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Gloria Masters

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Triggered by childrenThis is very common for parents who are survivors.When our children (of the same sex as us) turn the age we were when the abuse began, the amount of triggering this results in is almost indescribable. Memories start to floo
Meet John CardamoneHe is a  Survivor, Educator, and Speaker from Victoria in Melbourne.When he was between 6-7 years old he was abused by a family member. When he told his mother, she believed him instantly and from that point on, he was kept s
SurvivorsThe real you was unable to withstand the abuse, so the false self stepped up to help, and is what you used to to cope with the trauma.Through your recovery, you will find that one of the biggest challenges is in both finding  and recla
Welcome to Part 2 of Jeanie Dean's interview.She is an Expert Witness | Safeguarding Safety Risk Expert | Trauma Informed Investigator and specialist interviewer and Trainer | Managing Director at Safeguarding Solutions Australia. The impact of
The real meHow we had to adapt to survive our child sexual abuse and who we became as a result is not necessarily who we 'really' are. Perhaps still lurking within is that 'false' self. You may recognise that, in those situations that are espec
From Melbourne Australia, a warm welcome to Jeanie Dean, who is an Expert Witness | Safeguarding Safety Risk Expert | Trauma Informed Investigator and specialist interviewer and Trainer | Managing Director at Safeguarding Solutions Australia. S
EncouragementYour survivor may feel weary and down at times about their history of child sexual abuse. Though expected and normal, they may need some encouragement at times. An effective way is to come up with 3 things that would help lift and
Luke WiersmaMeet this brave Survivor who runs Leaderboard Meetings for Survivors of child sexual abuse. Luke was abused by an older woman as a teenager, and used drugs and alcohol as a way to cope. Eventually he got fed up with drinking and pas
Self AdvocacyIs one way of having your own back and looking after youThe three components to this are: to understand what your needs are,  to know what might help to support to those needs. and lastly to be able to communicate those needs.Go to
Luke WiersmaMeet this brave Survivor who runs Leaderboard Meetings for Survivors of child sexual abuse. Luke was abused by an older woman when he was a teenager, he was manipulated and controlled and began using drugs as a way to cope. The abus
SurvivorsAs it wasn't safe to use your voice as a child, it can feel very important to you to use it today.Honour that within you, there is a part of you that wants to, No, needs to be heard. This will always be a subliminal desire whether you
Brinn Langdale continued...Therapist. Speaker. Writer Abused by her brother 2 and a half years older than her, from 4 till age 15, Brinn was 18 before the truth finally came out. Her mother chose to support her brother over her, partly due to h
Leading a double lifeAs children who were being abused,  we still had to go to school, play sport and carry on as though everything was fine. No one could know what was going on, so in essence we were leading a secret or double life. As adults
Meet Brinn LangdaleTherapist. Speaker. Writer Abused by her brother 2 and a half years older than her, she had thought they were best friends. The abuse began when she was 4 years old and continued till she was 15.The disclosure at age 18,  was
Holding the SpaceThis is about you.When supporting survivors we can end up depleted or overwhelmed or even fed up.That's okay, and to be expected. Allow yourself to have some space for you, a bit of time away or some self care. EG, Playing foot
Meet Neil Milton - Part 2GM of Child Safe Australia, and founder of the Table Talk Project.Neil was abused by an older child at his school, which carried on from 10 to 13 years of age. He never felt he had a voice growing up, and eventually rea
I am enoughWe struggle with this, because what was taken from us among other things was: pride, self-love and feelings of self worth. What arose instead was a feeling of deep lack, as in 'I am not enough'. But please note: You were always enoug
Meet Neil Milton - Part 1GM of Child Safe Australia, and founder of the Table Talk Project.Neil was abused by an older child at his school, which carried on from 10 to 13 years of age. When it first began, he told his mother what was happening,
Dilworth ExposéMeet Neil harding who is leading the class action against Dilworth school for the deliberate and planned sexual abuse of boys in their care. Self described as father, grandfather, Dilworth survivor, Chiropractor, crusader for jus
SurvivorsIf for any reason you carry guilt about what happened to you, you are not alone, we were all conditioned to feel this. Whichever way you were groomed into thinking it was your fault, was done with one goal in mind, to have you carry th
Tess Gonzales - Part 2Christian. Survivor. Advocate.Tess suffered  incest at the hands of her mother, who drugged her. She was eventually abused by her brother as well. Throughout her childhood, she felt unable to fit in. She was close to her g
For survivors everywhere, we can sometimes we feel we don't fit in with others, in part because our experience was very different to theirs, and trying to explain it is challenging.This was also true of us as children, and is to be expected. If
Meet Tess Gonzales - Part 1Christian. Survivor. Advocate.Tess not only suffered prolonged Incest by mother but was drugged throughout as well. Her brother, 41/2 years older than her, was also abused by her mother. Unfortunately he then chose to
Its' not their faultThe survivor in your life, may still feel its their fault, that somehow they caused the abuse to occur.Although to you , it may seem unusual they feel that, please understand: as children they were conditioned to believe the
Meet Scott Beard at NZ PoliceHe is a Detective Inspector with the New Zealand Police, leading several teams including: the child protection team, the child exploitation team, the child sex offender management team and the adult sexual assault t
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