Antonia and Faye chat about their Covid19 experience in quarantine .. the impact on their businesses, home life, the highs and the lows.

Life has been a huge roller coaster and we hope this find you well. Here is  a little bit of light relief from it all where we chat about our journey over the last 36 years.

Join us for a moment of happiness in a crisis during the Corona Covid19 virus pandemic.

We chat about: Live meditations, fasting, social activities, focusing on what you can control , the rainbow of emotions, is failure ok ? , our new routines, life with teens , new experiences in quarantine

The early days .. routine was important  .. we are not in the same boat

LINKS

• Not doing anything in the lockdown .. you are not alone don't worry read more here
• Meditate with Faye each morning HERE
• KidooLand Online programmes learn English online with our qualified interactive English teachers from anywhere in the world distance learning TEFL EFL kidooland.online
• Russel Brand Gabor Maté interviews
• The science of wellbeing with YALE Free course
• How to fail Elizabeth Day PODCAST
• Hillary Mantel Hilary Mantel
• Lifeskills for teenagers LINK
• Learn a language Duolingo
• Figure 8 or get dancing
• Interior Design Course

WE ARE NOT IN THE SAME BOAT ...

I keep hearing that everyone is in the same boat. But it's really not like that. We are in the same storm yes, but we are not in the same boat.
Your ship can be shipwrecked and mine cannot. Or vice versa.
For some, quarantine is optimal and full of moments of reflection, of re connection and peace. Life is easy in flip flops, with a glass of Coke or or a cup of tea in hand.
For others, this is a desperate crisis. For others it is facing real loneliness. For some it means peace, rest time and a bit of a holiday.
For others, this is torture as they wonder how they are going to pay their bills?
Others were concerned about the bread for the weekend and if the pasta will last for a few more days.
Some were in their "home office" doing all they can to protect the company they work for and still do an honest days work from home.
Others are looking through rubbish bins to survive.
Some want to go back to work because they are running out of money..
Others want to kill those who break the quarantine.
Some need to break the quarantine to stand in a queue at the supermarket. Others just really want to escape.
Others criticize the government for the queue at the shop and for all the uncertainty.
Some have faith in God and are patiently praying and waiting for miracles in 2020.
Others say the worst is yet to come and that's probably our reality.
So, friends, we are not in the same boat.
We are going through a time when our perceptions and needs are completely different.
And each one will emerge, in his/her own way, from that storm.
Some with a tan from their pool. Others with scars on the soul.
It is very important to see beyond what is seen at first glance. Not just looking, more than looking, actually seeing.

See beyond the political party, beyond religion, beyond the nose on your face.
Do not underestimate the pain of others if you do not feel it.

Do not judge the good life of others, do not condemn the bad life of others. Just don't be a judge. Let us not judge the one who lacks, as well as the one who exceeds him.

We are on different ships and all looking to survive. Let everyone navigate their route with respect, empathy and responsibility. Stop the judgement and be kind.

Written by Nicki Peverett