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talk about the secret chapter I wrote,
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You can get all the
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details at happiercast.com/bookevents. That's one
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word. Hello,
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Today, we're revisiting an episode with
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one of our favorite interviews from
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the Happier with Gretchen Rubin podcast.
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In our very first year of the
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show, we talked to the terrific Drew
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Barrymore about her best-selling book Wildflower, Personal
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Symbols, and her fantastic Try
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This at Home to help deepen connections
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with children. We talked to
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Drew in December of that year, so
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this episode also covers end of
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your rituals, procrastinating with holiday decorations,
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and the joy of temporary tattoos.
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We hope you enjoy the episode. Thanks
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for watching! Hello
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and welcome to Happier, a podcast where
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we talk about how to build happier
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habits into your everyday life. This
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week we'll talk about having an end of the year ritual
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and drum roll we will have an interview
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with Drew Barrymore.
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I'm Gretchen Rubens, writer studying happiness and
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good habits in human nature. I'm in New
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York City and with me is my sister
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the sage, Elizabeth Kraft. That's
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me Elizabeth Kraft, a TV writer and
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producer living in LA and Gretchen I
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am beyond excited to talk to Drew.
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Yes. So I am beyond excited that
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your paperback book came out. Better
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than before is out in paperback.
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How does it feel? It's great.
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It's really exciting for a writer to walk into
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a bookstore and see the book in the wild.
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So no, it's very exciting to have it out in
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paperback. And I think the cover looks
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great. Oh thanks. Thanks. I
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mean the other exciting news is that our live event
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is coming up January 21st in San Francisco.
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Tickets are selling. Visit slate.com/happier
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if you can make it. We'd
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love to see you in San Francisco. Tickets
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are selling fast so come buy your ticket.
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So Elizabeth this week our try this at home
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tip is to have an end of the year
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ritual. And it's a little funny that
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we're picking this because actually neither one of us has
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a good end of the year ritual. I
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know but we heard about it and it sounds
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like a good idea. Yeah, now one of the
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ones I heard I wouldn't
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argue myself. I have to say as an under buyer
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I find this kind of shocking but I heard
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about a woman who to mark
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the new year takes everything out
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of her refrigerator. She throws away
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everything. The mustard, the pickles. She
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goes all the way to bear shelves. And I would
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never do that myself but I have to admit it
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sounds kind of exhilarating
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too. It does, and I mean
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there are things in our fridge that are definitely
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two years past expiration date. I mean I'll look
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at some marmalade thing and I'm like wait, 2012?
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I think I wanna have an end of the
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original. What would it be? I don't know. I
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wanna, maybe I'll do like a house cleaning where
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I just go through every room and put every
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single thing where it's supposed to be. I work
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on this all the time, but somehow it never
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gets done. But that's, I don't know, I would
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love to hear from listeners if people have kind
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of more interesting or exciting
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or thought provoking end of your rituals
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than just kind of clutter clearing, as
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enticing as that sounds. Yeah, you know
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I was thinking, I would love to
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do like a photo book as an
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end of your rituals. So you just
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get those photos off the computer and
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into some kind of book. But
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I know that I will never do that, but
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I was thinking I might be able to get
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Adam to do it. So that's my secret plan.
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That's a great plan. We'll see. So
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that's kind of scrapbook, photo book, memento of
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the year. That is a great idea, but you're right. It's
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probably a fair amount of work. One
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thing I do is I go through and write
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all the birthdays in my calendar for the year, because I still use
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a paper calendar. I still use a file effect. So that's a little
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thing that I do. That's a ritual for
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sure. It's important too, because otherwise I will
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forget a birthday if
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it's not written in my calendar. So
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let us know if you have an interesting, try
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this at home suggestion for an
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end of the year ritual, because we're
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on the hunt for a good ritual.
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Let us know, Twitter, Facebook, email
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at podcast at gretchenruehmann.com, or
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you can go to happiercast.com/44, which
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is the entry for this episode. So let us know.
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And now our interview with Drew Barrymore,
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who is joining us in the studio
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in New York City. So exciting. Now
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it's hard to sum up everything that Drew
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Barrymore has done and is doing. She
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got her first professional job at 11 months. She's
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been a star since age six when she
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was Gritty in E.T. And
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she started movies like the... wedding singer ever
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after, 51st Dates,
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which by the way is a movie Jamie loves, Charlize
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Angels. She's a co-founder of Flower Films,
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a production company. And Gretch, I have
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to mention she directed Whip It, which
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is a movie you and I both
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love. Then, you know,
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like being a major Hollywood figure
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wasn't enough to keep her busy.
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She also started Flower Beauty, a
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cosmetics line, and Flower Wines. And
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she just published her second
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book, which is excellent, Wildflower.
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Hello, it's nice to
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meet you. I'm Julia Goulia.
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It's nice to meet you. I'm Mrs. Julia.
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Ready? Yeah, excellent. Okay, hello
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Drew Barrymore. Welcome to Happier. We
6:49
are so happy to have you
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join us here in New York.
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I can't believe I'm with B.
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Gretchen. I'm tripping out right now
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because I can't tell
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you how much I love
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your book for my best friend's bachelorette
7:06
weekend. Everyone was to contribute something in
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the bags and I put the happiness
7:10
journal in there for all the girls.
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And I have a story
7:15
for you, which is that you and
7:18
my in-laws, who I'm very
7:20
close with, belong to
7:22
the same establishment. And
7:24
every time I've gone there, I ask
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my sister, who is a sister-in-law,
7:29
but we've just dropped the in-laws,
7:31
Jill, who's also a writer, like
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Elizabeth. And I've
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gone on like several stalking missions
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trying to find you because
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I wanted to meet you so
7:42
badly. And then this one particular
7:44
week I was doing a hashtag on
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my Instagram called Amazing
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Women Week. And I
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wanted to find you and get a picture
7:53
of you so badly. And it was on
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Halloween and I was asking everyone if you
7:57
were there and I probably seemed a little
7:59
creepy. because I've been stalking you
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at this place for a long time.
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So I'm very happy to get to
8:06
meet you finally. Oh, that's so great.
8:08
And Elizabeth. And I feel like I
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know you guys from the world that
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you've created and put out there and
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been so giving with and ingratiating. Oh,
8:17
well, thank you so much. That's so
8:19
nice. Oh. Yeah. And
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I know Jill, Drew, and I have to say shout out
8:24
to Odd Mom Out. Oh. I think
8:26
about Jill Kargbeth, great show. Yes. I
8:29
love her so much. I hit, I call it in
8:31
the book, The In-Law Jackpot. Yeah. And
8:33
she's the same. It's like sister-in-law jackpot. Ding, ding,
8:35
ding, ding, ding. Well, that was one of the
8:38
things that struck me about your book and about me
8:40
and Elizabeth is we all have really great
8:42
relationships with our in-laws. And talk about a
8:44
happiness booster. That makes
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a big difference. It's
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really glue. Yeah. It
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binds you in a different way
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when nothing has bound
8:55
me more than children. Any
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relationship I've ever had. And
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I thought that I couldn't be bound more
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than like what I've had with my friends
9:06
because they were my chosen family and I
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didn't have that family family. And
9:11
I just have such a bond and
9:13
such loyalty, such fierce, lion-like
9:15
loyalty with my friends. In fact, the book is
9:18
a lot of a love letter to a lot
9:20
of them. And
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I just was telling Jill, my editor who's
9:24
here, we were texting last night and I
9:26
said, I wish I had
9:28
had my children sooner because I want
9:31
more time with them. But I wouldn't have been
9:33
ready and I wouldn't have been at the right
9:35
place. But I now know
9:37
what love is. So
9:39
this whole sort of new chapter of
9:42
blood family in-laws, like
9:44
this new glue, it's
9:47
extraordinary. And it's like
9:49
nothing I've ever known.
9:53
It's amazing. Well, it seems
9:55
like one of the things that you talk about
9:57
in your book is that you... in
10:00
many ways figured out what you wanted
10:02
for a happy life by
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doing the opposite of what your
10:07
own experience was, which is a
10:09
very profound way to
10:11
think about what you want from a happy life. But
10:13
it's not a very pleasant way. Like I remember you
10:16
have this hilarious description in your book of
10:18
the kind of lunch box hunger
10:20
games at your school and how
10:23
your mom didn't pack you a lunch. Yeah. And
10:25
so you were kind of out there in the
10:28
wild and how sort of
10:30
traumatic it was and how even reverberates into
10:32
your kind of feelings. Now, I
10:35
am a seagull. Yeah. I am
10:37
an angry semi
10:39
like homeless seagull that
10:42
like really does have
10:44
a desperate look in my
10:46
eyes. Yeah. So how have
10:49
you thought about sort
10:51
of thinking about, okay, this is
10:53
what I didn't have. This is what I'm going to provide.
10:55
This is what I'm going to build in. This is what
10:57
I'm going to cement in for myself. Well, one of the
10:59
things in my homework that you gave me, so for
11:02
the tip aspect, which I'll answer when
11:04
you asked me, but it
11:06
has some connection to you talk
11:08
about picture frames so much in
11:10
your book. And I remember
11:13
when I was a kid that like,
11:15
I swear to God, I was so
11:17
bewildered by families that had picture frames.
11:20
And it was, and then it's like
11:22
when I saw the pictures hanging on the
11:24
wall of my husband's apartment,
11:28
you know, with his family and like
11:30
this whole life lived this, you know,
11:33
long drawn out generations of a
11:35
family. And it's like what hit
11:37
my intimidation button right back to
11:39
that sort of like weird
11:41
childhood. But the other side of
11:44
that childhood feeling was it
11:47
was intimidation because I just didn't have the picture
11:49
frames. Like I never had dinner with my mom
11:51
and my dad, let alone a picture of the
11:53
three of us. And I
11:56
always longed for it. Like I aspired,
11:59
it gave me a very positive feeling
12:01
too. I wasn't like, I don't know
12:03
what that's like and that just hurts
12:05
my feelings and why didn't I have
12:07
that. What's wrong with my life? I
12:09
really felt the opposite. I was like,
12:12
that looks beautiful. One day maybe when
12:15
I create my own family, I will do
12:17
that. It was
12:19
a really glowing, warm,
12:21
impressionable, imprintable feeling that I
12:24
had. It never made me
12:26
feel angry or bad. It
12:28
always made me feel like
12:30
that's a great way to
12:33
live. The way that you
12:35
talked about it in your book, which I
12:37
hadn't thought about and I
12:39
just think is the other side of
12:41
that coin of such incredible insight and
12:43
positivity is it just
12:45
is the constant reminders of the
12:48
memories and to
12:50
keep convincing
12:52
yourself when you
12:54
get distracted and lost and away
12:56
from the connective tissue of these
12:59
moments lived that are so grounding.
13:01
I just loved
13:03
that so much. It was like finding
13:05
another puzzle piece to something that has
13:08
been so impressionable to
13:10
me, picture frames of families in their
13:12
home. It's a big deal to me
13:14
and I just loved that your book
13:16
talked about that so much. Throughout the
13:18
book, it was woven through it. I
13:20
knew it was a thing for you. Drew,
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I'm curious. Now that you have this great family
13:25
and you have all these things in place, are
13:27
there times where you still feel lost like, oh,
13:31
I didn't have this in my childhood. I don't know
13:33
how to proceed. Sometimes
13:36
I have that feeling and
13:38
it's usually when I'm questioning
13:40
myself or I feel like
13:42
I'm being questioned. That
13:46
can throw me into like, oh, God,
13:48
I just have no blueprint here.
13:50
It's really hard. I try
13:52
to remind myself that a
13:54
lot of parents feel that
13:56
way. There is no manual
13:59
and I was
14:02
very intimidated at
14:04
first when my baby, first
14:06
baby, was first born at
14:08
everyone talking about these instincts,
14:10
these profound
14:13
instincts that
14:15
every mother gets. And I
14:17
was like, it's not happening.
14:19
Or how do you get
14:21
them? And
14:23
if someone is telling
14:25
you how to do something which you feel like
14:28
is vital life saving information and you're like, is
14:30
that going to create an instinct? That just sounds
14:32
like I'm doing what I'm supposed to be doing.
14:35
And when will they kick in? And I was
14:37
so anxious for them to
14:39
kick in. And I was like, is
14:41
it going to be an overarching instinct,
14:43
like a rainbow that comes across on
14:46
me? Or is it going to be
14:48
like skittles on the floor? And like,
14:50
there'll be little instincts all over the
14:52
place about tiny details. That
14:55
was the thing that I felt
14:58
was like, is that going to
15:00
be a nature nurture? Am I
15:02
going to get them later because
15:04
I didn't have a
15:06
mom or a dad to pull
15:08
from in a memory sense? And
15:11
is my instincts going to take a while
15:13
longer because I'm really starting from ground zero?
15:16
Or is it
15:19
something that just takes a while
15:21
for every woman, like this
15:23
sort of mellifluous, ongoing,
15:27
very fluid process? And
15:32
I think it's a little bit
15:34
of both. I've discovered it is
15:36
something that comes upon you like
15:38
a slow wave, a nice large
15:40
blanket that
15:44
sort of wafts upon you. And then you
15:46
have those light bulbs, shocking
15:49
electric epiphanies here and there
15:51
where you go, wait, no,
15:53
no, I know what I'm supposed to do here.
15:56
And some is like, I'm feeling better. I'm
15:58
feeling like I can handle this. more
16:00
and it's a bit of
16:02
a dance that's
16:05
very elegant and waltz-like and then all of
16:07
a sudden it's like crazy
16:09
disco you know and
16:12
like electric another
16:14
minute and
16:17
it's nice when you do start
16:19
to connect with your instincts because
16:21
everybody tells you you're supposed to
16:24
have them and until you really
16:26
feel like you do and and then
16:28
they're ever-changing as your kid grows up
16:30
it's first it's survival and then it's
16:32
behavioral and it's constantly keeping
16:35
you on your toes kids just keep
16:37
you on your toes every second one
16:39
thing that worked an hour ago isn't
16:41
gonna work in the next hour it's
16:43
so wild that's that's true but yeah
16:46
I thought was something that I was very
16:51
aware of and and and
16:53
intimidated by and then appreciative
16:55
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And we're back. Now, once I'm
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obsessed with the issue of habits and
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happiness, are there any habits that you
19:32
follow that you feel like consistently help
19:34
keep you happier, healthier,
19:37
more productive, more grounded? I mean, you do such
19:39
a gigantic, you have so many balls in the
19:41
air at all times. Are there habits
19:43
that you do that help you just keep
19:46
up with all that? I
19:48
think the fundamental is remembering how lucky
19:50
I am. And
19:53
I can get really caught up
19:55
in the BS or... frustrated
20:00
with how exhausted I am
20:02
or feel like, you
20:05
know, correspondence just never
20:08
– I mean, I'm convinced correspondence
20:10
in the tech world is an
20:12
avalanche. Like you push
20:14
them away with your little fingertips and you
20:17
like – your eyes peek out and then
20:19
someone kicks another email into you and you're
20:21
like, there goes my eyes again. God,
20:24
I will never get out of this
20:26
avalanche. We have to ban
20:28
reply all the time. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Too
20:31
much. And it makes me feel
20:33
like a constant failure because when I'm
20:35
not on top of
20:38
things or ahead of things and
20:41
it's like even when I clean it
20:43
all up, it just gets – the
20:45
snow gets just all kicked all over
20:47
me again. And I'm like, oh, and
20:49
then I have to remember, okay, like
20:52
think about how lucky you are. Think
20:54
about how good life is. Think about
20:57
what you have. Is this correspondence a
20:59
number one important in your life? No,
21:01
it's like number seven at best. So
21:04
why is number seven making you feel
21:06
like you failed on every level? You
21:09
know, even last night I was in my
21:12
bed and I was like, I can't believe
21:14
I get to sleep in a bed. I
21:16
can't believe how lucky I am. I
21:19
am blessed. And it was – you
21:21
know, and then I was like, you really
21:23
should think about that more often like every night
21:25
how lucky you are. And I was like, oh
21:27
my God, I'm beating myself up because I don't
21:29
feel grateful enough for my gratitude. Oh my God.
21:33
I mean, I really – when
21:35
I saw the guy in the Da Vinci
21:37
code just cat an eye and tailing himself
21:40
in the back repeatedly with like long strands
21:42
of leather and metal
21:44
spikes, I was like, yeah, I love him. I get
21:46
him. That's like me at like
21:48
throughout the day. And I'm the
21:51
kind of person that like, you know, will
21:53
dare make a joke and if it doesn't land
21:55
I'm like, oh, I'm such an idiot. Like why
21:57
did I make that joke? Like that felt so
21:59
funny. flat and created an awkward moment.
22:01
You are such a loser." And
22:04
then I'm like, why am I? It's
22:06
a joke. That person's probably, if
22:08
they think I'm a loser, they're
22:10
probably onto the next thing about
22:12
themselves or other things. But
22:14
then I don't think that way. I'm
22:16
very... Okay. Happiness,
22:19
to me, is when everyone else is
22:21
happy. And
22:24
I feel like, and this goes back
22:26
to the correspondence, so it'll come full
22:29
circle and hopefully make some sense is,
22:31
when I clean the inbox, I feel
22:33
like everybody's been gotten back to, so
22:35
they feel addressed and content. That
22:37
makes me feel good. It's the
22:40
anxiety that they don't feel that,
22:42
that actually is the root of
22:44
the problem. It's not my failure.
22:46
It's that other people feel content.
22:48
When my kids are happy, when they're healthy,
22:51
that's a number one. So if emails are
22:53
number seven, the kids are number one. Okay, great. Now
22:56
I've got the priorities. When people are happy,
22:58
I am happy. But here must be a
23:00
special challenge for you because the fact is
23:02
you are this huge famous person
23:04
who everybody recognizes. And
23:06
so an average person would walk into a room and
23:08
there's a few people who would recognize them and maybe
23:10
have these expectations or want to have a
23:12
nice interaction with them. But
23:15
for you, it's like that level of
23:17
people who want to have a positive
23:19
interaction with you must just be sort
23:22
of unfathomable to the average person who
23:24
just knows who they know. And so
23:26
do you feel just depleted by that?
23:29
It adds another avalanche sometimes. However,
23:32
I think it has confounded
23:35
the notion that
23:37
we and the realization
23:39
that we are all energy like
23:41
people. And if I was
23:43
to have a negative exchange with someone, not
23:47
only will it make me
23:49
feel bad, but that person will carry
23:51
that negativity away from them with them.
23:53
And I just can't handle that. I
23:55
don't like that. And I don't think
23:57
it's necessary. And it is
23:59
exhausting. sometimes, sure, and you know, God, if
24:01
I'm having a fight with my husband or
24:04
something and someone comes up and they're like,
24:06
can I get a picture? And you're like,
24:08
I wish I felt comfortable enough to tell
24:10
you why I'm irritated right now. It
24:12
has nothing to do with you. I'm having a moment with, in
24:15
my personal life, can you please just
24:18
give me a, you know, mulligan here?
24:21
But you can't, you can't say that. So you
24:23
kind of just grit your teeth and get through
24:25
the moment and you're like, it's fine.
24:27
Like just take it, good, bye, done. You'll go
24:29
off and carry on with your universe and I'll
24:31
get back to mine and it'll all be fine.
24:34
But I also am lucky in that I
24:36
grew up with it. So it's very normal
24:38
to me. It's a little bit of that.
24:40
This is your destiny. And
24:43
it comes with a lot of gratitude
24:45
of you are just
24:47
no different than anyone else. That's
24:49
just a weird part of your
24:52
quilt. It's a weird
24:54
patch in your quilt and
24:56
you honor it and you say thank you
24:58
for it and you move on. And
25:01
it never goes in the pocket of my ego
25:04
and I know what's real and I know
25:06
what's important and it's been a really good
25:09
discipline for me in my life not
25:11
to get caught up in the BS
25:13
and to continue to make sure that
25:15
you know your behavior really does
25:17
affect other people. You
25:20
have an opportunity to send that
25:22
person away feeling good or bad.
25:25
Which do you choose? And
25:27
you know Drew, as you sort of
25:29
got to this place throughout this journey
25:31
to become who you are now and
25:33
have these insights, reading Wildflower, it seemed
25:36
like a pretty significant moment
25:38
in that process was when you
25:40
were building that fire. Yes. And
25:43
that word bound trip you took with
25:45
Cameron Diaz and Lucy Liu to promote
25:47
Charlie's Angel. Do
25:49
you want to set that up a little and maybe read?
25:52
Sure. Shall I read that passage you
25:54
mark? So you're struggling to make the
25:56
fire right? Yes. So
25:59
they... in the survival world they're
26:01
teaching you how to like eat leaves off
26:03
trees that are you know going to create
26:05
saliva in your mouth and of course I'm
26:08
like I'd rather die out
26:10
here and the other girls Cameron and
26:12
Lucy were just like teachers pets they
26:14
were loving every second of
26:16
it and I was outcast because I was
26:19
in such a just I was I was
26:21
losing it I lost it I didn't I
26:23
wasn't losing I lost it
26:25
completely and everything
26:27
had a survival aspect how you
26:29
learn to sleep outside at night and
26:31
use leaves as a blanket etc so
26:34
here was the moment we were learning to make
26:36
fire and it goes
26:38
something like this I'm reading from the
26:41
book but I
26:43
was thrilled and I could never have appreciated
26:45
it in the same way if I hadn't
26:47
been through what I had been through simple
26:49
as that everything has to
26:51
get taken away it has in
26:54
my life too everything went away when
26:56
I was 13 and I lost
26:58
my job my credibility and my
27:00
freedom and I had to rebuild
27:03
everything but like
27:05
with the fire I didn't give up I
27:08
may not have done it with grace but
27:11
I fought my way into something
27:13
better and more enlightened I
27:16
will have many more rounds to go in
27:18
life but this was a big one my
27:21
lesson here was that you do not
27:23
give up you hold
27:25
yourself accountable you stay
27:27
grateful and you hold on tight
27:30
to your friends that's
27:32
so beautiful and then a couple pages later
27:34
you say I'd grown up a little bit more
27:36
right at the point when I needed to and
27:38
I think that's the thing for a lot of us is like
27:41
now is when I need to step it up and
27:43
I can and like that that's such a beautiful moment
27:45
you know and another thing that really struck both Elizabeth
27:48
and me we were talking about this
27:50
this idea of personal symbols because
27:53
we we talked about personal symbols
27:55
ourselves my personal symbol is
27:57
the bluebird of course yeah and you
27:59
have flower symbol. You get
28:01
to write in like page two
28:03
of the book when you talk
28:06
about the bougainvillea that grew in
28:08
your West Hollywood apartment. It was
28:10
so effective and impressionable. Yeah. Well,
28:13
you created such a picture of like this sort
28:15
of gritty, urban, concrete
28:17
landscape and then this beautiful
28:19
wall of gorgeous flowers.
28:22
Yes. With the most incredible
28:24
color of vibrant
28:27
maroon fuchsia, purple,
28:29
red you've ever seen. And
28:32
then I just thought, you know what? Let's
28:34
just, everybody's a different flower, but some people
28:37
are a cabbage rose, some people are a
28:39
dandelion, some people, you know, are a sunflower.
28:41
Well, my spiritual master is St. Therese and
28:43
she says she's one of the little wild
28:46
flowers of the forest. Yeah.
28:48
Not a lily or a rose, but a
28:50
little wildflower. Yeah. Everybody's different. So I thought
28:52
in a what flower are you kind of
28:54
way? Maybe this is good because flower films
28:56
seems more like a garden. And
28:59
I loved Candide
29:02
and the end line
29:04
of Cultivate Your Garden. I thought this
29:06
is more ingratiating. This
29:09
is more encompassing. And you know,
29:11
I have a chapter called All
29:13
Ages Party in the book. I
29:16
love your happiness project because I feel
29:18
like you had a personal
29:21
notion. But what you did is you
29:23
cast a very wide net for
29:25
everyone to jump into. And and I
29:28
always wanted to do that with movies and
29:30
storytelling was some little aspiration
29:32
I had in my heart or Nan had in
29:35
her heart, we would build so that
29:37
really it's at the end of the day, it
29:40
isn't for you, it's for everyone else. But
29:42
it comes from you. And if it's personal, it'll
29:45
it'll be more meaningful and it'll be more human.
29:47
But I like when things are
29:50
about other people. And I feel like that's
29:52
what you did with your book. And and
29:54
and that's why I thought, Oh, flower films
29:56
is better than Daisy because it's the whole
29:58
garden. It's everybody I like. things that
30:01
are for everybody. Well and
30:03
I have to note you're wearing a floured shirt right now.
30:06
I know. It's covered with flowers which I love. I have.
30:09
And also flower is a noun and a verb which
30:11
I hadn't thought about that until you're talking about
30:13
you are allowing things to flower.
30:15
Oh I love that. Many flowers. Yeah
30:18
yeah yeah. Flower films, flower wine, flower.
30:20
I mean it's in wildflowers such a
30:22
great title. Oh my gosh. Thank you.
30:24
I give credit to Jill again my
30:26
editor who I worked so closely with
30:28
and perfect and I'm not posing myself
30:31
as some ornate fancy flower because I'm
30:33
not. I'm a funny
30:35
little wildflower you
30:37
know. Perfect. It's perfect. I'm free. You
30:39
can grab me off the side
30:41
of the road. You say dandelions are one of
30:44
your favorite flowers. I
30:46
love dandelions. I see those commercials of
30:49
spray, the hills and I think why? You
30:52
know I am in the first line
30:54
of defense of flowers and dandelions you
30:56
know. Yes. Don't and make them
30:59
the pawns all you want but like
31:01
I love them. How dare you. Now
31:03
one of the things we talk about
31:06
a lot is the tendencies and so you took
31:08
the quiz, the online quiz, to see your tendency.
31:10
So what do you think your tendency is? I was
31:13
trying to figure that out as I was reading
31:15
the book. Well according to your test I'm
31:17
gonna obliger. Elizabeth that's what
31:19
I said. You did? I
31:21
did. And what are you and
31:23
Elizabeth? I'm an upholder. Okay. I'm
31:25
an obliger. I just thought you
31:27
might be a rebel because
31:31
you know some of the things in your book and
31:33
there is sort of a rebel obliger affinity.
31:36
Yeah affinity that happens. It's hard because
31:38
and I was talking about this with
31:40
Jill and she said well you know
31:43
ask them about this is that
31:46
the test was was I'm sure it's
31:48
tricky for everyone because nobody's all one
31:51
thing but I
31:53
really get things done when it's for
31:56
other people. Yeah. Like I just I'm
31:58
a faciller. I've made that clear. I'm
32:00
happy when people are, they've,
32:04
neon always said you keep your promises
32:06
in life and in this world as
32:09
she's sprinkled so many brilliant seeds in wisdom.
32:11
She sounded like an upholder to me. She,
32:14
I mean, to me, she's everything.
32:19
Because it's funny, for someone who's
32:21
like that wise and that together,
32:23
I find those people aren't
32:26
always the funnest also. Elizabeth,
32:28
what do you think about that? Yeah,
32:30
I always get on Gretchen about
32:32
being a bit of a killjoy. Oh, really?
32:36
Yes. In a living way. Yeah.
32:38
There can be kind of an element of. Is
32:41
that from like cynicism? Is that
32:43
from like worry
32:45
or fear? Is that just from?
32:48
It's from marching through the to-do list. It's like,
32:50
we don't have time for this because we've got
32:52
five things we need to get done. So we're
32:54
gonna just, and that feeling can
32:56
get in the way. Whereas obligers
32:58
tend to be more like, hey, I don't know,
33:01
there is an element I think of. I mean,
33:03
Elizabeth, it's plenty more fun than I am, anybody
33:05
would say. Well, I think you're
33:07
a lot of fun. There are moments, there
33:09
are just moments. But it also seemed to me
33:11
like, you seemed like an obliger in a way
33:13
where obligers often really do
33:17
best when there's a lot of external accountability. And
33:19
you seem to me to be describing yourself as
33:21
a child who longs for
33:23
structure and wanted
33:25
to have people who, and you sought
33:27
out these mentors and these guides who
33:29
could help you provide structure. So
33:32
you went about it in a very systematic way,
33:34
even from a very young age, because there was
33:36
nobody close to you in your life who was
33:38
providing that structure for you. And since it's hard
33:40
for obligers to create it for themselves, you
33:43
were kind of lost and searching. And it seems
33:45
like a lot of what you've done is to
33:47
figure out ways to create sort of the scaffolding,
33:51
to create the life that then you're meeting the
33:53
expectations of others, which are really the expectations
33:55
that you have for yourself. And
33:57
that's kind of the central obliger. struggle
34:00
it's I'm very accountable when it comes
34:03
to others, but like I you
34:06
know, I I just really fall
34:08
off the wagon and Consistency
34:10
is my biggest issue when it
34:12
comes to myself. Yeah, like
34:15
health diet exercise Yeah,
34:17
you know Anything in that
34:20
sort of take care of oneself It's
34:23
it's the first thing to fall off
34:25
the table, but I everything with work
34:28
gets done I'm like how am I
34:30
like? How do I
34:32
have cellulite going from the back of my knee
34:34
up to my shoulders and yet everything on the
34:37
work list was checked off? But like somehow
34:39
like I literally haven't gotten to the
34:41
gym in three weeks Like this is
34:43
unacceptable and then I will go whole
34:45
hog. I'll be there, you know
34:48
Five days a week for three months
34:50
and then the next three months. I
34:53
like will barely You
34:55
know wiggle a toe. It's a consistency
34:58
is a giant issue for me and
35:00
my life personally Professionally
35:04
obligation wise to others to my
35:07
family to what it's like it's
35:09
it's infallible Yeah, and it just
35:11
shocks me and you know, maybe
35:14
listen I saw like this I
35:16
got in trouble a lot because I was
35:18
trying to say like you can't have it
35:20
all and I Think women
35:22
felt like what do you mean? Like that's
35:24
not acceptable and I'm like, no no no
35:26
no like it's Then I'm not
35:28
saying it right because I Pippi
35:30
Longstocking in my spirit There
35:34
is no glass ceiling for women in my
35:36
perspective. I can't even see one and they
35:38
just don't exist and we've already
35:41
punched through them and Everyone
35:43
like has all the opportunities that maybe
35:45
you have to create them for yourselves
35:47
They don't fall into your lap, but
35:50
everyone can do anything. So Mason
35:52
found me this quote Yesterday
35:55
that I really loved and I
35:57
just wanted to share it which is that you
36:00
You can do anything, but you
36:02
can't do everything. And
36:04
it's like that's what I
36:06
try to sort of
36:09
live by is that the
36:11
possibilities are endless. There is
36:13
no end to them, but
36:16
everything all at once isn't
36:18
like quantum physics possible. And
36:21
I don't know how it is for
36:23
men, but I mean as
36:25
mothers and jugglers, I can
36:28
be really hard on myself about
36:31
how much I'm pulling off and able to
36:34
accomplish. So I guess in
36:36
some ways I'm the first thing I do
36:38
throw off the list just so that I
36:40
meet the criteria of everything and everyone else.
36:43
And then I wonder why
36:45
I can't fit into my jeans. I'm
36:47
like, oh, because you ate spaghetti bolognese
36:49
to an episode of The Good Wife
36:51
last night and didn't get to the
36:53
gym. I think a lot of moms
36:56
relate to that exact same thing. I
36:58
shared the whole, haven't gone to the gym in
37:00
three weeks thing. And it sort
37:02
of made me think there's this thing you write in
37:04
the book. Just let me read this and then we
37:07
can talk about it. You say, now
37:09
I'm just me and nobody wants to watch
37:11
a woman strive to be a normal mother
37:13
of two. Or maybe they do.
37:16
Is there enough drama in that? Well, there
37:18
is, but it might not be cinematic. This
37:22
whole notion of now being a mother
37:24
and the drama in that is, of
37:26
course, enormous for all of us who
37:28
are mothers. But how you
37:30
think it's affected where you are
37:33
in your career is interesting
37:35
to me and interesting to me that it
37:37
feels like it makes me see why you
37:39
like the Happiness Project because Gretchen's work is
37:41
all about sort of
37:44
the everyday. And
37:46
it's about being present. And
37:48
then it's the everyday challenge of
37:50
how do I balance waking
37:53
up with the kids. Now
37:55
I'm running companies so that I can be the kind
37:57
of mom I want to be and still, because I
38:00
want to show my kids that work
38:02
is fun and work ethic is important.
38:04
They'll be interning very early on in
38:06
life and earning summer money and learning
38:08
to do laundry. All the things
38:10
that I was forced to do really
38:12
set me on a good path. It
38:17
was funny when people would look at me
38:20
when I was younger and be like, oh,
38:22
God, your life was crazy. I'm like, no,
38:24
actually, there were a lot of things that
38:26
kicked my butt in the right direction, actually,
38:28
maybe not in the right way, but the
38:30
end result was really good. It was a
38:33
lot of self-discipline and figuring out
38:35
how to do things for yourself and coming
38:37
up with philosophies of why it's so important
38:39
to follow through or show up or keep
38:42
your promises as Nancy
38:44
eloquently put. I
38:48
loved reading your book because I just related to
38:50
it so much like I'm out of wipes. How
38:52
did I let that? How did that happen? That's
38:55
the most important thing in the world.
38:58
I'm wedding a paper towel and
39:01
MacGyvering this moment. Yes, I'm beating myself
39:03
up and then I suck and all
39:05
this stuff, but it's so
39:08
relatable. Oh, my
39:10
God, I didn't bring a fourth bottle, so
39:13
I'm running to a store to get milk. How
39:18
do I keep myself happy? How do
39:20
I organize my life? How
39:22
do I make everything conducive as a parent? How
39:24
do I organize my day so
39:26
that I'm going with the
39:28
kids to all the things I need to with
39:30
them to get to the meetings I need to
39:32
get to, maybe squeeze something in that's personally
39:35
satisfying or healthy to do for
39:37
myself. Do you have
39:39
a try this at home that you would suggest
39:42
for other people? The only thing I have which
39:44
goes back to your picture frame things is that
39:46
I write in the journal to my daughters every
39:48
day. I
39:51
suggest to people to write letters
39:54
on your birthday or your child's birthday and keep them
39:56
in a box and then when they're 18, present
39:59
them with this series. of letters or
40:01
any type of written documentation
40:04
of what the day was or
40:07
where you're at in life or where
40:09
you observe they're at because then they
40:11
can put a where you've been and
40:13
where you're at now and look
40:16
back on it and even the most mundane things
40:18
like we stayed at home today and you know
40:20
just had a cozy snow day inside of our
40:22
living room or we went to this museum or
40:24
we you know traveled to
40:26
this place and whatever
40:28
it is or you know today you
40:31
spoke your first word and it was
40:33
bird and I
40:35
know that that sounds like the bigger stuff
40:38
I'm trying to reach into the mundane you
40:40
know it turns out you don't like corn
40:42
anymore right right their life through your eyes
40:44
in a series of years is a very
40:46
powerful thing well that's a beautiful try this
40:48
at home thank you so thank you so
40:51
much for coming this is such a pleasure
40:53
I feel like we could talk all day
40:55
now you've got lots of fabulous stuff to
40:57
do I don't know much for coming but
40:59
I feel like I just need to say
41:01
thank you so much to both of you
41:04
because you have built a temple about
41:07
commercializing and celebrating the
41:09
emotion of happiness which
41:13
I love the happiness
41:15
project and I have
41:17
carried your book with me through countries
41:20
and cities and savored it and cherished
41:22
it and learned from
41:24
it and related to it and
41:26
been inspired by it and it's
41:28
not easy to build something as
41:31
impactful as what you guys have done
41:33
and I congratulate you and I thank
41:35
you oh well thank you thank you
41:37
so much you
41:48
Elizabeth wasn't that fun so fun
41:50
you know she's exactly what I
41:53
expected from her book no I know
41:55
exactly what you mean like she's she's
41:57
full of energy and she's so interested
42:00
I'm interested in everything and I
42:02
love that line about the rainbows or skittles. Yes.
42:06
Yes. It's like perfect summing up. Is it a rainbow
42:08
or is it a skittle? Yes. Small
42:11
panko cookbook. This
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message is sponsored by Greenlight. As
42:21
your kids get older, some things about parenting
42:23
get easier. They can dress
42:26
themselves. They can clean up after
42:28
themselves, allegedly. Other things
42:30
don't, like having conversations about money. The
42:32
fact is kids won't really know how
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We're back. Okay, Demerits and Gold
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Stars. Elizabeth, you're up for a Demerit. Okay,
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Gretch. This week, my
45:36
demerit is once again
45:38
in the arena of
45:40
Christmas decorations. I've
45:43
mentioned that Adam and I are doing
45:45
work on our house. Right now, we're
45:47
working on our guest bathroom. In
45:50
the closet of our guest bathroom is where
45:52
I keep all the Christmas decorations. And
45:54
right now, there's a sheet
45:57
of plastic over the doorway
45:59
to the closet to protect it.
46:02
And somehow that plastic is
46:04
like this barrier to entry
46:06
for me in terms of
46:09
getting my Christmas decorations. So
46:12
I feel like I can't
46:14
get my Christmas decorations or I'm using
46:16
it as a loophole not to get
46:18
out my Christmas decorations. So
46:20
I haven't decorated. Well, this
46:22
has to do with the strategy of
46:24
inconvenience. And it turns out that we're
46:26
anytime something is slightly more inconvenient, it
46:28
acts as a major deterrent. Like
46:30
even something that you're like, why does it matter? It
46:32
doesn't it doesn't even matter at all. And yet it
46:35
does matter. And that's why if
46:37
there's something we want to do, we
46:39
want to make it as convenient as
46:41
possible. Yeah, I should mention that the
46:43
same there's also plastic separating the treadmill
46:45
from the rest of the room.
46:48
And that also has been a hindrance to my
46:50
getting on the treadmill. So
46:53
the lesson is cut through the plastic. Yeah, do
46:55
it now. But fortunately, you're gonna go
46:57
to Kansas City where our mother has more
46:59
Christmas decorations than anyone can possibly imagine.
47:01
And so you will be surrounded by
47:03
Christmas here. Good enough. Yes. And so
47:06
will Jack. So that'll be great. Yeah.
47:08
All right, that's my demerit. What's your
47:10
gold star this week? So I want
47:12
to give a gold star to temporary
47:14
tattoos. I just love temporary tattoos. This
47:16
is like a new thing. They didn't
47:18
really have them when we were little.
47:20
We were really into scratch and sniffs,
47:22
which I think there's a lot to be done with scratch and
47:25
sniffs. But I really love
47:27
temporary tattoos because they're they're like such
47:29
a fun, quick hit. Yeah, you
47:31
know, they're they're cheap. They're
47:33
temporary. So you know, it's like a low
47:35
commitment. But everybody,
47:38
I mean, my daughters get a huge kick out
47:40
of them. They both have huge collections of temporary
47:42
tattoos. And I just feel like, you
47:44
know, sometimes my daughter, you know, if she's got a
47:46
big game for lacrosse, or she's got a big test,
47:48
they'll put on a temporary tattoo for luck. And I
47:50
don't know, I just think they're a fun, inexpensive,
47:54
little lift. Yeah. And they're getting
47:56
more and more creative all the
47:58
time, like in more interesting. They used
48:00
to just be kind of like the twosy ones that
48:02
you would get in your gift bag for a child's
48:04
party. But I just think
48:07
that they're sort of like a great little
48:09
thing. So gold star at temporary tattoos. And
48:13
that's it for this episode of Happier. Remember
48:15
to try this at home. Cultivate
48:18
an end-of-the-year ritual. What's
48:20
your ritual? Let us know. We need
48:22
ideas. We need end-of-year rituals ourselves. And
48:24
thank you to our fantastic guests, Drew
48:27
Barrymore. And you know what? I wanted
48:29
to mention my favorite line in her
48:31
book. And I forgot to bring it
48:33
up, which was she said about an
48:35
anecdote of this very kind of haunting anecdote. She
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said, I haven't thought about this in
48:40
so long, but even so, it
48:42
haunts me daily. And
48:45
I just resonated with
48:47
me so much. So anyway,
48:49
the book Wildflower, it's fascinating.
48:52
I think I read it in one day. So
48:54
anyway, it was great to have her on the
48:56
show. And thank you to our
48:58
producer, Henry Milosky. Also, thanks to
49:00
Andy Bowers and Laura Mayer of
49:02
Panably. Get in touch.
49:04
Gretchen's on Twitter at Gretchen Rubin
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and I'm at Elizabeth Craft. Our
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email address is podcast at gretchenrubin.com.
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If you like this show, please
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remember, the paperback of Better Than Before
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to get a free chapter. Until next
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week, I'm Elizabeth Craft. And I'm Gretchen
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Rubin. Thanks for joining us. Hope to
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see you in San Francisco on January
49:36
21st at our first live event onward
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and upward. Well,
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we hope you're feeling more happier after
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this episode. We had so much
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fun revisiting this fascinating conversation. It
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was fun to go back to
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that time. We hope you enjoyed
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