32
Who could masturbate? Now, the reason I love it
47:34
so much is because
47:37
it's the structurally soundest of
47:40
all the episodes. Not only that, but all
47:42
the main characters, instead
47:44
of four diverse stories with them,
47:47
they all were relating to the one
47:49
central story which made it
47:52
inherently stronger as a story.
47:54
Right. You'll never forget
47:56
Kramer coming in within a minute, slamming down his
47:59
money. I'm out. Yeah. Yeah one of the biggest
48:01
laughs in the history of TV. I think yeah,
48:03
greatest thing Yeah, but they all
48:05
like on Raymond. I learned from this Why
48:09
have B stories and C stories? I Robert
48:11
lost his shoe who gives a
48:13
shit? No,
48:16
but if there's something worth talking about
48:18
isn't it worth talking about for the
48:20
20 minutes. Yeah, you have on TV
48:22
Yeah, plus we have a situation
48:24
where the parents live across the street and
48:27
everyone can weigh in. Yeah naturally
48:30
organically on the main story
48:32
I Just
48:34
got my teeth cleaned brag nice And it's one of
48:36
the reasons I go there is they have TVs and
48:38
you can watch Netflix while you're
48:40
getting clean and I watched a
48:43
Seinfeld because I'm one of those people I know
48:45
you are too I'm like, what is this technician
48:47
one here? You know what I mean? I was
48:49
like the rose to Tom Brady. I'm like, I'm
48:51
not having the C word Oh, you're actually programming
48:53
for the person who has to I
48:55
am I'm I'm the executive and I am
48:57
programming Yeah this audience up to yeah, but
49:00
I put on a Seinfeld and of course, I
49:02
love Seinfeld brilliant I don't have to say that
49:04
but every time I went to the B story the episode
49:06
I was watching was the big salad and
49:08
it was like George buys Elaine a big
49:11
salad Yes, but then his girlfriend hands the
49:13
bag to Elaine and gives her the salad
49:15
right Elaine. Thanks her and not George Okay,
49:17
it's classic. It's a curve episode. It's like
49:19
you should have thanked me. I bought it
49:21
for you, but you thanked her He shouldn't
49:23
bring it up. Yeah, but of course he
49:25
does right if I'm doing
49:28
that show And thank God I didn't it
49:30
wouldn't work. I mean what they did worked,
49:32
but if I'm doing the show that's enough
49:34
I wanted all about the big salad. I
49:36
want everyone weighing in on the big side
49:39
I want every scene to be about the
49:41
big salad. I want everything to be debates
49:43
arguments scenes other examples But other our world
49:45
of making Raymond, let's say yeah, it would
49:47
start there Yeah, and then balloon into the
49:49
larger issue behind it. Yes, we wouldn't do
49:52
it just for the comedians joke of You
49:55
ever notice that when you get a yeah,
49:57
I see it has to be it for
49:59
us for me. Well, it had
50:01
to be more than that. It wasn't
50:03
enough. It really feels more like instead
50:05
of a Seinfeld bit, it's like the
50:08
neuroses of George. Right. It's that I
50:10
envy this level of comedy, most of all,
50:12
and Larry David does it so brilliantly, is
50:15
the like, don't do it.
50:18
But he's doing it. Like, don't bring it up
50:20
to there in the cab. Yes. And George
50:22
says like, nothing. And
50:24
you're like going like, don't say it.
50:27
You schmuck. Right, right. And then he
50:29
goes, yeah, it's just, you know, and
50:31
you're like, and you love it. It's
50:33
amazing. The B story of that episode
50:36
is Kramer went golfing with a baseball
50:38
player. He penalized him a stroke. Later
50:40
that day, that baseball player killed his
50:42
girlfriend. Kramer thinks maybe because he penalized
50:45
him a stroke, he killed his girlfriend.
50:47
And I'm at home going like again,
50:51
full respect to the greatest show.
50:53
Yes. I'm like, I don't need it. And
50:55
you don't really. I don't need it. I don't
50:57
need it. These are comedians observations. Yeah.
50:59
And it was the best
51:01
that that that that's ever been. Yeah,
51:03
comedians observations. Yeah. I played out to
51:06
it out almost in a cartoon way.
51:08
I agree against the set of New
51:10
York. I have this but for me,
51:12
yes. The strength when the show was
51:14
at its best for me, the contest
51:16
was when it was relatable. Yeah. Like
51:18
when they found the observation that we
51:20
all could relate to. Yeah. Now I'm
51:23
in. Yeah. And there was always at
51:25
least one or two of them per
51:27
episode, which made me love the show.
51:29
Of course. But the crazy tangents. Yes.
51:31
Which also I would see on
51:33
curb as well. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
51:35
That's not for me. Yeah. That's all I'm saying
51:38
too. Yeah. Those moments, I, it happens
51:40
that we're watching the office because
51:43
it's just what we're all doing. I think. Anyway,
51:45
this is one of the greatest shows of all
51:47
time. No, I know, but there's a hypnotic strange
51:50
thing going on in our country that like we
51:52
can't stop watching the office. It's great. Keep watching
51:54
it and keep watching it. And keep it's great.
51:56
Every line is funny. All the behavior is funny.
51:59
There's a certain point though after Steve leaves
52:01
with a show then it's not good anymore. It
52:03
doesn't, yeah, I love
52:05
Robert California played by, what's his
52:07
name? Robert California is
52:10
played by the guy from Secretary, he's on
52:12
Blacklist, he's in Sex Lives
52:14
and Videotape. People
52:19
are yelling at their radios right now. Sorry. And
52:21
then they're also looking. I don't mean to say it wasn't good
52:23
anymore, it just wasn't the same anymore. I think James
52:26
Spader. I love James Spader, he's great on it. And
52:29
there's great Will Ferrell. There was a
52:31
center missing. There was a
52:33
center missing but then to compensate for that
52:35
center missing, they start getting a little bit
52:37
more goof troop. And what happens is there's
52:40
an episode where they're having a picnic, Andy
52:42
wants to take his staff to a picnic to
52:45
impress his boss, blah blah, that's what happens, that's
52:47
the premise. But then the
52:50
prank is that
52:54
Jim Halpert writes a book
52:56
called How to Host a, there
52:59
was a term for it like a picnic
53:01
party. He writes a
53:03
book called How to Host the Perfect Picnic
53:05
Party, puts it online knowing Dwight will buy
53:07
it. And the book
53:10
is filled with bad advice that
53:12
Dwight follows to the letter. So
53:14
the running gag and it does
53:16
pay out, there's funny moments, is
53:18
that Dwight won't stop
53:20
following the advice and says,
53:22
I see your face, I
53:24
see your showrunner face. And
53:27
it keeps cutting back to Jim, so it
53:29
showed Dwight do something crazy and then Dwight
53:32
then cuts to Jim reading from his book
53:34
that he published. Yes, you
53:36
know, self published, but he's like, the height
53:38
of the night will be the fire ceremony. And then it
53:41
cuts to Dwight and he's doing a fire ceremony and you're
53:43
just like, look, thanks
53:45
for the laughs, but there's a part of me
53:47
that's really mad right now. Like I just
53:49
can't handle the baseball stroke
53:52
murder B story of this
53:54
episode. It's really hurting me.
53:56
I get it. Because you care about the
53:59
show. You care. about the show and you
54:01
care about the people. Yes, that's right. Very, very
54:03
interesting. And sometimes we get portrayed. Yeah.
54:06
What's George Lucas? You
54:08
know, George Lucas changing who shot first in the
54:10
bar. It's, you know, the fans are like,
54:12
no, we own it. You don't own it. We
54:15
remember. I remember George Lucas in an interview before
54:18
the fourth movie came out.
54:21
Oh, the prequels. Exactly. And
54:25
he shows you a
54:27
screen. And he says, before
54:30
we couldn't have this many
54:32
planets and stars in the
54:34
shot. And now look, we can. And
54:37
I said, George, who
54:40
gives a shit? How
54:43
about a story and the characters that
54:45
we care? And don't say Jar Jar
54:47
Binks to me. You
54:54
couldn't be more right. You couldn't
54:56
be more right. You
54:58
sometimes lose the forest for the trees.
55:00
George. Use the forest. Luke. Use the
55:02
forest. Use the forest. Sometimes
55:06
you lose the forest for the trees. That's
55:09
exactly right. He lost the forest for the trees.
55:13
What a genius. I can't wait for that museum to open.
55:15
It's going to be, you know, about the museum. No. Near
55:18
USC. The George Lucas museum.
55:20
It's going to be all like it. It'll
55:22
be spectacular. Just his stuff. I
55:24
don't know if it's his stuff. Can
55:27
you look up what that's going to be? The George
55:29
Lucas museum. I think it's movies. I
55:31
also think it's space. But
55:34
just the design of the building itself is
55:37
awesome. Yeah. Can't wait for that. There's a
55:39
whole wing just on beards.
55:43
Beard. Shaving. Getting
55:45
back to your original question. I pursue
55:52
acting in high school because I think
55:54
that's a good way to
55:57
get this out of me. And I'm
55:59
in school anyway. Yeah, so what's staying
56:01
after an hour or two to do this thing?
56:03
I love and it felt good
56:05
to get lead let it out and
56:08
to be accepted. Yes What's
56:10
right? I'm sorry. I'm making it such
56:12
a great day But I think I
56:14
run on acceptance more than I care
56:16
to admit like I what we all
56:18
yeah Well, I appreciate that and maybe it's one of the
56:21
reasons we get along but I was talking again at this
56:23
dinner last night I was like, I really think Donald Glover
56:25
who I respect so much is one of those guys. That's
56:27
like It's written somewhere
56:29
in marble what he's gonna do Like
56:32
the next five things he should be he
56:35
should be the next James Bond. That's what
56:37
I think I can clearly agree and see
56:39
that's that's the that's the standard of that
56:41
kind of genius. Yeah that showed that
56:44
Mr. And Mrs. Great fantastic and he's great and
56:47
that's what made me think he's James Bond There
56:49
were moments in it where I was like, is
56:51
this a documentary? It's great Like their dinner
56:54
party moments where you're like, how
56:56
are they making it feel? Exactly like a dinner
56:58
party with two couples and the way they use
57:00
New York was like I had how do you
57:03
how do you move? You work and make it
57:05
seem fresh and new it was fantastic. I like
57:07
Tokyo. Yes, it was fantastic. It was really fantastic
57:09
Did you see the George Lucas Museum? That's
57:16
cool And
57:23
the weird beard wing What
57:26
I'm saying is there's a certain and I'm not
57:28
putting myself down There's a certain kind of artist
57:30
that I think they're really they have a different
57:32
kind of North star and I'm a little embarrassed
57:35
Kind of deep down little Pete is looking
57:37
to be in the fold. He
57:39
wants to be in a little community He
57:42
wants to get laughs but not so much
57:44
like create Nothing,
57:46
you know what I mean? Like no, that's
57:48
fine, but That's everyone
57:50
who does this. Tell me tell me what
57:52
you think of course Listen
57:56
I kept no good at sports and that
57:58
was the value of my town Yeah
58:01
sports, that's the only thing you spent
58:03
money on and here's you
58:05
know little skinny kid
58:08
Who just wants to be funny on stage
58:10
so I do the school plays and we
58:12
do these improv Games and
58:14
stuff and I'm with other nerds who like
58:16
the same thing, but at least I have
58:18
a group Right. I'm
58:21
so with you. Yeah of friends
58:23
and we laugh right and you
58:26
know, that's It's the
58:28
only way I could be accepted by anyone
58:30
and by the way when you're a teenager
58:33
The only way you're gonna get a girl to look at you Yeah,
58:36
if you're not an athlete is a sense of
58:38
humor. Yeah, which is our most
58:40
undervalued trait Just sense
58:42
of humor. I believe it's who
58:44
I'll become friends with is Through
58:47
an appreciation of each other's sense of humor
58:49
not even if mine is exactly like yours
58:51
Yeah, but I know what you're doing and
58:53
I love it. Yes and hang out with
58:55
me You're so right. That's everything and
58:58
I'll go one step further. It's who we marry I
59:00
was thinking that that's what did you see me go? I was
59:03
appreciating Val in that moment. I was
59:05
just thinking about yeah, I Know
59:08
this is gonna sound corny, but she'll take my breath away
59:10
with a joke Awesome when
59:12
I go like and I don't laugh and I go
59:14
now I'm just really happy That
59:17
you that you're right works like mine Monica's
59:19
hysterical anytime. She wants to make me laugh
59:22
I am the easiest laugh. Yeah, I she can
59:24
make me laugh like a in
59:26
a second. Yeah. Yeah She'll do a voice or a thing or
59:28
this this is on the oh, you don't like this. No,
59:31
I do like it But
59:33
I've been shamed before not shamed Appropriately
59:36
teased for having my belly coming out. Uh
59:39
Okay, so I do this. Yeah. Oh,
59:42
I said you got it out. You got it out the theater.
59:44
You got it out I did was a big store
59:46
in high school Encouraged to go to
59:49
Hofstra University for theater and then I
59:51
don't have to tell you when you graduate With a BFA
59:53
in theater and move into New York City the whole world
59:55
is open to you It's
1:00:00
always tapping a cane twice on the ground and throwing it
1:00:02
to you. An absolute disaster. They
1:00:05
tried to warn us, and we were so
1:00:07
angry as theater students when the teachers would
1:00:09
go, you're never going to make it. The
1:00:12
odds are, you know, there's 40,000 people
1:00:14
going for one park in New York. You're never going
1:00:16
to make it. And at that age, you go, first
1:00:20
of all, fuck you, I'm paying you to help
1:00:22
me make it. Second of
1:00:24
all, I'll be the one that
1:00:26
makes it. Wait until they get a letter of me. And
1:00:29
then you move into Manhattan, and nobody called New York to
1:00:31
tell them what a big story you were in high school.
1:00:35
So now you're a shlemille just trying,
1:00:37
and I did all kinds of odd
1:00:39
jobs for years. Until some
1:00:41
friends of mine and I wrote a play for ourselves to be in,
1:00:44
which is literally for anyone watching
1:00:46
or listening, the only way.
1:00:49
They're not waiting for you. You must literally
1:00:51
write your own ticket. I, okay, so I'm
1:00:54
in a place where I'm like, what's the
1:00:56
next chapter? And I'm realizing,
1:00:58
Pete, it's still true.
1:01:01
You have to do it. Why
1:01:04
aren't they calling me? Haven't
1:01:08
they seen this, this, this, and this? Yeah. They've
1:01:11
seen it, but they've got their own Michigan that
1:01:13
they're dealing with. That's right. You
1:01:15
have to do it. That's always how it is.
1:01:18
Yeah. Always. If we
1:01:20
wait for offers, they're not
1:01:22
coming. Yeah. Isn't that crazy? It's
1:01:25
not crazy. It's completely rational. Maybe three
1:01:27
people on the planet who get offers.
1:01:29
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Right? That's
1:01:32
right. And you know, Donald Glover, to bring him
1:01:34
back, he's getting offers and he's still making his
1:01:36
own stuff because he knows. He knows that's going
1:01:38
to be the better thing. That's going to be
1:01:40
the better thing. Yes. I'm remembering
1:01:42
Bill Lawrence of this podcast. We were talking
1:01:44
about when people pitch you ideas to do
1:01:46
and he goes, I won't listen to it because
1:01:49
he goes, I got into this because I want to do
1:01:51
my ideas. Exactly. And I thought that
1:01:53
was so honest. It's not mean. But it's like, I'm
1:01:55
going to stop you because I really want to do
1:01:57
my you want to do that. You should do that.
1:02:00
I'm very open to hearing ideas, but at the
1:02:02
end of the day, I do
1:02:05
have to care so much more
1:02:07
about your idea to
1:02:09
put my own in the back. Right, that's
1:02:12
right. Which is why... Raymond
1:02:15
became a you idea too. I'm not trying
1:02:17
to bring this back to Raymond, I'm just
1:02:19
saying like, you needed enough room for Phil.
1:02:23
I couldn't have done it without
1:02:25
putting my... Or knew how to do
1:02:27
it. Yes, Ray, when
1:02:30
I met... Let me very
1:02:32
quickly just take you to that point. In
1:02:35
New York, writer played for ourselves to be
1:02:37
in. My friend Alan Kirschbaum and I write
1:02:39
a screenplay. We sell it immediately. All of
1:02:41
a sudden, I go from eating tuna fish
1:02:43
for dinner as an actor to eating whatever
1:02:46
I wanted as a writer. I was a
1:02:48
thousandaire. And I moved to LA because
1:02:50
I hear there's... You can
1:02:52
get work. There's Golden M Hills. So my partner and
1:02:54
I, we write a spec script, we
1:02:56
get hired immediately on the show. Not a
1:02:58
good show, but immediately. And God is telling
1:03:00
me, oh, I guess this is what you're
1:03:03
meant to do because look how easy this came
1:03:05
after all that. All
1:03:07
the hours and hours of watching TV are
1:03:10
now paying off. And I got
1:03:12
a job in television. Five
1:03:14
years of bad shows mostly. And then I
1:03:16
meet Ray Romano. Ray Romano had been struggling
1:03:18
as a stand up for 12 years. He
1:03:20
gets on Letterman. After six minutes, Letterman says
1:03:23
there should be a sitcom for this guy.
1:03:25
Letterman had a deal with TBS. They set
1:03:27
out looking for writers to create a show
1:03:29
for Ray. Ray meets with a
1:03:31
bunch of people. I'm one of them. He tells me that
1:03:33
he has a family, twin
1:03:36
boys and older daughter. Parents live
1:03:39
close by. Older brother is jealous of him.
1:03:41
His police sergeant lives with the family, lives
1:03:43
with the parents. He
1:03:46
tells me in this first meeting, he actually said, you
1:03:48
know, when he saw my stand up cable, Ace
1:03:51
Award. Never ends for Raymond. Everybody
1:03:53
loves Raymond. And I
1:03:55
said, well, it doesn't seem like there's anything there we can use.
1:04:00
So I say, Ray, that's
1:04:02
as good a place to start as any. He goes, what? I
1:04:05
said, you're life. That's, first
1:04:07
of all, you're not an actor. I'm not
1:04:09
going to make you a gay astronaut from
1:04:12
Cleveland. Yeah. Let's set it in this
1:04:14
world. Again,
1:04:16
he wanted to do a Seinfeld-esque kind of show.
1:04:18
Why? Because he's a standup. Yeah. And he sees
1:04:20
this is how you do it. Was that the
1:04:22
other kind of ideas people were pitching? Do you
1:04:24
remember any of them? Was it like you and
1:04:26
your friend are comics and you live in New
1:04:28
York? No, it was just me and him in
1:04:30
a meeting. No one was pitching anything. Yeah, but
1:04:32
did he ever tell you? Because your take was,
1:04:34
let's do your life. What were the other take?
1:04:36
Let's do a classic type of sitcom, mainly
1:04:40
because that's what I know how to do.
1:04:42
Right. Those are my values.
1:04:44
I love the
1:04:46
honeymowers, the odd couple, Mary
1:04:49
Tyler Moore, all the family, taxi. Classic
1:04:53
shows that were set on planet Earth in
1:04:56
real life, not I dream of genie, not
1:04:58
bewitched. Yeah. And I
1:05:00
love that they were filmed in front of
1:05:02
a live studio audience because that's a lot
1:05:04
like theater and that's where I'm from. Right.
1:05:06
So I like that. The
1:05:08
four cameras that come, which you don't see anymore, is
1:05:11
this perfect in between theater and
1:05:13
film. Yeah. You
1:05:16
write it, rehearse it, and
1:05:18
present it as a play. Yeah. And
1:05:20
then it has the flexibility and permanence
1:05:22
of film. Yeah. So
1:05:24
it's the best of both worlds. Yeah. When it
1:05:26
works, it's one
1:05:29
of the building blocks of television.
1:05:31
Yeah. Meaning whole networks
1:05:33
could build their programming around such a
1:05:35
show because that's how strong
1:05:37
the connection is with the audience. When it works. When
1:05:40
it works. Yeah. But
1:05:43
the executives, they blame the form.
1:05:46
It's not the form. It's the content. As
1:05:49
soon as there's a great one again, the form will be back. You
1:05:52
know? Mm-hmm. So it
1:05:55
is weird that we're all still watching it. We just
1:05:57
watch the old ones. People are still watching, friends. because
1:06:00
they love that. What a fine film. You feel like
1:06:02
you're part of something. It's again, it's a connection. Yeah.
1:06:04
You hear that laughing. And if
1:06:06
it's not fake laughing, you
1:06:09
feel like, oh my God, look, the
1:06:11
actors are holding for the
1:06:13
laugh, which you don't see in a single
1:06:15
camera show like The Office. As great as
1:06:17
that is, there's something
1:06:20
about watching the theater,
1:06:23
the filmed live show. Yes.
1:06:26
Well, you feel appreciated, you feel included, you feel...
1:06:28
Yes. And when stand
1:06:30
up is at its best, everyone's
1:06:32
being acknowledged. Right. And
1:06:34
the comedian is waiting
1:06:37
for you just the right amount and then hitting
1:06:39
you again. Yes. But there's a
1:06:41
very reciprocal, beautiful
1:06:43
consideration on both ends. Well,
1:06:45
you have that. I mean, the way
1:06:48
you work is wonderful because
1:06:50
not only do you include them
1:06:52
in your sides
1:06:55
in between your prepared material, but you
1:06:57
are like, why did I say that?
1:07:00
This, this, and how about... You're
1:07:02
including them in your processing, which is great. Because
1:07:06
you're doing it with them. The
1:07:08
multi cameras also has notes of
1:07:10
that. I agree with you. Yes. I
1:07:12
would love for it to come back. You're just making me realize how bad
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1:07:19
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1:07:21
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1:07:23
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1:07:25
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1:07:27
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1:07:29
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1:07:31
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It will, it just hasn't. When people ask, are
1:10:39
you ever gonna do that again? Yeah, as soon
1:10:41
as there's a great idea and an acceptance for
1:10:43
the idea. I can't tell you how many shows
1:10:45
I've tried since Raymond. After Raymond,
1:10:47
I thought, this is my purpose in life. I
1:10:50
should do sick terms. Everyone's
1:10:52
telling me I have to do another one, but nobody
1:10:54
wanted it. They told me the business changed greatly in
1:10:56
the nine years that I was doing Raymond. And
1:10:59
then I thought, well, I
1:11:01
have this dream of doing this travel show.
1:11:04
I saw a niche for myself. And
1:11:07
the niche was, I think I'm exactly like
1:11:09
Anthony Bourdain if he was afraid of everything.
1:11:13
Anthony Bourdain's a superhero, he's fantastic.
1:11:16
I'm never doing what he does. Yeah, he's Indiana
1:11:19
Jones. Yeah, did you ever
1:11:21
see the episode where he went to Borneo and
1:11:23
he got drunk with the tribesmen and
1:11:26
they gave him a chest tattoo by pounding
1:11:28
painted nails into his chest after they were
1:11:30
all drunk? No. This
1:11:32
is not Phil. This
1:11:34
is not me. I am not. First
1:11:37
of all, I'm not going to Borneo first. Why?
1:11:41
Because where's the hotel? I need
1:11:43
a hotel with a bed and a pillow. That's a yes, I'm
1:11:45
old. I need to lie down
1:11:47
when I fly now. But
1:11:51
it's obvious, I'm not pretending to be someone
1:11:53
else. I am this guy. But
1:11:56
what I'm finding is, there's a lot of people
1:11:59
in the audience like that. Yeah, well, that
1:12:01
is the miracle of your shown. When
1:12:03
I moderated, you're saying I was like,
1:12:05
look at him, look at this fan
1:12:07
base. You couldn't ask for a better
1:12:10
one. And they're all from little kids
1:12:12
as deadbeats and they really can next
1:12:14
week. What's funny is that. You're
1:12:17
not. I wouldn't describe it like cells in
1:12:19
every man. But. Then it turns
1:12:21
out that there are so many of
1:12:24
you that maybe we should call you
1:12:26
in every man, meaning they classic Hollywood
1:12:28
every. Your. Little more interesting
1:12:30
than that guy, but I do feel
1:12:32
like and every man in terms of
1:12:34
my insecurities and and worries and foibles.
1:12:38
I write I do feel like I mean, it's
1:12:40
like I'm the opposite of Bourdain, right? Although I
1:12:42
will say now that I may have started out
1:12:44
as a coward. I'm. Still
1:12:46
somewhat cowardly, but. My.
1:12:49
Experience as yours would be.
1:12:52
Makes. You braver because the biggest fears:
1:12:54
the unknown. right? So.
1:12:57
How do you. Conquer. The fear of the unknown
1:12:59
make it known. Yeah, yeah. so
1:13:01
over the past however many years
1:13:03
I've been making things known to
1:13:05
myself. Yeah, And so now
1:13:07
I'm not as afraid to eat a
1:13:09
bug. right? Or
1:13:12
Trump and Cold Water. I don't like it to
1:13:14
land but my brother likes push me into the
1:13:16
Gulf War. Some of that haven't. Woken.
1:13:18
Up. Literally. But
1:13:20
Isaac. The Advisor so go
1:13:23
know what I was watching the making of skittles.
1:13:25
Cause. I hear it really was talking
1:13:27
to somebody original out of Bugs Arches if he'd
1:13:30
skittles. Hits You know this? This.
1:13:32
Bugs in everything I think you would
1:13:34
wanna know. Oh I don't mean accidental bugs.
1:13:36
Oh I don't mean what's the doodles?
1:13:38
okay as they're known. see. I'm. Talking
1:13:41
about the this ducky we were like how
1:13:43
to make a schedule. I was as my
1:13:45
brother my was like. john
1:13:47
roy the great comic had a bit about like
1:13:49
how would you make a skittle from scratch and
1:13:51
i'll never forget he got i'm gonna guess melting
1:13:53
peacock poop know know some is a good melt
1:13:56
the top of a baseball helmet put on sugar
1:13:58
i was like his father john right Check
1:14:00
out John Roy, he's hilarious. That's really funny. But I
1:14:02
was like, really, how do you do it? And I
1:14:04
asked my friend, my brother-in-law, he
1:14:06
is my friend, but I go, do
1:14:08
you think there's oil? Do you fry it
1:14:10
at any point? Is it cooked at any point? Like we were just talking
1:14:13
about it. How do you make a skittle? So we looked it up. Okay.
1:14:16
And very casually in the thing, it's interesting, there's a
1:14:18
lot of tumbling, that's how they get things round, and
1:14:20
then they are different on the inside, the outside is
1:14:23
the same, the color, blah, blah, blah. And
1:14:27
now it's vegan. And I'm like,
1:14:29
wait, why wasn't it vegan before? And
1:14:31
I wasn't, it just explained. It
1:14:34
goes, up until 2009, the way
1:14:36
that they made the skittles shiny
1:14:38
was essentially, it was
1:14:40
like grasshoppers. It was like ground up grasshopper
1:14:42
juice sprayed on the skittles. It wasn't exactly
1:14:45
grasshoppers, but it was a bug. And I
1:14:47
was like, excuse me, 2009? Who
1:14:50
thought of this, first of all? Who's testing the
1:14:52
bug spray? Oh my God. That's a
1:14:54
different kind of bug spray. Literal bug.
1:14:56
Literal bug. But I mean, they said it
1:14:58
like the candy people know this.
1:15:00
You know that that candy and
1:15:02
other things may be banned in
1:15:04
California because of the color?
1:15:08
That it's a cancerous, the
1:15:10
color, and not just skittles, I think
1:15:12
Oreos have this, have a color thing?
1:15:15
That, but I mean, don't ban Oreos because
1:15:17
it's my favorite thing. Cheetos
1:15:20
has it too? So
1:15:23
it's about the color of things.
1:15:25
Yeah. Not the
1:15:27
taste of things. Well, yeah.
1:15:30
And the shine is going to be a little buggy.
1:15:32
And there's literal like petroleum
1:15:36
products in some of this crap. Well, I don't want
1:15:38
to make this a bummer, but the people making these
1:15:40
things, they only care about money. Really?
1:15:43
It's so disillusioned. Nobody cares.
1:15:46
I thought it was Willy
1:15:48
Wonka making all this. Isn't
1:15:50
that funny? Willy Wonka is
1:15:52
the ultimate solution. Talk
1:15:55
about the Gene Wilder. Please.
1:15:58
Gene Wilder only. Chalamet. Shallow
1:16:00
get out of here. I don't know. I liked
1:16:02
if you didn't like you know me. He's perfectly fine
1:16:04
But I if you're my age you like Gene Wilder
1:16:06
the best well I'll tell you what Wilder had over
1:16:09
Shallow me, but they didn't give it
1:16:11
to Shallow me and maybe they will is The
1:16:13
fucked up part the like sinister
1:16:16
part because what do you mean?
1:16:18
Maybe they will you mean in a sequel? Yeah, they're
1:16:20
well the whole thing is gonna be nine
1:16:22
movies again. Oh, yeah. Did you see
1:16:24
it? It ends where
1:16:26
he's like here's my factory and you're like, oh so the
1:16:28
second one's gonna be the factory I'll tell
1:16:31
you what Larry Gelbart. I got to I got
1:16:33
to be friends with my idols Norman Lear Larry
1:16:35
Gelbart Carl
1:16:37
Reiner these are these are my buddies and
1:16:40
go go to lunch with them I just had
1:16:42
the greatest life with these guys And
1:16:44
I made sure that I could have lunch
1:16:46
with them. I was the like ringleader I made
1:16:49
sure that we would have lunches and dinners
1:16:51
and Mel Brooks would come and Neil Simon would
1:16:53
come I was living a fantasy. It was
1:16:55
Simon making it what Paul Simon Neil
1:16:58
Simon, okay You
1:17:01
really don't know much about comedy history.
1:17:03
I was in rumors in college. I know
1:17:05
Neil I
1:17:12
was one of the great 17 year old Oscar Madison's
1:17:14
I'll have you know, is that right? Yeah,
1:17:16
that's very funny I was a
1:17:18
yeah, it was probably a twenty year old like
1:17:20
imitating Walter mother. No, it's garbage She's
1:17:25
going divorced me and Larry
1:17:28
Larry Gelbart and Norman
1:17:31
asked me what's it like to pitch a show
1:17:33
nowadays to networks and I start to explain it
1:17:35
and Larry stops me and turns
1:17:37
to Norman and says we're dying just in
1:17:39
time Wow That's
1:17:43
how I feel about a lot of stuff
1:17:45
that I thought of Norman today because I
1:17:47
put my shoes on and Classic
1:17:50
all in the family. I did one sock and shoe
1:17:52
and then other sock and shoe what I did I
1:17:54
like to take care of one foot at a time
1:17:56
Carl Reiner you do that you do that. I don't
1:17:58
do it every time Sometimes I
1:18:01
do sock sock shoe shoe, but today I
1:18:03
did sock shoe sock shoe. Consciously? Just
1:18:06
going with my gut. Felt
1:18:08
like taking care of one another. I've never done
1:18:10
that. You've never done sock shoe sock shoe? Never.
1:18:13
You should try it. I'm going to try it tomorrow.
1:18:15
I'm going to try it tomorrow. I'm so glad I came. Did you
1:18:17
get your whole thing? Yeah. So
1:18:19
I thought about that exchange on All in the Family,
1:18:21
but all respect, what a
1:18:24
time for comedy. Yes. Meaning,
1:18:26
imagine they're on set.
1:18:29
Because the story is
1:18:31
Carol O'Connor and Rob Reiner had
1:18:33
that conversation off camera. That's great.
1:18:36
They captured it. They put it
1:18:38
in the show. Yeah. I sort of
1:18:40
feel this way about music, about all
1:18:42
sorts of art. There was a
1:18:44
golden time when if you
1:18:46
notice someone having a talk about sock shoe
1:18:48
sock shoe, like sock shoe shoe, you
1:18:51
could put it in the show with full confidence that no one's done
1:18:53
it. Meaning, it was
1:18:55
like a gold rush. Of course. You
1:18:57
could just run and do anything. Everybody loves
1:18:59
Raymond. His parents live across the street. Now you have to
1:19:01
pitch a show and you go like, it's a little bit
1:19:03
like Raymond, it's a little bit like Cheers, he works at
1:19:05
a bar, but he also- By the way, we weren't the
1:19:07
first people that had the parents close by. I know, but
1:19:09
you weren't the 500th. I
1:19:12
guess, but it's all about execution. The
1:19:14
idea is one thing. Ideas
1:19:16
are a dime a dozen. I love what you're
1:19:18
saying. Execution is everything. Say it. Right?
1:19:21
You ever watch a movie and the plot is a guy
1:19:24
meets a girl, that's it, that's the whole plot? That's
1:19:27
the best movie you've ever seen in your life. Well
1:19:29
sure, because it's how they do it. It's how they
1:19:31
do it. You're absolutely right. That's everything. Yeah. Somebody
1:19:34
makes fried eggs better than somebody else.
1:19:36
Right. How they do it.
1:19:38
Right. You want eggs? Well,
1:19:41
how are you going to do it? I think
1:19:43
that's why these modern shows that are like kitchen
1:19:45
sink shows, they're like, there's a VR element. Something
1:19:47
for everybody. Yeah, something for everybody. Which means nothing
1:19:49
for nobody. Nothing for nobody. You said this when
1:19:51
we chatted at whatever theater that was. You were
1:19:53
like, the more specific, the more universal it is.
1:19:55
That's right. Like people aren't getting
1:19:57
that anymore. And a lot of stuff
1:19:59
is being loaded. into algorithms that are like you have
1:20:01
to open with a car chase and then there
1:20:03
has to be a sex scene and then there's
1:20:05
some hot comedy. But you know you leave those
1:20:07
things and you get the feeling of a buffet.
1:20:09
Yes. And I don't care how good
1:20:11
a buffet is, you're kind of like it would have been
1:20:14
better if they curated it and like served it. Always.
1:20:16
You know what I'm saying? We would get notes on
1:20:18
Raymond. You
1:20:21
need to make this character
1:20:23
more likable. And I'm
1:20:26
like, can I ask you something? Who in your family
1:20:28
is likable? Really?
1:20:31
Yeah. Everyone's, everyone,
1:20:33
this is what's, and
1:20:35
I always go to Taxi, Danny DeVito. Yeah.
1:20:38
Likeable? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Funniest character
1:20:40
ever. Yeah. Right. Not really.
1:20:43
He made us laugh and we believed him. Yeah.
1:20:45
And he was outrageously small. Yeah.
1:20:47
And a, and a, and a
1:20:50
absolute tyrant. Great character.
1:20:52
Yeah. We love him and we
1:20:54
love that show. So you would not take that
1:20:56
note? Never. And that went okay?
1:20:59
No. We were threatened every day
1:21:02
until we weren't. Wow.
1:21:05
The Sugg Life classes come out. Joe,
1:21:10
please make that the clip and have
1:21:12
the Sugg Life classes. So I'm not
1:21:14
taking network notes. Well, okay.
1:21:16
Listen, the best advice
1:21:19
I ever got was from Ed
1:21:21
Weinberger, showrunner on the Cosby Show,
1:21:23
the eighties, uh, uh,
1:21:25
maybe Talamour, a
1:21:27
bunch of shows, taxi with Jim Brooks, right?
1:21:32
I'm writing a pilot for Raymond and I asked him
1:21:34
for advice and he says, do
1:21:36
the show you want to do, because in the end they're going
1:21:39
to cancel you anyway. This
1:21:41
became my philosophy of life.
1:21:45
We all get canceled one day. Yeah.
1:21:47
So live your life. What are you
1:21:49
doing? Culture. God's canceling people every day,
1:21:51
every day, every day full cancel. You're
1:21:53
going to get canceled. I'm going to
1:21:55
get canceled. That's right. Yeah. Canceled. So
1:21:58
these little cancels. that
1:22:00
we get. Microcancels. They don't
1:22:02
mean anything. You mean
1:22:04
TV cameras, they just keep you out of
1:22:06
the doghouse. And the internet stuff. Yeah, yeah.
1:22:09
All that stuff. It's
1:22:11
meaningless. I mean,
1:22:13
I guess it's not if you're prevented from working
1:22:15
ever again. You're just saying big picture. Big picture.
1:22:17
Do the show you want to do because in
1:22:20
the end they're going to cancel you anyway. So
1:22:22
it doesn't do any good to
1:22:24
say as they're canceling you, but I took all your notes.
1:22:27
Right. That's probably why it stinks and why
1:22:29
you're cancelled. Right. Because they don't know. Right.
1:22:31
If they knew, they would do it. And
1:22:33
they wouldn't. Believe me, they'd like to save
1:22:35
a dollar and not hire you. Yeah, yeah,
1:22:37
yeah. They would do it if they could
1:22:39
do it. Right. I think there's
1:22:41
something, I'd love to hear your thoughts on this.
1:22:44
It comes up a lot. There's a psychotherapist named
1:22:46
Alan de Button. I always say Alain du Botton
1:22:48
because it sounds better. He
1:22:51
says when you go on a date and
1:22:53
you fall for, you feel a spark. This
1:22:56
is about AI. This is about everything we're talking about. He
1:22:59
goes, what you're really responding to is this
1:23:01
person has been wounded in the same way
1:23:03
that I was wounded and, and I
1:23:07
don't mean bad wound necessarily, but they will wound me
1:23:09
in a way that's familiar to me. If they hurt
1:23:11
me, it'll be the familiar way. Kind of like the,
1:23:13
a little bit of the devil,
1:23:16
you know, but like Val and I have a
1:23:18
very beautiful relationship and I agree with this theory
1:23:20
that like you are on the same frequency when
1:23:22
it comes to the type of pickles
1:23:25
we might have, they'll be familiar to me. What
1:23:27
I'm saying is I say this a million times,
1:23:30
perfumes always have a sour smell, right?
1:23:32
Behind the beautiful smell. So there's flowers and
1:23:34
then there's like horse piss. We love that.
1:23:36
And when you're on a date and you
1:23:38
feel excited by the person, somewhere deep in
1:23:40
the back, you're like, this person will hurt
1:23:42
me in a way that I kind of
1:23:44
want to be hurt. All of this is to say
1:23:46
it can't really be streamlined.
1:23:49
It can't be noted. There's like a, I'm
1:23:51
going to put this to you. There's like a
1:23:53
dreamy Freudian
1:23:55
unconscious complicated. I'll make
1:23:57
it simpler. Deeply human.
1:24:00
thing that an unencumbered
1:24:02
person without trying to
1:24:04
will infuse their work with, like a
1:24:06
psychological depth and stickiness and shadowiness that's
1:24:08
just going to make it resonate to
1:24:10
another human as opposed to making a
1:24:12
show that nine executives, blah, blah, blah,
1:24:14
blah, blah, blah, and cleaned everything up.
1:24:16
That's like going to a date and going like, well, let's take that
1:24:18
wound away and this wound away and this wound away and you don't
1:24:21
fall in love. Did any of that make sense? Absolutely.
1:24:24
And again, it's the specificity
1:24:26
of a well-rounded character or
1:24:28
person that we're trying to
1:24:30
create, right? That makes
1:24:32
it attractive to everyone else. Why? Because
1:24:34
even if their specific
1:24:36
isn't yours, we all deal in
1:24:39
specifics and we relate to each
1:24:41
other's specifics. Yeah. Oh, she's
1:24:44
obsessed with this thing the way I'm
1:24:46
obsessed with that thing. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
1:24:48
Yeah. So I relate. And Tony
1:24:50
Soprano struggles with his mother. Exactly. Like
1:24:53
that's the most obvious note. Not,
1:24:55
this is a joke, but like someone would be like,
1:24:57
does his mother on the Sopranos, does his mother have
1:24:59
to be so mean?
1:25:01
Yeah. Yes, she does because she created
1:25:04
a mob boss. Does she have to be so
1:25:06
mean? Yes, of course. Could there be some jokes?
1:25:08
Can't she be more likable? Could
1:25:10
she be sweet? Could she be a great cook?
1:25:12
No, she stinks. She stinks
1:25:14
in every way. And she hates her
1:25:16
son. And she hates her son. That's
1:25:18
great. Yes. And you watch it. This
1:25:20
is what I mean. Good art and
1:25:22
a good date. If Alan Day-Baton is
1:25:24
to be believed, both resonate
1:25:27
on a level we don't want to
1:25:29
look at. That's interesting. I never thought
1:25:31
of that. Yeah. I don't think you should. I don't
1:25:33
think either of us should. Yeah. But when we're left
1:25:35
to our own devices and
1:25:37
you just put in your stuff, it's
1:25:41
in there. Right. As long as somebody doesn't take it out.
1:25:43
Yeah. Yeah.
1:25:49
You, human beings go through a lot of
1:25:51
failure before they get to success. I don't
1:25:53
think anyone is just hit out of the
1:25:55
box. So all these travails
1:25:58
that we've had and those notes
1:26:00
that almost killed us and probably did a
1:26:02
few times, right? We
1:26:05
learn from them, don't do that again, but
1:26:07
every time I like I've been in
1:26:10
the mentorship position now where they'll send
1:26:12
me a young writer and I tell
1:26:14
them this thing, do the show you
1:26:16
want to do because in the end they're and
1:26:19
they all want to do that until
1:26:21
they get a note. Yeah. And then they
1:26:23
want to please. And they all
1:26:26
think, and I was guilty of this too,
1:26:29
if I just get it on, then
1:26:31
I'll do what I want. They all think that
1:26:35
and it never happens. Yeah.
1:26:37
Wow. My father's in real
1:26:39
estate and he 15, 30
1:26:41
year mortgage conversation and I was like, I'm going to
1:26:43
do the 30 and when I get a big payday,
1:26:46
I'll just pay off the house and he goes, Pete,
1:26:48
everyone says they're going to do that. No one does
1:26:50
it. There's all these like insider things. Like why would
1:26:52
you do that? Suddenly you have a
1:26:54
hundred thousand dollars. You're just going to put it in
1:26:56
your mortgage. Nobody does that. Right. Nobody does that. Of
1:26:59
course. Just an idea. Yeah. Just a number on
1:27:01
a bank thing. You're just going to throw it
1:27:04
away because you're going to be juiced for 30
1:27:06
years. Did you ever see Jake
1:27:09
Caston's movie, the TV set? I
1:27:12
just watched it. You did? I just watched it. I have
1:27:14
a little part in it as an executive. I know you
1:27:16
do. Judy Greer just did the podcast. I love her. She
1:27:18
was the last one. I love Judy.
1:27:20
She's wonderful. And Jed Apatow is
1:27:22
played by David Duchovny, essentially. Hysterical.
1:27:25
Isn't that great? Back problems. Yes.
1:27:27
Hysterical. Yeah. That
1:27:31
movie is so
1:27:34
true. Yeah. It's a horror movie. The
1:27:36
worst thing that happens to the character
1:27:38
is that a show gets picked up
1:27:40
after he's made every adjustment with the
1:27:42
notes. Now he's trapped in a show
1:27:45
he doesn't even like, let
1:27:47
alone has to run. Yes. My
1:27:50
favorite part of that movie is
1:27:52
when the, it's not Seth Green, but it's the
1:27:54
guy who kind of looks like Seth Green. He's great,
1:27:56
by the way. I wish I knew his name. But
1:27:59
he's... He does it perfect in
1:28:01
rehearsal. Yes. And then they roll and suddenly he's
1:28:03
trying to impress the girl. Yeah. And he does
1:28:05
it completely differently. Yes, of course. And the scene
1:28:07
doesn't work. Yeah. But
1:28:10
it does answer the question, why are so many things
1:28:12
terrible? Because people
1:28:14
are really complicated. Yes.
1:28:17
You know, I did a multi-cam and we all
1:28:19
got along really, really well. And
1:28:22
Shy McBride who had been around and done a lot
1:28:24
of shows, he was like, I'm worried because
1:28:26
everyone loves it here. And he was
1:28:28
like, it's almost like there was a
1:28:31
superstition that it was too nice, too perfect.
1:28:33
He's like, all the great shows. I'm not
1:28:35
trying to get Raymond dirt. I'm just saying,
1:28:37
I'm not even implying, but he goes, all
1:28:40
the great shows, they
1:28:42
hated each other. He's like a lot
1:28:44
of the great. I can tell you it
1:28:46
was 90% beautiful. Heaven
1:28:50
on that trip. I believe that. It was beautiful. We
1:28:53
had a sign in the back. Be nice.
1:28:55
It was on the wall. Be nice. Be nice. That's
1:28:57
it. That's what I was telling me. If somebody wanted
1:28:59
to know what the values of the show were, that's
1:29:01
it. I wanted to show for families. Yeah. About
1:29:05
a family made by a
1:29:07
family. That's
1:29:09
very good. You know,
1:29:11
one of the key things in achieving that
1:29:13
was good food. Tell
1:29:16
me really good food had the best craft service
1:29:18
in town because I worked on a show. It
1:29:20
was actually kind of a hit show for
1:29:23
someone else and this show
1:29:25
was running six, seven years. And
1:29:27
one day we got a memo on
1:29:30
the company stationery. Big company. Big show.
1:29:34
We noticed some of you were coming in the morning and
1:29:36
putting milk on your cereal. The
1:29:39
milk is for coffee. The cereal
1:29:41
is for snacking. We
1:29:45
do not provide breakfast for you.
1:29:48
Please do not put milk on your cereal. And
1:29:51
right then and there I thought, wow, if
1:29:53
I'm ever lucky enough to have my own show,
1:29:56
we're going to have milk on the cereal. I
1:30:00
see you in like a Dickensian tuxedo. Like, I
1:30:02
promise you, milk on everyone cereal. Yeah, yes, that
1:30:04
is. So not only do we have milk on
1:30:06
the cereal, we had the best craft services down.
1:30:09
We ordered in Delhi from New
1:30:12
York. We ordered in Anne Sather's
1:30:14
Cinnamon Buns from Chicago. We'd
1:30:17
have food trucks before they were
1:30:19
popular, backstage on shoot night, taco
1:30:21
trucks. We had In-N-Out
1:30:23
Burger trucks. We had crab
1:30:26
claws from Florida once a year. Go
1:30:28
in the writer's room, cover the writer's room table
1:30:30
with newspaper, and crack the crabs with hammers from
1:30:32
the set. Wow, incredible.
1:30:36
Fun. Fun. The
1:30:38
army travels on its stomach. One of the best ways
1:30:40
to show people you care about them, other than be
1:30:42
nice, do good work, pay them
1:30:44
a living wage, you know? Feed them. Feed
1:30:47
them, that's love. Food is love.
1:30:49
Feed Phil somebody. Yes. Phil
1:30:52
feed somebody. Yes. I blew
1:30:54
it. Yes, but that's the connection.
1:30:56
That's a way to make the connection.
1:30:58
Yeah. Very good way. Love
1:31:01
it. Need it. Love every
1:31:03
part of this. Where were
1:31:05
we? Were there any missteps? Did you ever
1:31:07
try something? You're like, maybe I'm a tennis
1:31:09
guy. Ah! That's
1:31:13
never happened, because the sport's involved.
1:31:15
I think tennis is a sport, right? Yeah, no, not
1:31:17
for me. Yes, yes. Yes,
1:31:20
so when I decided, oh, I
1:31:22
think maybe instead of knocking my head against the wall
1:31:24
of this sitcom thing, that doesn't seem to exist anymore,
1:31:27
why don't I do this fantasy of having
1:31:29
the travel show? Yeah. And my
1:31:31
agents looked at me like I had lost my mind. And
1:31:34
it took 10 years to get
1:31:36
that show. And I tried other iterations of
1:31:38
it, and like,
1:31:40
for example, American Express heard
1:31:43
that I was interested, and they
1:31:45
said, would you go to a city
1:31:48
with a famous chef, and
1:31:50
then we'll film that? And I thought, oh, this'll be
1:31:52
a pilot for a show. It
1:31:55
wasn't. It was something
1:31:58
they were gonna use for their... Platinum
1:32:01
card members to watch little snippets
1:32:03
of this trip. In other words,
1:32:05
they were going to pay for a full trip with me and a
1:32:07
famous chef to London. We
1:32:09
were going to eat, and then we were going
1:32:11
to film it, and then the chef was going to recreate some
1:32:14
of the dishes that we had in London for
1:32:16
card members. And it
1:32:19
was worth it to them, and we would host the
1:32:21
dinner and then do a Q&A after the dinner about
1:32:23
our experience in London and all these great restaurants. Well,
1:32:26
I worked with a producer who booked us in 27 restaurants
1:32:28
in 7 days. And
1:32:31
because I was with the famous high-end
1:32:33
chef, they were all 3-star Michelin restaurants,
1:32:35
meaning 3 or 4-hour meals every meal.
1:32:39
I couldn't do it. At one point, I
1:32:41
broke down. I kind of got emotional. I can't
1:32:43
do it. I can't physically eat. And the guy
1:32:45
goes, I thought you're a professional. No,
1:32:47
I'm a human being. How much can I
1:32:49
eat? I can't do it. You know, when the food comes,
1:32:52
you want to be excited. You want to say, oh boy,
1:32:54
not oh no. I can't. I've been
1:32:56
in that situation where you're being overfed. That's
1:32:59
torture. Yeah, it's torture. So you're taking
1:33:01
the thing. It's like in Clockwork Orange. Oh, you
1:33:04
like sex and violence? What if we hold your
1:33:06
eyes open and you see nothing but that until
1:33:08
you can't anymore? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I go to
1:33:10
The Simpsons. You like donuts. How about all the
1:33:12
donuts in the world? Except the joke is that
1:33:14
Homer loves it. He loves it.
1:33:16
He goes, more. They tried to Clockwork Orange
1:33:18
him. They tried to Clockwork Orange him. But they
1:33:20
created a monster. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But that's why that
1:33:22
show is so funny. So
1:33:26
then I learned from that of what
1:33:28
not to do. And
1:33:30
that's why it looks like I'm excited to eat
1:33:32
on my show because I am. Because I didn't
1:33:34
eat that day until that scene
1:33:37
that day. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And so I'm
1:33:39
thrilled that the food is coming and we
1:33:41
only film one or two food scenes a
1:33:43
day. Yeah. And that I
1:33:45
can eat. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You want
1:33:47
to be excited. The whole point is to get you to travel. I
1:33:49
want you to travel. So I want to show you the best stuff
1:33:51
and how fun it is. Yes. And
1:33:53
here's a four hour French meal that was
1:33:55
made with tweezers. Right.
1:33:59
And we're going to sit and... Analyze every is there
1:34:01
anything worse you know than being really really
1:34:03
hungry and in one of those restaurants that
1:34:05
like eats it out One
1:34:07
bite at a time. I feel like can I have
1:34:09
the bread now? I will write
1:34:11
for bring me bread. I hate you
1:34:14
It's torture. I hate this Listen,
1:34:17
we're talking about something that is an absolute
1:34:19
luxury to many many people who would kill
1:34:21
to do that once Yeah, I've been spoiled
1:34:23
rotten. I've gotten to do it more than
1:34:25
once Yeah to the point where I'd rather
1:34:28
have a hot dog I'd
1:34:30
rather have a great hot ball and
1:34:32
I three hour three hour thing. Yeah,
1:34:34
go get food Yeah, it was the
1:34:37
last time I was in Chicago. We did something like that
1:34:39
and then we went to Shake Shack Yeah, it
1:34:41
was incredible the Shake Shack was of course
1:34:43
it was There's
1:34:46
no price on delicious. There's no price on
1:34:48
delicious. Yes. Yes now all in all your
1:34:50
travels I have to imagine you've stayed in
1:34:52
some hotels and they're like this is the
1:34:55
most haunted place on earth There
1:34:57
was one hotel in Palm Springs
1:34:59
where I stayed where I felt
1:35:01
something So
1:35:03
creepy and weird that I had to
1:35:06
change hotels Have that
1:35:08
ever happened to you? No, it
1:35:10
was a weird feeling. I could barely
1:35:12
sleep I could get something happen. Was
1:35:14
there a triple murder in this room?
1:35:16
I don't know wait Walk
1:35:19
me through it. You check in the room. I
1:35:21
check in it's odd. The hotel is odd. This
1:35:23
is odd boutique Kinda
1:35:25
eat like yellow and white
1:35:28
the whole scheme is yellow and white and
1:35:30
Palm Springs to me no offense It's
1:35:33
all odd No,
1:35:37
yes, is it to you sure
1:35:39
what does your I don't
1:35:42
know if I've been I don't have a memory of
1:35:44
being in Palm I don't insult anybody it this is
1:35:46
everyone's personal everyone feels a certain way in certain places
1:35:49
The heat is crazy to me that everything is it's just
1:35:51
odd to me. It's a wild place. Yes. Yes
1:35:54
It's one of the most I'll say this is
1:35:56
a positive about Florida. You know, you're in Florida
1:36:00
And I think that's actually really cool. You see
1:36:02
a lot of leather cowboy hats. You see a
1:36:04
lot of like it's it's its own thing It's
1:36:07
a culture. It's a real culture as an
1:36:09
alligator on the driveway. That's what I mean.
1:36:11
It's a real place You don't I'm going
1:36:14
there Wednesday. I'm going. Yeah. Well, we Orlando
1:36:16
is spectacular. Yeah This
1:36:18
is the find of the season for me.
1:36:20
Yeah was Orlando. Yeah, you happen to see
1:36:22
that episode I didn't okay, so I want
1:36:24
you to see that because I thought going
1:36:26
to Orlando They're telling me the tourist board.
1:36:29
We have food from all over the world
1:36:31
and I'm like, yeah, yeah, and
1:36:33
so I go to Epcot and I'm
1:36:36
it's Disney World. Yeah, not
1:36:39
for me. Can I don't get me
1:36:41
started on why doesn't Disney? Make
1:36:43
the food good. I Think
1:36:47
I don't care. I don't need enough of it
1:36:49
to know but some people but some people I
1:36:51
think love it And I'd love
1:36:53
to have those people there are some good restaurants.
1:36:55
I think in some of the theme parks however,
1:36:57
I gone the moderator
1:36:59
for that night when I did the Speaking
1:37:03
engagement in Orlando was the food editor for
1:37:05
the Orlando Sentinel and she said you
1:37:07
don't go to Disney. No you go Disney
1:37:11
has been there 50 years and in those
1:37:13
50 years They've employed tens of thousands of
1:37:15
immigrants who all set up their own communities
1:37:17
around Orlando so it's like a mini LA
1:37:19
or New York and she took me around
1:37:21
the next day and Holy
1:37:24
crap is the food scene awesome
1:37:26
in Orlando. It's concentrated in this
1:37:29
smaller area, but
1:37:31
every Culture
1:37:33
represented well, and it's phenomenal.
1:37:35
I had Puerto
1:37:38
Rican Porchetta that
1:37:40
was better than anything. I hadn't it. Well, it
1:37:42
was spectacular the guy have a rat in his
1:37:44
hat. He didn't but
1:37:48
I know the reference we talked about
1:37:50
the other night but ending
1:37:53
to any movie yeah, um But
1:37:57
I get to say in that show yeah come to
1:37:59
Disney World your family have a lovely time but
1:38:01
the real magic kingdom is the
1:38:03
real world outside mmm and
1:38:05
that's America to me yeah yeah
1:38:08
so you check into the room oh
1:38:10
and Palm Springs yeah sorry I
1:38:13
got sidetracked I loved it Florida
1:38:15
thanks you I for
1:38:18
real you know how I try to explain
1:38:20
to you the other night about
1:38:22
this food that I had from the Palestinian lady
1:38:25
yeah then I could not explain it I have
1:38:27
a better I thought about it since please I
1:38:29
think I have a better answer for you all
1:38:31
right you want me to finish the Palm Springs thing then
1:38:33
we'll get to that okay you
1:38:37
check the whole place felt weird the room
1:38:39
was oddly shaped like too much space on
1:38:41
this side that was useless big
1:38:43
empty thing I'm alone hmm yellow
1:38:45
light odd almost
1:38:48
like seen on a
1:38:50
blue velvet mm-hmm that's how it feels to
1:38:52
me and I
1:38:54
could never settle in again
1:38:57
like this experience in a good way
1:38:59
with this woman in Dubai
1:39:02
I can't
1:39:04
explain the feeling yeah this is
1:39:06
why they're called unexplained phenomena yeah you
1:39:09
have an intuition it just
1:39:11
feels wrong yeah I
1:39:14
shouldn't be here get out yeah that's what
1:39:16
it it's coming from inside the
1:39:18
house that's what it was felt and
1:39:20
but you did try to go to sleep
1:39:22
yeah and in the night no
1:39:25
I got up the next morning I was gonna be there for three days and
1:39:28
I said I'm getting out of here that happened
1:39:30
to me in Chicago I was in a hotel and I
1:39:32
was like I hate there's it's just wrong it makes
1:39:35
you it'll make you believe hard in like Feng
1:39:37
Shui except there's something wrong yes the animal of
1:39:39
my mind uncomfortable and I couldn't point that almost
1:39:41
never happens but I'm like I gotta get the
1:39:44
fuck out of this happened one time in my
1:39:46
life that's the time mind I yeah me too
1:39:48
yeah all right so now in
1:39:51
a good way yeah yeah you buy and
1:39:53
I go to a Palestinian woman's restaurant this
1:39:55
was a year ago mm-hmm before
1:39:58
the recent troubles The
1:40:01
world has told me as a Jewish guy, I'm not
1:40:03
gonna fall in love with the Palestinian woman We're not
1:40:05
supposed to. But this woman was so wonderful
1:40:08
and so beautiful and so great And I was with
1:40:10
her daughter and she was telling me she's gonna make
1:40:12
you something you're gonna feel something and I'm like, okay
1:40:14
I'd like to feel it tastes good, but I'll
1:40:17
play your game So here comes the
1:40:19
food and I'm hearing her story and she couldn't and
1:40:21
I put it in my mouth and I cried Yeah,
1:40:24
not just because it was Incredibly
1:40:27
delicious something else that I can't
1:40:29
explain just like the weird room in Palm Springs.
1:40:31
It's like I saw a UFO I
1:40:33
don't know what happened. And that's why
1:40:35
I asked you because you're tied into
1:40:37
spiritual Ism and things
1:40:39
and you seem to know things I
1:40:42
wanted your opinion on this or if
1:40:45
an explanation What could this
1:40:47
be this? indescribable
1:40:49
unexplainable feeling that was so powerful.
1:40:51
It's like somebody reached in and
1:40:54
rubbed my heart And
1:40:57
you were like transported transported,
1:40:59
right? Not to like my mom
1:41:01
made me food. Yeah, or the ratatouille moment
1:41:03
We joke that you we joke that you
1:41:06
were ratatouille Right and the answer that
1:41:08
the movie ratatouille gives to moments like that because
1:41:10
remember goes in his eye I trial tenants a
1:41:12
return to a childhood. It was
1:41:14
interesting from his mother, right? The
1:41:17
first thing I'll say is I don't know But
1:41:20
also I think what's happening and this
1:41:23
is this was too hard to say when there were 2,000
1:41:26
people watching us. Uh-huh, but I tried I'm
1:41:29
gonna try again here peak experiences So I
1:41:31
don't know what triggers a peak experience, right?
1:41:34
But you had a peak experience. Yes my
1:41:36
take on what happened Let's
1:41:38
just say the food was so overwhelmingly It
1:41:42
could be anything surprising nostalgic delicious.
1:41:44
Yeah But it
1:41:46
was such an extreme cessation
1:41:49
of desire Meaning
1:41:51
in that moment you wanted
1:41:53
nothing It was here.
1:41:55
Yes, so much of our life
1:41:57
is spent stretching ourselves towards
1:42:00
what we want or away
1:42:02
from what we don't want. In
1:42:04
that moment, you were given exactly
1:42:06
... You didn't even know you wanted it,
1:42:09
which is perfect. It was the surprise. It's
1:42:11
like you fell into a
1:42:13
hole where all your desires went
1:42:16
away because of this ultimate fulfillment,
1:42:20
unexpected fulfillment. This is
1:42:22
where it gets super spiritual and maybe you won't
1:42:24
agree, but I would say in that nakedness ...
1:42:27
I always use that term, but in that nakedness,
1:42:29
you tasted your true essence and
1:42:32
your true essence, meaning
1:42:34
your God nature, meaning your divinity,
1:42:37
meaning like
1:42:40
the space in this room, that
1:42:43
kind of spacious, peaceful, happy.
1:42:46
It's trans-rational. It's outside of thinking about
1:42:48
it, but you were more like you
1:42:50
stopped being a fill in this room,
1:42:52
you became like the space in the
1:42:54
room, and the nature of this space
1:42:56
is spacious, calm,
1:42:59
blissful, peaceful, content, and that's
1:43:01
your true nature. This
1:43:04
is very Rupert's Barabak. Because
1:43:06
you wanted nothing, because you
1:43:08
got exactly what you wanted and that almost never
1:43:11
happened, you
1:43:13
were almost like deep
1:43:15
sleep. You were naked yourself. That's
1:43:18
my guess. And that's moving if that
1:43:21
ever happens. It's incredibly moving.
1:43:24
And when we answered it at the live
1:43:26
event, I talked about rock climbing, I talked about
1:43:28
deep sleep, that might have confused it. I think
1:43:30
when you get exactly what you
1:43:32
didn't even know you wanted, that moment
1:43:34
of peace, it's also Rupert
1:43:36
would say when we laugh, that's a
1:43:39
taste of our true nature. It's this
1:43:41
liberation, it's this mini liberation. You got
1:43:43
a longer one of those, where
1:43:45
you were completely
1:43:48
without fill, but you still were.
1:43:53
I don't know, it felt like some
1:43:55
kind of what time travel must feel
1:43:57
like. Where did you
1:43:59
go? That's the question. But the
1:44:01
question, I think, again, I'm not trying
1:44:03
to convince you. My fantasy
1:44:05
isn't that you go. That's correct. That's what the
1:44:08
daughter said. Yeah. Where did you go? But
1:44:10
then and I looked at her and I was like, I can't,
1:44:13
I was still processing it and
1:44:16
I just held up my finger like you're on
1:44:18
to something but I don't know what it is.
1:44:20
But where could you go? Because you didn't go
1:44:22
anywhere. You didn't even go to
1:44:24
a memory. It sure felt like I went
1:44:26
somewhere. Exactly. But you didn't go to a
1:44:28
perception. You went to that
1:44:30
which perceives. Now we're really on my
1:44:32
way. You went into the naked knower
1:44:35
and when you're
1:44:37
depressed, when I'm depressed, one of the techniques I do
1:44:39
is I go, is the witnessing
1:44:41
presence that notices the sadness? Because there
1:44:43
is something that goes, oh Jesus, the
1:44:45
depression is here. Yeah. You're shining the
1:44:47
flashlight of your awareness around you. You
1:44:49
see it. Yeah, like cobwebs. Yeah. But
1:44:52
is the light that sees the depression,
1:44:54
is it depressed? And in
1:44:56
my experience the answer is no. Sometimes it can trick
1:44:59
you and go like, yes. But I'm like, really? Get
1:45:02
away from it and go like, I think you
1:45:04
were in the knower. I
1:45:07
think you became being
1:45:09
instead of a being. I'm
1:45:12
so, first of all, I'm grateful for this
1:45:15
discussion about it, but I'm so grateful
1:45:17
to have had that experience unlike
1:45:20
any other I've ever had. I've
1:45:22
welled up over delicious and I say in
1:45:24
the show, yeah. Sometimes that's more
1:45:26
than enough. We've all been to Wingstop. I
1:45:31
had gelato in Italy, at
1:45:33
Vively. Yeah. And when the lady pulled
1:45:36
it right out of the machine, freshly
1:45:39
made and put it in my mouth, I
1:45:41
kissed her on both cheeks instinctively. I
1:45:43
don't know this person, but thank
1:45:46
God she didn't call the police. She
1:45:48
kissed me right back. And
1:45:50
the combination of how beautiful the
1:45:52
ice cream was and her,
1:45:55
yeah, crying. I'm
1:45:57
really tempted to make it weird here. I think... there's
1:46:00
something so obvious if we weren't
1:46:02
human beings, if aliens were watching
1:46:04
us, they would go, it's his
1:46:06
mom. She literally gave you milk
1:46:09
and you were overwhelmed. Like is that memory
1:46:11
different if it's me? I
1:46:16
have to say two things. I did it. I
1:46:19
would kiss you on both cheeks, no problem. No,
1:46:21
I know. This isn't homophobic. No,
1:46:23
no, of course not. It felt right that
1:46:25
it's a mom giving you sweet nourishing.
1:46:28
The first thing you tasted was milk and
1:46:30
here it is again and you're transported and
1:46:33
it's maternal. Now I want
1:46:35
to preface what I'm gonna say, hit it by
1:46:37
saying I loved my mother. She was one
1:46:39
of the best people who ever lived. Can't
1:46:41
wait for the second part. Terrible cook. Nothing
1:46:47
she gave me moves me to tears
1:46:49
in that way. That moved me
1:46:51
to tears that I had to finish it. Yeah, but
1:46:54
she gave you something that she didn't cook. She
1:46:57
gave me something that she didn't cook. Her breast milk.
1:47:01
I probably... You're
1:47:03
a formula. Was formula. Yeah,
1:47:06
you feel like a formula boy. I feel
1:47:08
like you were making it yourself. Yes. Yeah,
1:47:10
no, cooking wasn't
1:47:14
the strong suit. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah,
1:47:18
no, that's such a me thing. Listen,
1:47:20
it's Freudian and probably there's
1:47:22
something in there. Maybe it's
1:47:25
the opposite. That can
1:47:27
also be true. Maybe I'm getting the thing
1:47:29
that I never got from my mother. Exactly,
1:47:31
yeah, exactly. Right? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
1:47:34
But I don't want to disparage my mother. Great,
1:47:36
great lady. Is it weird that I do? I
1:47:39
like that you do. Because
1:47:41
when she comes back and haunts us,
1:47:43
like in the hotel room, it's you
1:47:45
she's gonna get. Yeah. What about something
1:47:47
else unexplainable? You're going all these places
1:47:49
you ever see like a psychic or
1:47:51
a tarot or something strange. I sat
1:47:53
with a monk,
1:47:56
a Buddhist monk in Chiang
1:47:59
Mai. that that's great did
1:48:02
you enjoy all I
1:48:04
couldn't get into the position
1:48:06
that he wanted me to get in that's
1:48:09
a great Brian Regan but he's like I'm so
1:48:11
out of shape I can't relax exactly yeah anytime
1:48:14
I have to sit on the ground
1:48:16
cross-legged yeah it's like you may
1:48:18
as well put me on the rack somebody fold Phil
1:48:21
yes that's me so
1:48:24
my body's not set up for this but
1:48:26
I love being with him and what I loved
1:48:29
about him was he goes
1:48:31
I like being in this space because it's
1:48:33
just me and I get away from you
1:48:36
know I said who he
1:48:39
said you know my fellow monks I
1:48:41
said are they annoying of course sometimes
1:48:44
I'm like I love this so
1:48:47
much now I relate yeah to
1:48:49
a monk yeah be annoying can
1:48:51
I yeah this is
1:48:54
a touchy subject I just when sometimes
1:48:56
you know people and they get rid of their
1:48:58
anxiety it could be medicine and I
1:49:01
sometimes lose my bridge that's all I'm saying
1:49:03
I'm not trying to disparage I know some people
1:49:05
need it or whatever what does that mean you
1:49:07
lose your bridge to to other people thing that
1:49:09
one of the ways I connect with you even
1:49:12
now yes we're neurotic about similar things yes
1:49:15
we get anxious yeah I love it it's
1:49:17
human I mentioned this all the time but
1:49:19
I called Joe DeRosa and we
1:49:22
just laugh and yell about a
1:49:24
grocery store or whatever it is and
1:49:26
I'm just like that's
1:49:29
a that's a hug that's
1:49:31
a hug for course and I just known people
1:49:33
and again I love these people I care for
1:49:35
these people sometimes the anxiety goes away and I'm
1:49:38
like I can't find you and
1:49:40
we're not laughing it's a weird lotus flowers growing
1:49:42
shit that what I'm saying you want to get
1:49:44
the shit just right you can't be too much
1:49:46
shit but we can't get rid of all of
1:49:49
the shit all we do as human beings on
1:49:51
the planet is try to connect with other human
1:49:53
beings that's it yeah that's all we do that's
1:49:55
right it's why we write it's why we do
1:49:57
comedy that's why we make a show it's why
1:50:00
we go out with friends. We're just
1:50:02
looking to connect. So we're not alone
1:50:04
in the universe and knowing we're
1:50:06
going to die. And
1:50:08
loneliness is as bad as smoking. And you're going to die too,
1:50:11
and at least we have that in common. Well,
1:50:14
not me. I
1:50:17
meant you were going to die. Yeah, yeah. I'm going
1:50:19
to descend. Yes. Yeah. And
1:50:22
you'll find your shoes here. Oh
1:50:24
yeah. Right? Got to leave the shoes. I love
1:50:26
that. God is a shoes off house. We don't need the
1:50:28
shoes here. I'm going to take my shoes off.
1:50:31
But I'm looking at a dog right here. This is your
1:50:33
dog? Yeah. What's the name? Scout.
1:50:37
Scout, I mean,
1:50:39
the older I get, the more in love with
1:50:41
dogs, Sonya. They seem to have figured it out.
1:50:44
I was with my dog yesterday. He was digging a hole
1:50:46
in the sand, and he was with another dog, and he
1:50:48
was playing, It's My Hole. And
1:50:52
they were the happiest things I've ever seen in my
1:50:54
life. Yeah. And there's a real, I'm
1:50:56
with you. I love my dog,
1:50:59
I was going to say my new dog. Full
1:51:01
respect, Berodi. But my new dog, we have a deeper connection.
1:51:03
It might be because I'm older. I don't know.
1:51:07
Yeah. Dogs sleep 70% of the time. 70%
1:51:09
of the time. Maybe that's a thing.
1:51:12
Well. But they also live much
1:51:14
less. And in both ways.
1:51:16
They're here less years, and they're awake less of
1:51:19
the time. Exactly. But there's something about
1:51:21
sleep. We're back to that thing. When
1:51:23
you sleep, to quote Billie Eilish, where do
1:51:25
you go? I think
1:51:27
it's the same place as when you ate that
1:51:29
lamb. I really do. Yeah, but you don't wake
1:51:31
up crying and going, oh my God, how fantastic.
1:51:33
No, I know, but there's no sense of time.
1:51:36
Right. And yet there is an
1:51:38
experience, and we like it.
1:51:40
So deep sleep is consciousness being without
1:51:42
an object. Do you ever? We
1:51:45
like it. It's weird. It's a
1:51:47
good hint. We love it. Do you ever, does
1:51:49
this ever happen to you? This is probably some
1:51:51
form of insomnia, but I bet it's common. How
1:51:55
am I going to fall asleep? How do I make
1:51:57
myself fall asleep? What is the process of falling asleep?
1:52:00
asleep now? Oh yeah. How am
1:52:02
I ever gonna fall asleep when
1:52:04
it just happened?
1:52:07
Yeah. How does it happen? Yeah. And thinking
1:52:09
about that keeps you from sleep. It's like
1:52:11
peeing at the ballpark. Don't think about it. You can't think about
1:52:13
it. Or like your wedding
1:52:15
night. Well peeing in the ballpark is
1:52:17
so disgusting. I agree. It is the
1:52:20
opposite of the Toto experience if we
1:52:22
could bring it full circle. It's a
1:52:24
friggin trough and you're an animal with
1:52:26
other animals and their beasts. With their
1:52:28
holy men with their fucking dicks. We
1:52:31
are disgusting. It's disgusting. It's inhuman. You wouldn't
1:52:34
put a woman in that situation. No you
1:52:36
wouldn't. Seinfeld has come up a lot. He
1:52:38
goes, why don't we just go all the
1:52:40
way put a vine, you swing a men's
1:52:42
room, pee, swing out. Everyone's
1:52:45
just peeing all over everything. It's gross. At
1:52:48
least now the world has gone my way.
1:52:50
In the 80s I was like this sucks. And
1:52:53
everyone was like this is as good as it
1:52:55
gets. Yeah. Now everyone's gone my way. Bathrooms, we've
1:52:57
got dividers, we've got privacy, we've got this, we've
1:52:59
got that. Except at the ballpark. Except
1:53:01
at the ballpark. Because I was just talking about
1:53:04
this with my friends last night. It's
1:53:06
funny, sports, when it comes
1:53:08
to like, and I'm not trying to start a whole thing, but like trans
1:53:12
issues, trans rights, and
1:53:14
sports. That's one of the final frontiers. It's
1:53:16
like what do you do with a male-born
1:53:19
trans woman, whatever. I'm hoping I'm getting
1:53:21
these terms right. And
1:53:24
I'm like yeah, one of the, of course they're lagging.
1:53:27
Sports as an idea is
1:53:29
pretty primitive. It's like this
1:53:31
is ancient Rome. We're
1:53:33
fucking, I'm saying like no
1:53:36
shit they're not progressive. They're the most regressive.
1:53:38
They're just like throw a ball and let
1:53:40
sweaty bleeding things. But there's also a lot
1:53:42
of issues in the world. This is what
1:53:44
we're gonna fight over? Yeah,
1:53:46
that's right. Shut up. We're about to
1:53:48
lose democracy. You think so? Well,
1:53:50
I forgot you feel this way. I don't
1:53:53
know what's gonna happen. I'm just saying that. They're,
1:53:55
all I'm saying is they're bigger issues. There are
1:53:57
bigger issues. This is, but it's like when
1:53:59
you say the cop like shouldn't you be getting a
1:54:01
murderer it's like yeah but I'm getting this cat out
1:54:03
of a tree yeah giving you a ticket matters to
1:54:06
the cat yeah yeah well in my case the cat
1:54:08
was driving the to
1:54:10
see yeah the tune moment okay
1:54:13
so you sat with the monk and you loved it love
1:54:15
that yeah I love every experience yeah
1:54:18
every experience great I don't like
1:54:20
jumping in cold water literally
1:54:23
or metaphorically however when
1:54:26
I first time he did it off
1:54:28
the coast of Ireland with the crazy
1:54:30
wonderful people there hmm I
1:54:33
don't know if you saw that episode but I
1:54:35
go to this place called Greystones in Ireland
1:54:38
these two twin
1:54:41
brothers run a health food
1:54:43
store and restaurant and they
1:54:46
have gotten the whole town
1:54:48
to join them every morning
1:54:50
by jumping in the water ice cold
1:54:52
water off the off the
1:54:54
coast of Ireland well it's right there in the
1:54:56
town free and
1:54:59
then there's hot chocolate and stuff and coffee for
1:55:01
the for everyone that gets out so
1:55:04
I'm gonna go watch this and of course they invite me to
1:55:06
do it and I say no thank you but I'll be right
1:55:08
here with the hot chocolate after
1:55:12
and they all go in they all come out
1:55:14
and they're shivering and they're happy and they're the
1:55:16
friendliest people I've ever met in my life I
1:55:19
said it was like a town full of puppies
1:55:21
yeah they were so sweet to me and then
1:55:23
I go to the health food store and I
1:55:25
see the way these guys live and they're so
1:55:27
generous and so sweet and everyone in this town
1:55:29
is beautiful and I leave for the day hug
1:55:31
them all kiss them all goodbye go
1:55:33
back to my hotel and I
1:55:36
call my brother I go I go good
1:55:38
those and bad news the good
1:55:40
news is I don't usually think this
1:55:42
way until we're in editing but I think I know
1:55:44
how to end this episode and
1:55:47
he says yeah and I said that's a bad news we
1:55:49
have to go back there and I have to jump
1:55:51
in that water with them yeah story structure demands that
1:55:55
if I'm gonna have the show yeah I have
1:55:57
to walk the walk the three rules I have
1:55:59
to do it was it worth it getting middle and end
1:56:01
was it worth the drive yeah beginning I'm
1:56:03
not going that water middle I get entranced
1:56:06
by these people yeah and I jump in
1:56:08
the water I go in the water I
1:56:10
never think this way yeah but
1:56:12
this kicked in and I go
1:56:14
back now it's evening it's
1:56:17
getting dark it's way colder and it's
1:56:19
raining and now I have to jump in and
1:56:22
it's in there yeah and it is painful
1:56:25
yeah cold yeah like I've never had
1:56:27
before like a scream when I went
1:56:30
it Wow that lasted 30 seconds but
1:56:33
you're a candy ass but yeah you're not wrong
1:56:39
no fairly boy I love you
1:56:41
so much I just love the phrase candy ass
1:56:45
please do you know
1:56:47
it melts every time the toto hits it that's
1:56:52
why it's warm that's melt that
1:56:54
candy apple such a candy yeah
1:56:57
no I'm feeling horrible for you
1:57:00
okay but here's the nice thing since
1:57:05
that day every single
1:57:07
time I take a shower every single time
1:57:09
I film this five years ago every single
1:57:11
shower ends with me turning the water to
1:57:14
cold on my head the blast of Ireland
1:57:16
we call it yeah and
1:57:18
it transports me to there to there
1:57:21
and it has all these
1:57:23
wonderful properties like you want to
1:57:25
be transported in another
1:57:27
way I promise you
1:57:30
whatever you're worried about or thinking about goes
1:57:32
away because you're cold yeah that's right for
1:57:35
a second yeah I've built up from 10
1:57:37
seconds to now 30 seconds where I can stand
1:57:39
it nice mostly on my head anyone
1:57:43
can do this yeah and it's supposedly
1:57:45
very good for you in many other
1:57:48
ways yeah people that listen to
1:57:50
the show a lot of laughing because I'm a
1:57:52
huge cold exposure guy you're the cold plunger I'm
1:57:54
a cold plunge II fool that I was doing
1:57:56
it before was hit I know and
1:57:58
I love that story Everybody
1:58:00
is a candy ass when it comes to cold water and that's what
1:58:02
makes it touching. Speaking
1:58:04
of which, you can't do it
1:58:07
everywhere. Speaking of places like Dubai or Saudi Arabia
1:58:09
or wherever it might be. There
1:58:11
are places that people love Wim Hof and they want
1:58:13
to do Wim Hof. The only way they
1:58:15
can do it is by getting ice and
1:58:17
they put it under their shower so the water
1:58:19
runs over the ice. That's the only way they
1:58:21
can get the water even remotely cold enough. Isn't
1:58:24
that crazy? Wow. It's not
1:58:26
crazy. It's interesting. Even the cold water is a
1:58:28
privilege. That's right. I had my
1:58:30
art plumber, I just had a plumber,
1:58:32
not my plumber, but I was like,
1:58:35
can you please make the water colder?
1:58:38
They did it and it's really cool because I was like, I don't want
1:58:40
the pressure to go down but I wanted to be cold and they nailed
1:58:42
it. My water pressure stinks in
1:58:44
my house. Really? Yeah.
1:58:49
That's all. Good night everybody. Yeah, but I feel
1:58:51
like you could fix it. I can't. I've
1:58:53
tried every way. Do you find... This
1:58:56
is an interesting one. By the way, not
1:58:59
the whole house. My shower. Of course. Have
1:59:02
you tried white vinegar and water on the head
1:59:04
in a bag overnight? I've tried new bags, new
1:59:06
heads. I've tried... Really?
1:59:09
Oh, you know that water saver that you're supposed to have?
1:59:11
Take it out. Take it out, I'll
1:59:13
pay you. Yeah, of course. You're under the table. Give
1:59:15
me the extra free. Give me the extra water. Yeah.
1:59:19
Doesn't work. Do you find as a
1:59:21
man whose train came in financially, when
1:59:25
things go wrong, is it tempting to be
1:59:27
like, God damn it, there's some problem. I
1:59:29
was like that before I had money. Yeah,
1:59:31
I know, but now you have... Any time
1:59:33
you're paying for something that you don't get,
1:59:35
it's infuriating. It doesn't matter how much money
1:59:38
you have. Nobody likes the feeling of getting
1:59:40
ripped off. But there's a moment in Funny
1:59:42
People where Adam Sandler's playing the Robin Williams
1:59:44
site. He's basically him. And he
1:59:46
can't solve the TV. He
1:59:49
can't get the TV to think with the
1:59:51
internet and he's furious. Yes. I
1:59:54
think there's a specific echelon
1:59:56
of sadness
1:59:58
and anger. for
2:00:01
the very wealthy when
2:00:03
you're like even a million
2:00:05
dollars won't fix
2:00:08
this. And I actually think it's an echo
2:00:10
of won't save your life. Exactly. Elon Musk,
2:00:12
I don't care how much money you have,
2:00:14
you're in a fucking rotting meat puppet and
2:00:17
I think that makes a lot of them
2:00:19
very mad. Well when you realize that money
2:00:21
doesn't solve the problem. Yeah, I know. I
2:00:23
heard about someone who's having a gigantic
2:00:27
wedding, gigantic everything,
2:00:30
gigantic bridal
2:00:32
shower, gigantic engagement party, I
2:00:35
mean gigantic hundreds of people.
2:00:38
The wedding will be the most expensive wedding of all
2:00:40
time. Of course they're
2:00:42
having all these problems. Yeah.
2:00:44
The bride and groom. Yeah. The
2:00:46
fundamental. Yeah. The content. That's free.
2:00:49
That's right. Yeah. Yeah.
2:00:51
That solves nothing about what's
2:00:54
it about. We got the
2:00:56
poster for the wedding. What
2:00:58
about the people in the wedding? See
2:01:01
that's we really have full-circled right here
2:01:04
at the end is that you know
2:01:06
in your art, in somebody
2:01:08
feeds Phil, in Raymond and everything. The
2:01:10
trick is to get it in your life. But
2:01:12
you've also put it in your life. I don't think,
2:01:15
one of the reasons I'm not a
2:01:17
year-round Tony Robbins fan, meaning
2:01:20
I go through bursts. But
2:01:22
what I like about him is he goes like, what do you
2:01:24
want? What do you want? And
2:01:26
he goes, if you ask yourself what do
2:01:28
you want, you're in the 1% of people.
2:01:31
Nobody's going what do I, or actually he says, what do
2:01:33
I want and why do I want it? That's the 1%.
2:01:36
I want, I've known this from
2:01:38
the beginning. I want this ride to go
2:01:40
on as long as I can because I'm
2:01:42
the luckiest person who ever lived. Yeah. That's
2:01:45
how, that's me. Yeah. That's how
2:01:47
I feel. Look at this thing I came
2:01:50
up with, got to do. I just,
2:01:52
it seemed to work. I
2:01:54
just want to keep doing it. The hardest part
2:01:57
of doing what I do is waiting to do
2:01:59
it. I love that
2:02:01
true. You really are making a run for the
2:02:03
the best life What
2:02:06
else are we here for? Yeah, I? Think
2:02:09
doing what you love with people you
2:02:11
love yeah doing what you love
2:02:13
with people you love is what I wish for
2:02:16
Yeah, everyone listening and for all
2:02:18
my friends and family. That's the
2:02:20
highest we can obtain I agree
2:02:23
And there was a time when I would
2:02:25
struggle that seemed selfish or something and now
2:02:27
I'm like no what you're what you love
2:02:29
is Is the lawful expression of what you're
2:02:31
supposed to do it's back to the lighthouse.
2:02:33
It's the beacon yes And if
2:02:36
you're doing that and they're doing that it
2:02:38
all fills in together Yeah, it's
2:02:40
honest, and it's real and it's not
2:02:43
selfish. It's it's lawful. It's beautiful
2:02:46
It's the sheet music written on your heart You
2:02:48
literally have to take care of yourself before you
2:02:51
can take care of anyone else oxygen man once
2:02:53
you yes So once you have done that yeah,
2:02:55
then you are obligated to help other people yeah,
2:02:57
that's right That's another tow row thing
2:02:59
Tony Robbins It's like when you picture
2:03:01
what you want and why you want it think
2:03:04
about and envision and experience How
2:03:07
it would help other people as well You
2:03:09
start from if you are
2:03:12
lucky enough lucky to get
2:03:14
what you want in life You
2:03:18
must pay it for you have to have I
2:03:20
couldn't live with myself if I didn't yeah try
2:03:24
To put something back into the world that's been
2:03:26
so good to me Yeah, and if you start
2:03:28
with this baseline of gratitude all
2:03:31
that is natural and feels right and and Actually
2:03:35
feeds on itself and actually makes you happy
2:03:37
that's lawful too Yeah, doing what
2:03:39
you want to do what you love doing for
2:03:41
the good it just puts you in that
2:03:44
now you're off to the races because you're thinking about others
2:03:46
and and Serving and I swear
2:03:48
if the goal was I want to make a lot of money
2:03:51
Would never have anything yeah, yeah,
2:03:53
yeah, that's it fools Aaron yeah And
2:03:57
then you go shit. I'm still in a meat puppet Yeah.
2:04:01
Until you're not the new
2:04:04
Tesla body. Help
2:04:07
me, I should not be. As
2:04:11
long as I have the toilet, the total
2:04:13
toilet, yeah, I don't need anything. Okay,
2:04:17
to end as we begin. Yes. I
2:04:24
have a friend who's hesitant to use a
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bidet, and I really want to encourage him
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to use one what is one way I
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could quickly persuade him to try it. You
2:04:37
could tell your friend it's like upgrading from
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a napkin to a shower for your behind. Once
2:04:42
you try it, you'll wonder how you ever lived
2:04:44
without it. It's a
2:04:47
quick and lighthearted way to emphasize
2:04:49
the comfort and cleanliness of bidet
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offers. This is the best thing AI has
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ever done. All
2:05:00
right, we are trying to build the show.
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Phil, I hope you don't mind me doing
2:05:04
this. We're just asking people to review the
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show. I don't know if you
2:05:09
know for your podcast, that's a good thing to
2:05:11
do to encourage your listeners to help the show
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stay in the whatever. What would you like to see
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more of or less of? Well, it's not even that.
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It's just if you like the show, I mean, that's
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ahead. That's the part. Do it. Sorry, I cut you off. No,
2:05:41
do it. This is from KES2323. All
2:05:46
right, Ke. Uh-oh. This one starts, Dear Jew. I'm
2:05:48
not sure this is going to be good. Oh,
2:05:51
no. I want to get the
2:05:53
reference. I
2:05:55
don't want to ask. I don't want to. That was our joke in the
2:05:57
room, in the writer's room on Raymond. that
2:06:00
uh oh we got some fan mail open
2:06:02
it dear jew oh
2:06:05
no i discovered this
2:06:07
podcast during the pandemic and became instantly addicted
2:06:09
to say it has helped transform my life
2:06:11
is an understatement oh thank you so much
2:06:13
i began reading every book that was recommended
2:06:15
and looked up every teacher and have not
2:06:17
been disappointed once not only have i grown
2:06:19
deeply through this experience of learning alongside pete
2:06:21
and val but the podcast brings just the
2:06:23
right amount of playfulness laughter and absurdity into
2:06:26
my life the friday episodes are my absolute
2:06:28
favorite that's with val uh i
2:06:30
think that means so much thing to listen
2:06:32
to and i eagerly open the app every friday morning
2:06:34
just to get my weekly dose of pete and
2:06:36
val the journey and relation their journey and relationship
2:06:38
is a true delight i'm continuously grateful for their
2:06:40
willingness to be vulnerable and share themselves with us
2:06:43
thank you for being a part of my world
2:06:45
thank you ke that is so isn't that sweet
2:06:47
lovely i wish i thank
2:06:49
well katie curated them so i don't have to read the ones
2:06:51
that are like blow hard
2:06:54
so much better than dear jew thank
2:06:58
you ke and thank you philly boy you're
2:07:00
my friend you're my friend we'll
2:07:02
find we'll find ways to be more neighborly
2:07:04
i hope so would you say keep it
2:07:07
crispy it's how we end keep
2:07:09
it crispy it's how we end you
2:07:16
are my friend it made me
2:07:19
sing philly
2:07:22
boy philly boy
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